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writes:my boyfriend and i have been looking for ways to spice things up in the bedroom. i recently found one of my old cheerleading uniforms from high school and discovered that i can still fit into it...and i'm thinking that it might be fun to try a little bit of roleplay. plus, he's never actually seen me in a cheer uniform other than in pictures, and i kind of want him to since i always used to feel so pretty in my uniforms (lame, stupid, and cheesy, i know). but seeing as how i've never done that before, i'm pretty much clueless about how to proceed...especially since i was never the "slutty cheerleader" type or anything like that. does anyone have any ideas on how i could go about putting on a sexy, exciting, kinky show for him? if it helps, i can still cheer and dance, even though i've lost quite a bit of my flexibility. and sadly? i no longer have my pom-poms.lol...i would greatly appreciate any ideas!! thank you in advance!! ") Reply to this Question
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (16 June 2014):
Don't let people pour cold water on a harmless bit of fun by their equating it with 'performances' or a taste for teenaged girls or advising you to dress the way their own sexual fantasies run. Experiment away and enjoy yourselves.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (13 June 2014):
 I find putting on a show to be unnatural, and therefore a turn off. Why? It’s not something people do unless you are a striper or work somewhere that requires it. I rather a natural approach, such as… Cheerleading uniform…girlfriend walking around naturally, but not caring how she sits. Not bothering to take care of not showing her undies…oops silly her. When he tries to touch you, be the oh so shy girl who has never done anything like that before. What if you get caught, what would your friends say. Every time he goes for your boobs or Southern reign, you gentle push his hands away, while trying to get away from him.Then agree ever so shyly to let him touch you as long as he doesn’t tell anyone. And remind him not to get his stuff on your uniform.;) You don’t want your friends to know. You can’t believe you are doing this.This encourages the case, making him work. And that will keep him interested.No pictures…let him remember with his mind.
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (13 June 2014):
Have you guys done role play before? If not, you might want to go slow and see how he reacts. It's not everyone's cup of tea. Personally I love the cheerleader idea. Back in high school I used to watch them carefully thinking there was a chance that I might get to see something I wasn't supposed to. That's a big part of the allure for a lot of guys, so you could work with that.
I'm reminded of one of the more erotic stories I ever came across, where a young girl strained a muscle in her thigh while doing something athletic, and had a guy massage her. Again, that's something you might be able to work with.
Good luck -- he's a very lucky guy!
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reader, RevMick +, writes (13 June 2014):
 Hi,
Don't know about cheerleader outfit, unless he has a fetish for teenage girls?
I find it best to go for the Dita Von Teese look. A black bra, black thong or panties and fishnet stockings. If you don't have fishnets a simple pair of black sheer tights would work.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (13 June 2014):
 I don't think a cheer leading outfit is in the sexy league. You could improviize tho. Stick hype pom-poms onto your boobs. Wear same colore thong and add some pull up fish nets. Now I know that would work every time for my partner. Good luck!
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reader, Mark1978 +, writes (12 June 2014):
 Hello,
Sounds like a fun idea!! I was thinking something similar - however I no longer fit into my little boy scouts uniform after 30 odd years, plus its not very sexy :-(
My GF suggested a cheerleader uniform to spice up our sex life. I got the uniform, paid for it, got hold of some Pom Poms and disappointingly it didn't have the desired effect at all...thinking about it now I think maybe SHE wanted to be the one wearing it? Still I think I was at good waving my pom poms about.
Seriously, some men like women in uniform, others do not. Whether your man would be driven wild or not by such a thing is something to find out though! Perhaps tease him before hand about having a special surprise for him and asking him if he would like to know how sexy and innocent you were at High School. Tell him you are going to take him back in time to when you were soooo innocent ;-)
Cheerleaders are very much an American thing, we don't have them here in England. I am guessing from American Tv that its bright colours, shortish pleated skirt, trainers (sneakers) and the like? I guess you have three options available - either dirty, slutty cheerleader; good girl being turned bad by your partner type of cheerleader; or an "Oh Mr I do hope your not trying to take advantage of my innocence?" (cue innocent look) type of cheerleader. Only you know which of these he would like.
Is there any events in his life coming up soon? A birthday, or a sports event? Something you could use to cheer him on ;-) when he gets home? I don't think it matter that you have lost a bit of flexibility as he will probably be too horny to be judging your pom pom technique! The fact you obviously feel sexy in your uniform will make it easier...women (or men) wearing an outfit just bought for sex can be a bit awkward, but your own clothes you are used to wearing and feel comfortable in, can make it a much easier thing to do.
Mark
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