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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

He slept with THREE different women while on a road trip. His excuse was "He had needs". I'm very hurt. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - this past summer my boyfriend went on a month long road trip with his buddies. i stayed home to work for tuition money, so i couldnt go along. he called me everyday and we talked for a while. i never suspected anything bad was going on. but just a ...

Did he go too far or is it my fault? I feel somewhat violated although we did not have sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Ok this is kind of an awkward question to ask but I need to know. Today I hooked up with this kid. I'm really not very experienced but this seemed odd to me. The minute we started kissing he tried to unzip my pants and made it clear that he wanted ...

My period is starting just before I'm suppose to meet my boyfriend for a romantic trip away. How can I tell him I can't sleep with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Hi! I was just wondering if anyone had any advice. I'm meeting my boyfriend for a romantic night away in 2 days but my period is just about to start. I have a really irregular cycle at the moment so there was no way i thought it would come this ...

Do condoms really work?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Okay so im really in love with my boyfriend and we want to have sex. Im scared the condom may break and so is he. He has everything going for him amaazing soccer player, super hot, and smart. He feels like it would be one of those " he had ...

How can I tell if I'm too loose down below?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - i hear some of the guys out in the pub talk about girls being really loose down bellow, how can i tell if im 1 of them? do you get it from having 2 much sex?...

My boyfriend ejaculates too quickly all the time, how do I help this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a year. We have sex fairly regularly, between one to four times a week. His problem is that most of the time he comes to soon. He likes to make sure I have an orgasm everytime we have sex, he's a ve...

We are 'friends with benefits'...Is that all he sees me as?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - hey all! Ok this might sound confusing or something but id really like your veiws... K....... I met this guy on the internet around 5 years ago he's 31 and im 20,and he's what you can call a friend with benefits. We've been sleeping togethe...

My friend is 7 months pregnant and in denial, after hiding the pregnancy from everyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I've just found out my friend is 7 months pregnant - but she's kept the pregnancy a secret from everyone - family, friends, the father of the child (it was a one night stand with a friend). She's in total denial and won't talk to anyone about it....

My girlfriends want sex but I'm scared I'll feel guilty

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6161 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - Hi, I am 23 I have two girlfriends who wants to have sex with me. but i fear guilty after having sex with them. although I am interested in sex with them. We dont have a long time plan or marriage plan as such. but fear of guilt after sex ...

I ejaculate too soon, please help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - Hi I've just turned 17 and me and my girlfriend have started having sex. Everythings fine and i have an erection and then we start doing it and i ejaculate in less than 1 minute. I dunno whats going on. Sometimes i can only last for 30 seconds a...

When should I tell a man that I have HPV?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - I am a 21 year old single female and i was just wondering when to tell a man im interested in that i have an STD. I dont want to scare him off (im pretty sure i have done that in the past) by doing it too soon, but i dont want him to think i was ...

Where is the clit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - hey, im 13 and i would like to know... what and where is the clit (clitoris) please be specific when explaining thanx...

We both want to have sex, but I am not great in bed, she on the other hand has a lot of experience, its burning me up inside, help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for almost two months now, and we really want to have sex, but I'm dead afraid! We love each other and that is for certain. I am not a virgin, I just know that I am not that great at bed. She is younger than me and still ...

The distinction between different types of sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I have a question regard different types of partnered sex. What are the differences between rough sex, a quickie, tender sex, soulful sex, and lovemaking? Many people may have a different definition. Could you tell of some fun activities to do with ...

I'm still a virgin wife!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - hi evry body i really feel i am so depressed i keep crying i am married women i love my husband like crazy and he too but the problem is i am still a virgin after 8 moths of narried he scared to hurt me and once he try its just not stand any more i ...

His mistress is pregnant and is threatening-- that my husband cannot see his child if he remains with me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I found out about a year ago that my husband was having an affair. I was devestated. However we dealt with it and I forgave him. After he broke up with her, things were to my knowledge really good, and I felt like we were going to make it. However ...

I am 15 and pregnant I need advice how to tell my mom

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - i am 15 years old and 15 weeks pregnant i dont know how to tell my mom and i told a lady that has been helping me through all this i would tell her within my winter break which will end on the 7th i am scared my mom will hate my boyfiend and there ...

Married 8 months and sex still hurts. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - i am 19 and have been married for 8 months and it still hurts like crazy every time my husband and i have sex. any advice on this!...

How do I help her see that she's going to get hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - One of my good friends is friends w/ benefits with one of her guy friends, and she really likes him. And she told him the way she feels, like everytime she sees him it makes her day better, etc. etc. And he said "well that's nice to know. i'm ...

Any ideas on how to achieve an orgasm?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I have lots of sex with my boyfriend, and I really do enjoy it. The only problem is that although I get really close to having an orgasm I seem to be on the edge for a while (especially during oral) and then stop having any feeling at all without ...

I'm not sure if I 'love her' and am worried I am rushing into things too fast here. Any help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - Hi there I'm going out with this girl in my year at school and things so far are going good. We've gotten close really quick but, e.g. i've not even been going out with her a month and we've alredy went further than getting off (snogging) an the f...

How do I tell her I don't want sex, without her thinking there's another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - Ok as strange as this might sound i am not really interested in having sex, don't get me wrong i enjoy it very much and my girlfriend has a very high sex drive so we constantly have sex. the problem however is that no matter how safe we are i wo...

Does this sound like an orgasm??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm 18 Years old. Recently started rubbing and tickling my clit. After a few minutes i get a strong urge to pee and my body tenses up. I can also feel and see my vagina beating. Is all this normal ? Does it sound like an orgasm ?...

We have been together five years...but I rarely orgasm.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Hey, I asked a question before about my boyfriend and I. But now, even thowe the question is still revolving around the two of us, I was wondering something about...sex. Okay, we have been making love for quite sometime now... But, I was wonde...

How do I ask my girlfriend about taking our relationship further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for just over a month now, we're both 15. We're both sensible and intelligent so we're not gonna try anything major for a while and we both know where we stand on this because we were both in a conversation with a load ...

Sex at the wrong time(too early)? I feel I've complicated our situation by over-analysing it, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - OK everyone, here goes with a daft question more to do with younger people, instead of a middle aged woman! I have recently separated and joined a dating site; met up with a local guy and visited him, just after Xmas. He sent a lot of emails an...

Will the pill still work in given circumstances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - HI, just a quick question regarding the pill. 5 days after my girlfriend finished her period, we had sex and i came inside her, she has been on the pill for about 3 years now, i was just wondering, will the pill still work, is there some sort of ...

How do I get my girlfriend to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - how do you get my guil frend to have sex with me...

Any advice on what to do with my hymen problem????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Heya. I used a tampon once and it really hurt me. So i haven't done it since. My boyfriend and i are thinking about sex but i am really scared of the pain. I did horseback riding for 8 years and i have done football, but my hymen is still ...

I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched me there and may have felt my pubic hair. Should I feel embarassed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched my down there and I think he felt my pubes. I'm so humiliated and I think he is going to tell kids at school. What should I do?...

Why won't she even let me take her shirt off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - K, so I'm just wondring why the girl I'm dating won't tongue kiss, and won't go past kissing at all. We've gone on 5 dates now, and talk all the time, but she won't tongue kiss, her version of making out is just repetitive pecks, which I'm cool w...

Why won't he pleasure me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - dear agony aunt i really hope you can help. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i have noticed at the beginging of the relationship he is so greedy in the bedroom its all about him. i will pleasure him but when its his ...

I lost my virginity a while back and it hurt A LOT, but it didn't bleed, is that normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend about two months ago.. it was hurting alot. and i mean ALOT! but i didnt blead.. idk why because hes realy big.. about 10 in or 10 1/2 yet even thow i was in so much pain i didnt bleed.. is that normal?...

I'm scared the condom may break, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 months. We are completly in love with each other. I lost my verginity to his friend 5 months ago. it wasnt as special as it should have been. I love my current boyfriend and want to have sex with ...

Do I end it... even although we're good together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - Well, my problem is that I'm with this girl who I reckon I've been seeing for about 4 weeks maybe more, and I feel we both feel really good together and have been enjoying being with each other but a day ago she told me that she got drunk at the ...

I'm having some disturbing dreams... Can anybody explain why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - Recently i have been having some disturbing dreams.It all started when i was searching for something in our loft. I found a shoe box with some photos of my mother before i was born. She was wearing a really skimpy dress and despite myself i got abit ...

I video taped my mother in the shower and masturbated while watching it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - Before I left for uni in September I did something horrible. I got drunk one night and hid in our airing cupboard in the bathroom. I waited for my mother to take a shower. I watched her undress and masturbated over her as she showered. I felt ...

Do the loudness and moans mean a higher level of enjoyment during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - My gf and I just had sex for the first time. Does the loudness and the amount of noises and moans mean a higher level of enjoyment? Do moans mean that I am satisfying her sexually?...

She wants sex with me, and her friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - hey ppl! i need some help here!! okay so i just broke up with my ex gf that i have dated for 3 years, we remain good friends and we have a mutual agreement that we can still have sex with each other even if we are seeing someone else..but since we ...

What would be the most unpainful position for my virgin girlfriend during sex? Other tips to reduce the hurt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - what would be the most unpainful position, for my girlfriend during sex? if the time comes i really dont want to hert her, what is the best way to make it as painless as possible for her? i would do enything, to keep from hurting her if i...

To girls: Do you prefer a shaved chest or hairy chest? Shaved pubic hair or just trimmed?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - What do you girls like more, a Shaved chest or one with hair? And same question about pubic hair: Shaved completely or just trimed? ...

Sex in the laundry room. Your experiences, recommendations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - My lover and I are exploring new places around the house for having sex. We want to try doing it in the laundry room. What is your experience with sex in a laundry room? What sex positions work well in the laundry room? Have you done it on the ...

I am looking forward to college parties. Is there a best place at parties to have sex with a random guy you have just met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I will be in college soon. I look forward to college parties. I hear they are hot. Let's say while I am at a college party I find a cute guy. We can touch, kiss, and make out at the parties. What if we want to have sex at one of the parties? At the ...

I'm a virgin and my boyfriend and I feel ready to have sex. Just a few questions.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I feel ready to have sex. Just a few questions..... Approximately how long will it hurt after we've had sex? (I'm a virgin) He's had sex before, and I don't know what position would be most comfortable. Should we stick wit...

How can I give my boyfriend really good head?

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - How can I give my boyfriend really good head? I've only done it once with another guy, and need ways to figure out how to make him feel good even though I can't deep throat. Thanks....

I've told my bf I'm not ready to have sex yet, but he keeps texting me sex related texts. When I confront him he says he is only joking, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - im 14 and i have a boyfriend who is turning 15 in two months yesterday i was text messaging with him and me asked if i had ever had sex, i said no. He asked me if i would like to have sex with him, i was shoked and alarmed, i picked up my phone an...

I'm ready to give my bf a handjob but I'm scared I don't know how, please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and i am ready to do stuff. thing is i have never givern a handjob or blowjob - even tho he thinks i have! my friends say its fine, but readin some of the questions and answers on here have really made me ...

My gf loves handjob me and she likes me touching her, but she never shows me anything, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - well me and my gf been going out for about 5 month and she always love going down on me and handjob me but she like me touching her but she never show me nothink im not to worried about it just wondering why this is....

Since my thrush cleared up I don't get wet anymore...any ideas why? I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm cheating or don't fancy him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6166 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 monthes, and between september and november i had thrush but now i know the cause of this it was from perfumed soap, but it has cleared up now... anyway since it has cleared up everytime i have sex with my ...

How do you have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - how do u have sex?...