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female
age
30-35,
*ekoyuki15
writes:Hey, I asked a question before about my boyfriend and I. But now, even thowe the question is still revolving around the two of us, I was wondering something about...sex.Okay, we have been making love for quite sometime now... But, I was wondering something very personal about myself and was wondering too if anyone had any advice, tips, reasonings (or w/e). Okay, even though he have made love plenty of times before... I don't really orgasm *blushes*. We've been together almost 5 years! Have been love making for about 3, and I've only ever had 3 orgasms with him (once during fore-play, and 2 during sex) But they took a looong time and I almost broke him! (If you know what I mean...) It's embaressing and sometimes I fake one just so he can feel good about himself and not make him feel like he's terible. What can I do? I've even tried 'pleasuring myself' to see if that would help and even that takes a long time? I don't know... what's wrong with me? Am I the only one?... Geeze, asking this is embaressing *blushes*... Please, any answers would be nice.. Thank you for your time... (sorry, the question is long, I think I broke a rule... :( - )
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reader, elliebellie  +, writes (30 December 2007):
hi hun!
first of all please dont be embarassed. :) its fine. a lot of people have the same problem. i dont have that much experience about it but i have read that it does help if you self pleasure. there is a very good website called www.clitical.com. it has lots of people techniques and tips about how to orgasm. there's nothing wrong with you and i think the more you self pleasure, the quicked you will orgasm. and then you could maybe link this into the sex.
i hope this helps.
feel free to mail me about anything else you want to talk about.
lol
ellie
xxx
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