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How do I tell her I don't want sex, without her thinking there's another girl?

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Question - (30 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *elpingHand7 writes:

Ok as strange as this might sound i am not really interested in having sex, don't get me wrong i enjoy it very much and my girlfriend has a very high sex drive so we constantly have sex.

the problem however is that no matter how safe we are i worry about the risk of pregnancy so the solution ive come to is to stop having sex until we are both ready to accept the risks.

So my question is how do i tell her i dont want sex without pushing her away or making her think theres another girl?

I've already lost a different relationship over the issue of sex and dont want to lose another.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007):

Do not tell her, but sort your issue out. your paranoia will get her angry. ask her what she would do if she was to find herself pregnant. most likely abortion if it is not serious. if you ask her to stop sex she will feel like she isnt physically attractive. she could use contraception methods which lasts a year .you will have to ask your doctor for more information.

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