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reader, sexyirish  +, writes (30 December 2007):
start off with phone sex and see how she reacts to it and let her tell you when she wants or needs you
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reader, skcnepal_ku  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 it can be guessed from your smile also and her attitudeafter all sex a natural need and it needs privacy as well give trust to all that is important try it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): Try being romantic and as said see what happens. Take things slow, and be the gentleman.
If you've talked about it before/made suggestions and shes knocked you back, give her time - you've made it clear you are interested and she'll let you know when she is.
If its something that hasn't come up between you both as a couple, as is said below, take her out for a meal etc etc, and perhaps if you're kissing at home alone try and remove an article of her clothing, but do it very slowly. give her time to realise what you are doing, and if she brushes you off, either subtly or not, do as above. but if she lets you then proceed and who knows. Guess it also depends on how intimate you've been already without actually having sex.
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reader, christiana +, writes (28 December 2007):
You need to wait until she is ready to have sex with you. Do not force her into something that she is not ready to do. Just initiate patience, if she is really feeling you, you will get sex in the bedroom.
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Take things one step at a time, sometime's it works better if these things are unplanned. Like maybe after a nice meal and you are kissing and cuddling on the sofa, and one thing leads to another is the best way for it to happen. Don't ask for it, i think alot of woman would be put off by a guy asking, so just let it happen when the time and the mood take you there, you will both know when the time is right.
Good luck
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reader, Amywiglet +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Lol well if you have asked her and she said know it could be because she's scared or because she just feels she's not ready, if you love her then be patient and wait for her, and definitely don't pressure. And if you haven't asked, ask and see what happens. Hope it helped, Amy xx
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