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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched my down there and I think he felt my pubes. I'm so humiliated and I think he is going to tell kids at school. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): Don't worry deary,
its normal for "humans" to have pubic hair :P
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reader, Passthrough +, writes (29 December 2007):
 Dont feel so embarassed- Some guys (Like myself) dont really care, even for some friction with good old in-the-middle stubble! My last girlfriend was immensly pre-occupied with keeping me away from her legs when she didnt feel like shaving them, when I really didnt care. I just liked being able to touch them :-DIf he likes you like he should, he should therefor like everything about you, even your hairy parts when you dont feel much like shaving. But, keep in mind, is can validly say his preference to your being shaved or not, just as you are his body; wethere you then continue to shave or not is entirely up to you.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Hun first of if you think hes going to tell people at school you obviously dont trust him so why are you letting someone you dont trust touch you down theresecondly pubes are natura if he DID say t anyone they'd probs just say"And....?"Pubes are natural adn we all get them x
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reader, lovinjake +, writes (28 December 2007):
hi ure bf shouldt tell people if he does hes not really a good bf a bf should be some one who suports u not some one who puts u down its somthing evey girl goes through im eleven and ive started and wht was he doin fellin down there was u havin sex or somthing
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reader, maggie1987 +, writes (28 December 2007):
 everyone has pubes even your boyfreind if he tells people u have pubes then u just say to them well he hasnt got any so hes not a man. puberty is the sign of a young man or woman growing up so dnt be emmbarassed everyone has them
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): What should you do? Hmmmmmm...... Well I'd say if your worried about him telling people at school about it, then don't let him do it. And being self concious about having pubes is just plain silly. That's how we were born, we're supposed to have pubes, it's natural. If he's got a problem with you having pubes then he's not a very smart guy and he's certainly not worthy of touching your goodies. Not to mention, in my opinion you're too young to be letting anyone touch your goodies anyway. But I'm sure you are aware of that and there's nothing I can say to change your mind. Good luck and don't be so worried about your pubes. God made us the way we are and we are all beautiful. Good luck sweetie!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (28 December 2007):
 He's got pubes, everyone has pubes. If he thinks it's funny or whatever to have a little pube action, then he's clearly an idiot. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Hair is the most natural thing ever, and a little bit is awesome.
NO WORRIES! Your body is amazing, love it and embrace it.
xx India
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (28 December 2007):
 just ignore them. hes a fool if he thinks its funny or clever
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reader, dc.ryan +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Pubic hair is totally natural, we all get it - its nothing to be embaressed about and so what if he felt it? I very much doubt he'll tell people at school about your pubic hair, if hes your boyfriend he'll respect you for what you have - and no doubt he has the same!
You're worrying over nothing :)
Ryan
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reader, lovehate +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Why should you be humiliated?? It's your body. Different boys/men like different things! He could have even prefered it!
And i doubt he will say anything to the kids at school. Don't panic. Just act as though it never happened. I'm sure it won't be brought up again.
Take care. x
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reader, mama2three +, writes (28 December 2007):
 LOL, everyone has pubic hair...why does it matter if he felt them?!?!?!
I know more guys that are freaked out by shaved areas than guys who are freaked out by pubic hair!
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