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anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 months. We are completly in love with each other. I lost my verginity to his friend 5 months ago. it wasnt as special as it should have been. I love my current boyfriend and want to have sex with him. We are both scared that the condom may break. what should i do? (Im 15...was 14 when i lost it he is almost 18)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): I was talking to 2 of my friends tonight who have sex pretty frequently and they have never had a condom break. If i love my boyfriend as much as i do..then im pretty sure ill be fine with just a condom =] i think im gonna do it new years eve..wish me luck please
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reader, red1982  +, writes (28 December 2007):
It is illegal for you both to be having sex when he is 18 and you are only 15. Try to see if you can wait until you are 16. Then you won't have to be worried about him getting into trouble.
That's my lecture done with (sorry). Condoms are pretty safe, just make sure that you both know how to put one on properly, you have to squeeze the air out of the tip.
Also use some lubricant - you can but this from boots, superdrug, chemists etc, but make sure that it is safe to use with condoms. Durex make their own lubricants (with different taste etc) that are safe to use and KY jelly is also a good one.
You can also buy extra safe condoms - although men say they take away some of the sensitivity.
If you are worried about pregnancy go to your local family planning clinic and talk through contraception that you can take. It's free and confidential. They also give out free condoms. And they won't refuse to see you because of your age either. Have a look through the telephone directory or talk to your GP or school, they will have the contact details.
Good luck to you both
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