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I lost my virginity a while back and it hurt A LOT, but it didn't bleed, is that normal?

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Question - (28 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend about two months ago.. it was hurting alot. and i mean ALOT! but i didnt blead.. idk why because hes realy big.. about 10 in or 10 1/2 yet even thow i was in so much pain i didnt bleed.. is that normal?

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A female reader, Crisy United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2008):

Crisy agony auntDont worry about it, i lost my virginity afew months ago. It hurt like hell but i didnt bleed either, its totally normal.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007):

it is normal to not bleed the your first time. I lost my virginity about 5 months ago and it didnt hurt tooo bad but still there was pain. i too didnt bleed and my friends mom is a dr. i talked to her about it and she said it was totally normal and that the way he put his penis in it just didnt stretch the part that usually rips. dont worry it's all good

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (28 December 2007):

They say it's not unusual. The consensus is that the bleeding usually comes from a ruptured hymen. Not all girls bleed when this happens, and there are several common reasons why first intercourse might not rupture your hymen. Much of the pain, on the other hand, is believed to come from your vaginal muscles being stretched to receive your partner's erection. So yes, you could have a lot of discomfort with little or no bleeding.

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A female reader, mojoturner13 United States +, writes (28 December 2007):

As far as i know, it is normal for some girls not to bleed. The first time you have sex, some girls bleed a lot and heavily and others don't. I don't think it's anything to worry about!!!

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