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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

She lost the baby and she is crying and very upset. How do I comfort and support her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - When we found out she was pregnant, it was a shock, she was excited but i was not so keen as i didn't ever see myself having kids. I got used to the idea and got excited and we went to look at baby clothes on the weekend and we had our first 12...

She's messing with my head even though she says she's not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - Me and my ex split up in march, she fell pregnant with my child and she is 4 months gone. We are trying to get back together or try and attempt but its going wrong all the time. We always argue, she never trusts me and wont let me do anthing wi...

My girlfriend is snooping on me via google!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - not sure what to do here, but my gf had found out about an abortion approx 4-5 years ago in a previous relationship she got upset at me because its something important i failed to tell jer, she said she wasnt checking up on me, but googled my n...

I had a period every month but dr. told me I'm 4 months pregnant! Has this happened to anyone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - Yesterday I went to my gynea and he told me I'm 4 months preg. Wat confuses me is that I've been having my periods every month and except for a growing stomach I'v had no symptom o reason to bliv m pregnant. My dr was puzzled too did sum ...

My feelings for him are strong. His actions indicate he doesn't care. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I know i need to split up with my boyfriend, he is constantly out with his friends even though he has no job. We have a child together and when he is out im stuck in the house myself with no one to speak to, it has gotten so bad that it has driv...

In my 20s but trying to deal with my infertility issues, leading to depression. What can I do to help me face this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. So, I have fertility problems or I'm likely to have them. I'm in my early 20's. I've been having many issues with my period since late 2010, by then I was going thru a really stressing time. Before this I was more or less regular, I d...

Should a pregnant woman be having a discharge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Hi every1, pls, is this normal 4 a pregnant woman to b dischargin a whitish fluid in her private part?...

Tried for 18 months. Still not pregnant. What else can my husband and I do to make it happen? Please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - hi, we are trying from 1 and half year with my husband, we are trying for pregnant and i want to get pregnant soon, within 1 month.please tell me what else to try?....

I don't know who the father is, should I terminate or give it up for adoption?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - Heya, i just found out I'm pregant but I dont know who the father is, I went to butlins about four weeks ago and I sleet with 3 boys, ( I didn't know them or talk any numbers or anything) a week later I slept with two more boys, ( I know these b...

Now I'm in this predicament. But does he still love this other girl? Or is he just a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (21) has told me he has had 3 past girlfriends (N, G, M) and that he's had sex with only 2 of them and he doesnt even remember who he fucked G or M. Those supposedly are the only girls he has had sex with and also the first girl he lost ...

Love, virginity, scared. How do I deal with my fears about losing my virginity with my BF?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - So I'm a virgin a complete utter virgin, but I think I might be too childish or I am thinking too childish about sex. My body is telling me it wants to but my head is saying different. I'm not scared of having sex, I'm just scared of what my ...

Could this make someone pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

26 July 2012 (M) - My girlfriend touched me and then touched the outside of her underwear lightly. I had noticed some pre-ejaculate earlier that was on my underwear. She noticed that she was a bit 'wet' afterwards from herself. She did not feel any liquid from me. It ...

How to deal with a meddling sister of a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - How to deal with a meddling sister of a boyfriend? My question is due to the fact that my boyfriend's sister who has never had a baby and is younger than me yet assumes she knows everything there is to know about me and my pregnancy. I am abou...

I had sex the day before ovulating, does that mean I could be pregnant?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

24 July 2012 (F) - Hey. I'm new to this site. I need help. I know my body very well and I've done tests to see when I ovulate and it just so happens that I had sex a day before ovulating and that's the day you are most likely to fall pregnant? So, we did the deed and...

I got pregnant and had an abortion and the guy accused me of forcing myself on him and said that I had got pregnant on purpose. I'm crushed..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

24 July 2012 (F) - I am 25 years old I know that I don't have the greatest self esteem, and I've never had a boyfriend ever. All of my friends have had someone who is willing to be in a relationship with them and call them their girlfriend. I have never had that, no ...

My fiance lied and never told me his ex had been pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - I am 7 weeks pregnant, living with my fiance who I have been with for 3 years but only lived with for the last 2 and half years. When we found out we were pregnant my fiance was beyond excited...I on the other hand am a ball of mixed emotions. Last ...

Unexpected pregnancy, my children would be less than a year apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

20 July 2012 (F) - hi everyone im in a very hard posistion atm, last nite ive just found out im pregnent, the only trouble is ive already got a 3 month old daughter, and the baby would b due around 21st march 3 weeks before my daughters 1st bday,, the thing is...

My pregnant girlfriend admitted that one of the main reasons she is with me is my looks and that she 'needs a daddy for her baby'. Have I got myself into a pickle here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

20 July 2012 (M) - Thanks for reading - I couldn't sleep last night as all this was in my head and not sure what to think. I met my girlfriend about 4 months ago through a friend and we hit it off right away. She had been with a jerk for 3 years ( they broke up 6 ...

My complicated love life? Or is it Lust? I need help please to sort this out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - i started talking to this guy from my old school that i have a crush on well used to now, we texted And inboxed each other on facebook. i started saying i had a crush on him he said he did too , then i started sending him naked pics of my self ...

Is it possible to go to a clinic to terminate this pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - Scared to go to the doctors to ask for a abortion. I have just discovered I am a few wks pregnant. This is a massive mistake, I already have 3 kids and split with my partner 7 mths ago. We have 2 kids already and split up because he couldn't commit ...

I'm worried about my pregnant friend, can someone help me, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - dear aunts and uncles, im 15 and really scared for my friend who is the same age. a while ago she started acting really weird like she didnt want to see any of her friends and she dumped her boyfriend who she has been with for 2 years for no reason. ...

How and where to set up boundaries?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - We've been together for a year and half and been living together for almost a year. I met him 2 years ago while he was separating from his ex. We first became great friends before we got together and I also helped him to get through the hard tim...

I didn't sign on for benefits but I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do or not!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - I got married in April to the most wonderful man in the world, I was 41 and he was 47. It's both our first marriage and we couldn't be happier. My contract for my job is temporary and I will not until Sept if it will be renewed. Therefore, I...

Why does childbirth hurt so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

18 July 2012 (F) - Why does childbirth hurt so much? I heard it's like breaking a dozen bones. Is it because the baby stretches out the vagina our puts pressure on the body? Please explain all the pains one feels when giving birth. I want to be ready....

My husband ogles other women, flirts with other women in front of me, and is mean about my body since I had our baby.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

16 July 2012 (F) - I had our baby 5 months ago. During my pregnancy, I was on serious bed rest, and meds, for 3 months, then after, I had to recover from Caesarean for another few months. I was approx 110lbs when I got pregnant, and gained quite a bit of weight due ...

Just as we were about to start IVF we found out I was pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

15 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just found out we are having a baby, which is amazing and a miracle, as we were on our journey of ivf, but found out the day before treatment started that I was pregnant.My boyfriend has been different towards me since we ...

Is this relationship worth all the pressure he is putting on me to have a baby and move in with his parents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

14 July 2012 (F) - Here is my story. My bf and I are in a slump and a lot of crap has happened between us and now I'm being pressured by him. I feel super lost right now. I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2 1/2 years and before all the trouble began, we had ...

My husband wants me to wait 6 years to have children but I'm all ready at 27

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

13 July 2012 (F) - So my husband and i had a huge argument about having children. He's 23 and I'm 27. We had spoken about it before we got married and i had stated quite clearly that (at 26) I didn't want to wait more than four years as i think having children late ...

My husband would rather look at porn than initiate sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) - Hi I am a mom of 3 and a working wife but I strive to do everything right in my relationship. However I have recentlyh found that my husband would rather look at porn than inniate sex. I take good care of myself and he tells me I'm beautiful so why ...

Girlfriend is pregnant and angry at me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (M) - I just found out that my girlfriend is pregnant. We're both just over the 40 mark, it was a major shock to me as I never, ever thought I would have children and because of our ages the odds were so slim. She already has 3 kids which can sometimes ...

Pregnant by an abusive drug addict! Help!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

9 July 2012 (F) - OK1 Here is goes! I am pregnant with a guy who is verbally abusive. He accuses me of sleeping with my neighbor who is gay. He looks at pictures I have sent him and see'sguys arms and condoms on my counter. He calls me every namein thebook you can ...

Did showing and explaining sex safety precautions really reassure her or just add more pressure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

9 July 2012 (M) - So I was just wondering if y'all though I did the right thing. Me and my gal have been getting closer and closer every time we are together. We do not have sex but we do fool around a bit, she lets me go farther with her than she lets herself go ...

Besides condoms are there any other precautions we can take to avoid pregnancy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months now and I would really like to take my relationship to the next level and have sex with him. I am not on any form of birth control, we have a condom. but is that enough? I'm scared something...

Has anyone gone through IVF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - Hello everybody, im starting my first round of icsi/ivf next week. We have waited so long for this day to come i cant believe its finally here. But im so scared and nervous, worried it wont happen. I know these are probably normal feelings. Has ...

Baby on the way. Student loans. Can you help by telling me how to cope with all this pressure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

6 July 2012 (M) - Hello, I'm 24 (almost 25), married, a recent college graduate, and in 9 months... A dad. I just found out today from my wife (who is almost 21 and who is starting her senior year of college in the fall) that she is pregnant. We are not ready for ...

Fathers in the delivery room: who should have the final say?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - I had an interesting conversation with my boyfriend earlier about fathers in the delivery room. I'd like to find out what others make of the issue! My boyfriend said he'd rather not be in present, but if the mother wanted him there he'd compl...

How do we tell our parents about this unplanned pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

5 July 2012 (M) - So...going from my previous posts, we have established my girlfriend of 3 months is pregnant and is refusing to have a termination or place the child up for adoption. She is 19 and i am 24. Lou hasn't met my parents yet, i have met her family l...

G/f and I won't be able to live together after baby is born. Its making me feel bad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

4 July 2012 (M) - ok, well my girlfriend has told me she is pregnant. We were careful, but the test says 3 plus so i think ( after reading up she maybe 5 weeks pregnant)... i don't want children but she has made up her mind to keep it with or without me, so i have no ...

She's 15 and pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

3 July 2012 (F) - I found out something. I'm not supposed to know, or to tell anyone, so i need to vent somewhere. Theres this girl in my grade. She's 15, and has a reputation of sleeping with a lot of guys, smoking pot, drinking, and i think she's done some drugs. ...

My girlfriend is pregnant, I never wanted kids but she wont have an abortion or give the child up for adoption. Where do I go from here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

3 July 2012 (M) - We got back from a holiday to Florida yesterday and the past few days she had been feeling sick - we put it down to something she ate or the heat but i got her a test to put my mind at rest. She did 2 in the airport in the morning and they came back ...

What can we do? I feel pressured into what names we should give our children

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

2 July 2012 (F) - I have recently become engaged with my boyfriend of 4 years and we've been having talks about when we'll start a family. He's named after his Father (who wasn't named after anybody) My partner's Grandfather was called a traditional name in the fami...

We've been dating 3 months and now she's pregnant. So now I feel it's all falling apart so. Will this work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

1 July 2012 (M) - We got back from a holiday to interstate yesterday and the past few days she had been feeling sick - we put it down to something she ate or the heat but i got her a test to put my mind at rest. She did 2 in the airport in the morning and they came ...

Why is he being so serious about wanting to say he loves me? or is he just saying it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

1 July 2012 (F) - This guy and I have been seeing each other for a couple of months now,and we have only just slept together for the first time, as i was pregnant ( not his) and he now wants to move in with me and my child,which he is very good with, we are both ...