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writes:hi everyone im in a very hard posistion atm, last nite ive just found out im pregnent, the only trouble is ive already got a 3 month old daughter, and the baby would b due around 21st march 3 weeks before my daughters 1st bday,, the thing is i was using protection and when talking to my partner with out saying anything to him yet about it he says its 2 soon and woukd have to get rid and wait untill shes older to have another one, as i said earlier i havent told him yet.. as soon as i found out i thoughtt right away i need to get rid its to soon, and would do it all a secret..plz can sumone advise me i need it :(does anyone else have this close together ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sinful_thinker89  +, writes (21 July 2012):
 There are benefits to having them close together but there are also cons. You just have to weigh out the options, i do totally understand my daughter is turning 1 at the end of the month and way before decided that I wanted to wait before even attempting to have another. I know a few friends who got pregnant right within the 6 weeks they were suppose to wait. I would have a serious sit down with the hubby and discuss everything, dont feel like you're alone on this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2012): Out of respect for your partner, you should tell him about the pregnancy. It may be the case that he will be on board. Personally, in my opinion, the closer together the better--that means I get all the kids out of the house sooner!
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