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Pregnancy: Help and advice

My b/f says it's the baby or him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Hi I am 14 wks pregnant and been in my relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years and we have a 5 year old son together. My boyfriend is not happy about this pregnancy and says he doesnt want anymore kids and is forcing me to choose between him and ...

My older friends are pregnant and it makes me want to have a baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Im 15 and i have older friends that is like 17, 18, and 19 and they are all pregnant and that makes me kinda want to have a baby because it seems like there life is good with the baby and the father. is that good for me to feel this way? should i ...

My friend is pregnant again, and I don't want to have to help financially again

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I'm probably going to get alot of backlash with what i'm about to write so I want you to read this post properly. I have been mates with this girl for about 10 years. In that time she has has 2 children that were accidents 1 of which I'm god...

Did she use me just to get pregnant? How do I stop the fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - hi me and my girl friend have been trying to have a kid her more than me and i almost feel like now that she is pregnant she got what she wants and is always taking me for granted i always been cooking and trying to make her feel good even when she ...

I'm pregnant and worried my lack of sex drive will force hubbie to see it elsewhere

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Im 36 weeks pregnan and sex has become a bit painful and uncomfortable for me and i no longer enjoy it. My husband realizes this and hasmade it a point to refrain from kissing and touching too much so that he doesn't crave sex altthough we still ...

Could I be pregnant? Could the pound-shop tests be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - here goes... about 9 weeks ago i lost my virginity, the boy never had a condom on and also i havent yet started my period. 68 hours later i got the morning after pill and took it! then 2 weeks ago i took a test which said i was not pregnant. ...

How can I lose weight and sexually satisfy my husband after giving birth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, My question is relatively simple. I just had a baby two weeks ago. Can someone tell me what really works to help get off the baby weight and help tighten the skin back up? Also, right now my husband and I cannot have sex for ...

We split up because he doesn't know what he wants, so should I stick around to find out or leave now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Im about one month pregnant me and my boyfriend are still living together but we broke up because he doesnt know what he wants. when his ex found out about me a year ago she started to call him more and more maybe because she didnt want him with my ...

Should I interfere in my daughter's relationship after the way he behaved or should I leave it alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I need some advice re my daughter. She is 21 and a student doing well at college. Unfortunately she got involved with a guy who although he seems quite sweet etc etc, is not working and not at college but after some pressure from her, is now ...

Pregnant and scared my daughter will feel left out once the new baby comes along...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I've just found out that im pregnant and i feel really guilty bout it. Im 28 and i have a 5 yr old daughter already from a previous 5 yr relationship. Ive been single for 3 yrs so its just been me and my daughter weve done so much together she such ...

Did my girlfriend just break up with me? I don't understand what happened!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

25 February 2010 (?) - My girl wants to have a baby with me. I was scared about this at first, but she wants it so much and I love to see her happy and see her smile, so I started to convince myself I was ready. But she got in my face last night about it, and finally ...

Please help me before I make the greatest mistake in life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - There is a girl i love, i stay in different country from her. I meet on dating site just 4 months before i travel back to my country to meet her. The first day we sex she get pregnant, now i am back to the country i work. And i do not intend to ge...

Our non existant sex life post abortion

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Hello again. I wrote previously about my abortion (see my other question - to those who responded it was much appreciated). This is a bit of a follow up but I am asking for help and advice again. I went through with the abortion last Saturday. ...

Please someone help, I'm scared I'll fall pregnant!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - please somebody, im begging you for urgent help :( im due on my period on the 3rd march, but tonight (23rd) i had sex with my partner and for some stupid reason i had unprotected sex with him - we never do, please don't ask my why :( he didnt pul...

He is a great father to our kids and they love him but I cant help but feel like hes settling for me,while desiring someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - when i was just barely 16 my mother and stepfather married for 15 years went through an extremely intense divorce. i went to stay with my biological father and there i met the future father of our 3 beautiful children. for 3 months it was great. i ...

I leant on my lower tummy, do you think my baby is OK?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Hi I'm 11 weeks pregnant and i stupidly leant on my lower tummy trying to close a window with my feet in the air. I am not a light girl but being healthy now cos of the pregnancy, mind i should have worked on being healthy before but what's done ...

On day 16 of my cycle, I took my pill a few hours late. Was that gap big enough for me to possibly end up pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I started taking my BC pill--Ortho Tri Nessa--at the end of November '09. My BF and I started having sex in the 3rd week of January '10. At the end of January, my period was very light. When I was on this pill before, I never noticed any chan...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I keep having moments where I really want to get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - ok i have been having some moments where out of the clear blue sky i want to get pregnant and then i snap back to normal. should i tell my boyfriend about this or should i let it go and forget about it?...

My girlfriend told me I would be a terrible person to have around during childbirth! Why does she have something against me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Just a quick one cos i am completely clueless... My gf and I were watching a delivery program tonight following various women through their labours and births. During the show she remarked that I would be a terrible person to have around and i pro...

I'm 15 and want to know what will happen now...if I do happen to be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been good mates for about ten years. we have now been going out for 3 months, and i think i am pregnant. what will happen if i keep the baby? please help me ...

I don't get on with my mum, how do I tell my parents I am pregnant?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I'm 15 years old. Yesterday i found out im pregnant. The father is not my boyfriend and never was. I have never been more scared in my life. My parents are divorced and I live with my dad because me and my mom don't get along. My mom is re-married ...

Both my ex and my current boyfriend want me to have an abortion, but I want another child. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - I am 8 weeks pregnant and I know it is my ex - boyfriend's kid. He and my boyfriend wants me to have a abortion. my friend wants me to keep the baby and she promised to be there for me. I dont know what to do. she had an abortion from when she was ...

Should I continue with this marriage or just forget about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - I am 22 years old, i left my country to another country for work, when i wish to return back to my country i called my friend ex-girl and plead her for a serious and decent girl like her. She gave me her friend number, i and her friend open comm...

I have not had my period this month, does this mean I am more likely to be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - i have had my period twice last month in January and this month in February i havent yet to get my period dose that mean i more likely to be pregnant...

My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and now she is pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - ok so my boyfriend of about 7 months cheated on my with his ex. they had sex and now she's pregnant . I can honestly say he was my first love so I can't hate him . but I'm mad at him . I can't get over the fact that he cheated . I need advice o...

My boyfriend says he is happy I am pregnant but he is never there for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5404 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I didnt know what else to do so i thought i will ask you all.I thought i was happy with having a baby and with my bf,but for the past weeks he has not been there for me at all since i been pregnant,and i feel really alone.I dont know anymore if he ...

I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion, I don't know what to do for the best

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I am a 25 year old women with 4 kids and I am 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend of 3 years wants me to terminate my pregnancy but he also told me its my body and whatever my decision is he will support me no matter what and he will stay with me. we ...

Who is my baby's father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hello.. I feel awful however I made a big mistake and I am wondering if someone can help. I am 16 weeks pregnant and I am unsure who the father of my child is. Me and my fiance have been together for 5 years and broke up on oct 2nd... I met a guy ...

I am pregnat but worried something might have gone wrong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I am pregnant at 26 years old and thin/fit...size 3/4. I am not showing at all! I have my first ultrasound on Thurs., but I'm so afraid something is wrong. After I was born, and my mother was pregnant again, she went for an ultrasound at 12...

Took a pregnancy test-turned out negative. But I was bleeding! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Hi so I've been on the pill for six months and have had no side effects what so ever until this month when I got some bleeding(started last friday) it was like a light period and has lasted up until today when I was supposed to get my period (still ...

Will he leave me if he thinks the baby's not his?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - The thing is, I'm currently 37wks pregnant! I'm with my partner of 3years who I love to bits but when I fell pregnant we were going threw a bad patch and I slept with sum1 else round that time. My dr said I concieved the 25th and I slept with the ...

I'm Pregnant and he spiked my drink

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I'm almost 19 and I've been with my bf since the summer when we met at a festival and turns out he lives only a couple of miles away from me. Its sort of a semi-serious relationship we have. Anyhow we spend most of our time off our faces on dru...

What are the legalities of a 26 yo impregnating a 16yo in the States?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - can a 26 year old man go to jail for getting a 16 year old girl pregnant even if they have her parents permission?...

I am finally pregnant, how come we are not more excited?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Hello Aunts and thank you in advance for any advice. Well Im 24 years old my husband is 27 and we have been married for 2 years. Well this week i found out I am pregnant this will be the first child for both of us. I was shocked to find out I was ...

My BF&GF fight all the time over me, and its getting kinda old

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - OK.. so Im bisexual, and pregnant. Im only in high school, and am doing Really well. My BF and GF fight all the time over me, and its getting kinda old. I know I can only DATE one of them, but Im having a hard time chosing who I NEED to stay with.. ...

15 and pregnant to my adopted cousin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Well When i Was 14, i Was havin trouble with my mum and eventually left home and went to stay with my uncle miles away...anyways my uncle had an adopted son which was 15 at that moment (lets just call him bob) and was originate from colombia he ...

I focus on the negatives but want to make my relationship work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - The story (I'll try to be brief)... My boyfriend who I loved and was crazy about, broke up with me around April 2009 after being together for several months. We had been dating long distance for a few months prior to the break up, as he was away o...

Doesn't he love me anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - My husband of 5 yrs (been together for 11 yrs) has become increasingly uninterested in me and our marriage over the last 7 yrs. I'm not really sure if he is having an affair, although a lot of the circumstances surrounding us appear that he could ...

I am considering dating while pregnant to someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I met a wonderful amazing guy early last year and we hit it off really well. I thought he might have been the one cos we clicked so much. He sadly had to call us quits fairly early on in the relationship because he had very serious issues he had to ...

I'm hooked on somebody who will never love me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Hi, Im hoping someone has some good advice to help me out! Im 26 and totally, head over heels, in love with one of my friends. He's 27 with 2 children and a ex gf who he's never denyed he'll always love. Problem is now Im the great friend...

He cheated, we reconciled; I am now expecting his baby, I moved out as I am unhappy but I still love him. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship with my partner for almost 3 years now we started off as the couple everyone wanted to be. We got on so well barely ever argued and when we did both of us really wanted to sort it out straight away and we would ...

I'm pregnant with my boyfriend of 5 months and am worried it is too soon. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months. Im 27 hes 30.i have a 5 yr old daughter which he treats like his own. We are very much in love we dont live together but see each other all the time. Ive just found out im pregnant. Weve had conversations ...

Does anybody have any information about permenant birth control / essure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - I have been researching forms of permanent birth control, and I was wondering if anyone has information about essure. I have read the information on the website and searched for personal experience on line, but what I really want is to find someone ...

My girlfriend is pregnant with another man's child, and he wants none of the responsibility...so what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

19 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 3years is pregnant for another man that she just broke up with and he doesnt want any part of the responsibility. waht should i do?...

Pregnant with second child to a drunken abuser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - i am 25 with my partner almost five years. he is 42.we have a 3 year old little girl which he is very good to. im 7 months pregnant again with his second child.but things have always been on and off with us. he has a drink problem. he can be off it ...

I'm not sure I want a baby but I want to make my husband happy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - Everyone wants me to have babies. My parents, his parents, him, our friends,our relatives... etc.,etc... I am 35 and married to a wonderful man. I told him when we got married that I would give him children. He has wanted to have a baby for ...

Should I live with my ex to get help with our baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - Okay my situation is very complicated right now and im needing some advise. ive been living with my boyfriend for a year now we moved really fast so its been a hard road. im 26 and he is 28 he has two kids 4 and 5 from a previous relationship. and ...

I had an abortion and now regret it deeply.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - i had an abotion on the 6th feb 2010 and i really didnt want it and everyday i feel myself wasting away. when i found out i was pregnant i told my boyfriend straight away and the first thing that he said was, what am i doing? and then he said if ...

My girlfriend is pregnant and I'm out the door!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - Hey, i've been dating this 31 year old women with a kid already, im 25 no kids and on the track of geting a IT degree. I been dating this girl for 7months, then she tells me she is pregnant AND she tells me she dont want it and wants to have an ...

I'm getting an abortion but he doesn't want to discuss it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I found out I was pregnant four weeks ago. Today I had the consultation appointment for a termination which is due to happen on Saturday. My boyfriend of 5 years definitely does not want to keep the baby, nor do I. For various reasons we are n...