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writes:i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been good mates for about ten years. we have now been going out for 3 months, and i think i am pregnant. what will happen if i keep the baby? please help me
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reader, The Corporate Casanova  +, writes (9 March 2010):
 It would seem to me that it is considered scandalous, but if your boyfriend did manage to impregnate you, then I personally view this is as an absolute outrage!
(Sorry about the personal rant; I just needed to get something out of my chest. There's too much corruption and "Watergating" involved in this world.)
If I were to help you with your dilemma, then I suggest you keep the baby and make sure you stay with your boyfriend. You know how the saying goes: what you see is what you get. After all, in my marital creed, the person whom you first lost your virginity to is the one whom you should marry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): What will happen if you keep the baby varies. If you have a loving, supportive mother or father and boyfriend who will happily help you look after the baby while you finish school, you are very lucky. If your parent or guardian leaves you entirely responsible for the upbringing of this child things will be a little more difficult if you are considering finishing high school. If this is the case, you can always return to school later down the track when the baby is older. You must talk to your parents /guardian and your boyfriend and find out what the deal is. Don't be afraid. You have the absolute right to know these things. It will help you organise your life better for when this baby comes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): well, you'll get fat, have the baby, drop out of school, get a crap apartment, a crap job, raise the kid, he'll likely leave, you'll likely hook up with another looser... and you're kid will have a kid when she's your age... you'll end up in a council flat on the dole...
Wouldn't it been easier to not get pregnant?
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reader, fluffyman +, writes (24 February 2010):
it will be very difficult if you are...however, i want to make sure you're really fifteen, because if uou are, he could be charged for rape, because of the age difference.. look for help in friends and family - support is important...my best wishes
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (24 February 2010):
 What will happen? is that really the question here? well if you are pregnant, in 4 months your belly will start become big and more bigger when its 9 months. In 9 months you will have a baby, you will become a mother. 2 months before the baby come you must already prepared all what infant needs. Hopefully its not twin. But for the meantime you have to think now where to get the money to provide all this coming BIG responsabilities in your life. I have a tip, the good thing is' when the baby is small the expenses is small BUT" the more baby is growing up the more expenses is growing up.So if i were you, i will start to pray and now, wishing that im not pregnant.
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reader, Jays +, writes (24 February 2010):
what happens when if you decide to keep the baby is down to how supportive yur partner and parents are and yur financial position, yur eduction so much. you should really consider all these things and all the options you have.make sure to find out if yur actually preganant and take it from there. good luck !:)
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reader, jessie32 +, writes (24 February 2010):
I guess he'll go to jail.. its illegal IDK in the UK but where I live it is! good luck.
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reader, superwoman021 +, writes (23 February 2010):
firstly your too young honestly you have a whole life ahead of you, im not just saying that i know i have had the same worry as you, but if you are pregnant your boyfriend could be charged and put on the sex afenders list, even if you dont want it to happen, but think about you firstly think about what you want to do with your life, will you still be able to do that? do the things you want to do at weekends? will your relationship last and most importantly will he stay with you and respect your desision?? good luck xx
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