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*ozeys
writes:I am 8 weeks pregnant and I know it is my ex - boyfriend's kid. He and my boyfriend wants me to have a abortion. my friend wants me to keep the baby and she promised to be there for me. I dont know what to do. she had an abortion from when she was with my boyfriend. They both regretted it. I already have a child and want another one. I dunno what to do?? please help me.
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reader, zozeys +, writes (25 February 2010):
zozeys is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wont go back to my ex as he is going out with my best mate and also I am not like that. Yes I did get pregnant while i was with my boyfriend from my ex boyfried.
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reader, preciouss  +, writes (24 February 2010):
l would say if you want the child then keep don't bother about what other people says & and l think your bf will suppot you he want to have a abotion cos he think if you have the baby you will go back to your ex
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reader, _Katy_Did_  +, writes (24 February 2010):
 Stop listening to what everyone else wants. This is your baby and your body. You decide what's best for you. You have support and if you really want this baby, then have it. Don't let other people decide for you on something as big as having an abortion or not.
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reader, marie jane renshaw +, writes (23 February 2010):
 well if you ex doesnt want anything to do with the baby its his loss at least your boyfriend now will stand by you. im not saying get him to play daddy or anything but he will support you and baby, the main thing is just inform the dad on scans, due date n stuff if he doesnt want 2 b there then hes missing out on the best thing in his life
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reader, marie jane renshaw +, writes (23 February 2010):
at the end of the day it is you desicion on whether you want this baby or not, they are both just saying that because they are scared of the responsibility,you said yourself your boyfriend regretted it when your friend had an abortion and maybe he would feel the same if you did it,no man can tell you what to do with you and your babies lifes, if you have it and he doesnt want anything to do with the baby then thats his choice and you will have lots of people around you for the support.
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reader, ashana21  +, writes (23 February 2010):
well i am completely against abortion, it's wrong to kill a innocent child, so i think u should keep the child. it's not just ur boyfriend's decision. u'll have ur friends to be there for u, theres not reason why u should have the abortion :)
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reader, zozeys +, writes (23 February 2010):
zozeys is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wasnt pregnant when i met my boyfriend. my boyfriend will support whicever desicion i make but my ex wont. i no it is my ex as ive only known my boyfriend 4 weeks.my ex is with my best friend and i am so confused please help me guys
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reader, TheXxHelloKitty +, writes (23 February 2010):
 DO WHAT YOU WANT TOO !
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): If your friend and your ex-BF both want a baby, then tell them to go get a room and have it themselves.
This is your life. It sounds like keeping the pregnancy to term would be all wrong for everyone who is most directly affected by this.
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