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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I'm afraid he might reject me because of my body!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I have this guy that I have been chatting with online for awhile now and he has become almost like a boyfriend of sorts. We don't refer to each other as such but the conversations that we have give the impression of two people that really like each ...

How long should I date a guy before asking to be exclusive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I was using an online dating site and met a guy two months ago. He lives in another town about 45 minutes away. We see each other once or twice a week and communicate daily. He has a full time job, goes to school, and has a son. Recently he's been ...

I want to see him again. Shall I turn up at his home unannounced? Or text him when I am nearby to give him a choice of seeing me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I'm in a recent FWB relationship, with a good friend of mine. Both of us have been hurt in the last year by bad relationships so we don't want anything other then just sex. Both of us have been real busy so in the last two weeks since we discusse...

Me or your cyberwoman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Here goes have asked questions before and it has been helpful. I met a man about two years ago, he is on the shy side and awkward. My daughter is in sports, that is how I met him. He always would come and support her at her games and fundraisers ...

Did I taint my husband's image? He is cross that I confronted the married woman who's been sending him love texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I received love texts in my hubby's phone which were replies to a married woman's txts. The last one states that 'soon we shall be together darling' When i asked him he denied and said he has no affair with this particular woman. We decided to bl...

If partner is using dating site do they always keep on carrying on until you dump them permanently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am noticing there seems to be a growing number of questions here relating to repetitive cheating on dating sites by their partner. I have had to go through this with my partner who never admits it or thinks he is not doing anything wrong by way o...

Found girlfriend on dating site after 5 years together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 5 years with a 41 year old professional woman (a maths teacher in Worcester UK who goes to church and acts like she has high standards) where we have drifted due to stresses that happened such as burglaries, ...

Should I leave my boyfriend because of his addiction to cyber sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4253 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Hello Dear Cupids I discovered my boyfriend had been emailing female contacts he has on yahoo and also paltalk, to talk about sex. I discovered after I checked his computer after he had repeatedly clicked off the screen quickly when I came in t...

Am I the fall back girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - hello aunts and uncles, please bear with me as this is a long story.. I'm not sure where to begin with this, basically 7 years I ago I started talking to someone via an Internet site, at the time we had both come out of bad relationships bu...

My LDR wants sexy pictures from me. But I have put on weight. I've tried sending him fake pictures.What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. He is in the marines in one state, while I am in another state. We've hung out a lot before he left, and I was pretty thin then. I have Gained some weight since ive last seen him. He asks...

Two days ago my online guy was distant. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I started dating a guy about 2 months ago and we hit it off immediately. He would text me everyday and our conversations lasted all day and all night. He works, goes to school, and has an 8 year old son. For the first month he was off of work ...

Online woman is pinning all her hopes on me but we are not exclusive. Is it ok if I meet someone else to date till we meet?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - I been single over 12 months and joined a few dating sites. Have been chatting to a woman in the USA for about 2 weeks and we really get on. Because we get on she has now set her profile to 'private' so she can concentrate on me, and she has plans ...

Why does my boyfriend still text this woman? He knows she has feelings for him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - I met my boyfriend on a dating website about 3 months ago. Our relationship is exclusive and he has told me he has fallen in love with me. We live an hour apart. We see each other every weekend and once during the week. Problem... He met this...

I fell for him, he's with someone else. No contact but I still want him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

20 February 2013 (F) - hi there, i am a woman of 47 and have been unlucky with relationships,my first marraige i was very young and was very abusive,it took me years to get a mental state of mind back to normal,my 2nd partner started out as a lending ear, i fell pregnant ...

How to talk 'again' with a guy without it being awkward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - So I met this guy on Facebook and he really seemed nice, I really wanted to talk to him and the only way was on Facebook because I don't know him personally. I was really nervous about all this so I asked my best friend for advice and she told me to ...

Mixed Signals From A Guy I REALLY Like

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - I am seriously conflicted about something and really need some guidance from those that personally don't know me because I know you all will be honest! I will do the best I can to keep this as the condensed version, but I do apologize in advance if ...

Frustrated that online guys only want sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - I am extremely frustrated in my dating life! I seem to be attracting guys who are just interested in me for sex. I am not sure what it is, it could possibly just be my ethnicity. I do not dress scantily, or act flirtatiously or inappropriately. When ...

Should leave my boyfriend for this guy I like? Trouble is that the guy I like only wants sex, and I'm a virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

15 February 2013 (F) - I’ve been in a relationship for about 2 and a half months with an amazing guy but the problem/ question I have is: if I should leave my boyfriend for this guy I like? This same guy that I texted almost every day and he said he liked me and I met ...

Is this online relationship over?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

13 February 2013 (M) - i have an unusal situation. i met a girl online. i know many people feel on-line relationships are insane. her best friend told me "your insane, get a real girl you can see face to face, she has a man." i showed this to my on-line friend and she u...

Crush on a girl I saw on Facebook. We have mutual friends. How can I get her attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

13 February 2013 (M) - hi there everyone, well it all started when i and my best friend were joking around a week ago together while on phone. so i said to him that i would check his facebook friends to piss him off ( i don't know how this would piss him off but we were ...

Is she playing games or is she not interested?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

13 February 2013 (M) - So I met this girl online a year or two ago. Long time, anyways, we just casually chatted for all that time and I wasn't really into her, I just wanted to be a friend to her. She's a shy type and I supposed she wanted me to ask her out but I never ...

Online guy seems to have vanished! I'm disappointed did he get the wrong impression?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

12 February 2013 (F) - Hello I'm hoping someone can shed a light please?... Last week I met a guy online. We exchanged loads of messages and seemed to get on really well and have loads in common. I told him my interests ag walking, camping and he hinted that he would ...

I wouldn't send my love interest an intimate photo so he broke up. Should we stay friends, as he is suggesting?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

12 February 2013 (F) - I met a man on facebook about 5 months ago. We have never met in real life. But we are very close to each other. We have shared everything about our past--his ex's and my ex. I told him about my ex, who blackmails me with pics that he had taken of ...

Is it too soon to spend the night on our special St Valentine's date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

12 February 2013 (F) - So this old high school classmate of mine that was never more then an acquaintance and Facebook friend recently came into my life by way of working at my job once a week... We ended up talking more on FB which lead to us exchanging numbers....

Woman I met on a lesbian dating site is actually bisexual and married! How could she be so deceitful, and should I confront her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

12 February 2013 (F) - I'm a lesbian and a few months back I joined a lesbian dating site. Shortly thereafter a member contacted me and expressed an interest in me. I was impressed with how she presented herself, what she conversated about. I have since taken a fond ...

I shared intimate pics with a woman on FaceBook, and now her boyfriend says he'll post them on the Internet. Worried sick ... what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

10 February 2013 (M) - Hello I recently found a group on fb called [name removed by mod]. I thought it would be a bit of fun and added a girl I thought I liked the look of from the page. Without prompting she started telling me all kinds of sexual things and was as...

Online dating -- I'm an idiot...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

10 February 2013 (F) - I met a man online, I haven't dated for a while by choice...but we seemed to have a lot in common. I spoke to him via the site for a while and then we moved on to phone and text and we texted back and forth all day everyday. We agreed to meet and ...

Why does she take days to respond to my texts? is she playing hard to get or is she disinterested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

10 February 2013 (M) - There's this girl I really like whom I met about 4 months ago. We see each other only once a week along with a group. I am friends with her sister but not too close to her (although we get along great). At first, she use to reply to my texts in a t...

Struggling with my soon-to-be ex husband.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - I'm trying to not hate my STBXH, but he's making it very difficult. We have a 2 year old and it's very clear that he is not STBXH top priority. While we were together, STBXH was almost never sick, and now,seems like every weekend he's supposed to...

Am I over-reacting when I notice my Bf likes pics of other women on his Facebook?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - This really bothers me. My boyfriend is always on Facebook liking pics of other chicks. They're not like sexy pics or demeaning pics or anything. But it's a constant thing that a chick who he may or may not know puts up a cute pic of herself and ...

How can he be in love with me since we've never met? And how do I tell him this online relationship isn't the right thing for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

8 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I've been chatting to this guy online, we a have a couple of mutual friends but we've never met. I like him, but he's recently said he's in love me with - which I think is a bit much considering we've never met. He wants me to meet up with him...

Should I reconnect with my first ex? Despite his threats and the reasons I broke up with him earlier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

8 February 2013 (F) - so here is my problem i broke up with ex 1 year ago,the reason was that he used to discuss wanting to force me for sex which i never wanted to do, actually it was an online relationship we never met, we were about to meet, but he used to say he w...

She sends texts to her male workmate every day. Does it sound like I have a right to be discouraged and want to leave her? She dismisses my fears.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

8 February 2013 (M) - My wife and i have been married 5 years and for the past 2 years, she has been texting her workmate and calling him on a daily. We also live very close to her workplace and he takes her and picks her up. Ive spoken to my wife about my dislike...

I'm attracted to tactile men but how can I stop them being too tactile, too soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

8 February 2013 (F) - I would like to ask this to both male and females out there. I've just recently been on a date with a guy I met online. I'm a single mum and my job is 99% female so I find it difficult to meet men the normal way eg through work ,bars etc .I always s...

We've been talking for a week and he says he's in love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - So i started talking to this guy that i met on facebook. i really really like him, we have only been talking for a week and he's already saying he's in love with me. i had a really bad break up with my daughters father and it took forever for me to ...

Is it time to break-up? Why am I holding on to someone who doesn't want the same things as I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

6 February 2013 (M) - I really need some outside perspective on my issue, so here it goes... First of all, I think you should know that I'm the type of guy that always has a girlfriend. I'm also the type of guy that loves to show my affection a lot, through little s...

Being A Good Agony Aunt or Uncle

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - I have been reading comments and feedback from agony aunts and uncles to queries and questions posted by OPs. Some of the advice, opinions, comments and feedback are encouraging, motivating and insightful But nonetheless many are very negative, j...

Why did my cousin's friend indicated interest one day yet the next day he was disinterested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - Hi! Please help me. I'm so confuzzled. Okay so my cousin's best friend started messaging me on Facebook again and asked for my number. So I gave it to him and from that day on we've texted every single day! It was one day he asked if I liked...

She has started going on dating sites, in front of me. She tells me there is better than me out there. What should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I have lived with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have both decided against getting married and have no children (she doesnt want any). Everything has been steady and we have always got on. Over the past 6 months she has got into a twice weekly g...

He's a real person. Met him on the Facebook. So why am I feeling So very nervous about meeting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I met this guy on Facebook, from what I can tell by his pictures he's a really good looking guy. We've been talking for quite a while now and we are finally going to meet each other for the first time on Friday, we're going to see the new movie ...

Why am I not feeling stronger but worse now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4306 days ago

4 February 2013 (F) - I'm 18 and I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend . He is 34 . We are both very happy . We only met for the first time Saturday and had an online relationship previous to this . Every night for three months solid we had 3 hour phones ...

I compromise all the time with him. He becomes verbally abusive all the time. Then is back to normal 5 to 10 minutes later. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

3 February 2013 (F) - hey I am from an orthodox middle class family. I met a guy in facebook. He was charming and decent. We fell in love. It was fine then but now he is verbally abusive, calling names argues often. I compromise him every time. Thent he behaves n...

Online girl I met says she has a b/f yet sends sexual pictures to me and then gets angry! What gives?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

2 February 2013 (M) - hi people i need advice and insight as to what's been going on between me and this lovely and sweet, caring girl i met a few months ago playing video games... LONG STORY SHORT. she's 18. met her online but never met in person but plan on ...

I think I'm developing feelings for this online guy. How to handle this? He tells me lots about him but never asks much about me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

2 February 2013 (F) - I "think" I am developing feelings for a guy online.. There's obviously a few issues with that other than the very obvious one of it been an "online" friendship but also he lives in America... I again think the feeling is mutual but have no idea ...