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*0anddating
writes:So this old high school classmate of mine that was never more then an acquaintance and Facebook friend recently came into my life by way of working at my job once a week... We ended up talking more on FB which lead to us exchanging numbers...We talk constantly on the phone video chat his and my work hours are crazy but we always find a way to communicate...I really like him and he has no kids nor drama and we both seem to be on the same pageWe went on one date that was perfect he has stopped by to say hello a few times ok my question is Saturday he wants to plan a valentines day for us to spend together a full day.We can finally spend together but he wants me to spend the night at his place due to the fact he lives a hour away and I don't have a car right now... I'm really comfortable around him due to the fact that ive known him and We both made a deal to not engage in sex because of our Abstinence due to our religious views is this to soon or risky?
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reader, ihavetoomanythoughts  +, writes (13 February 2013):
 Too soon! Is the whole Valentine's day going to be at his place? Does the fact you might have to stay at his place bother you? If it does, you should tell him because one hour away is not too far for him to drive you home if he respects you and your decision. If you are OK with staying at his place, do what the other aunts say and try to get a different room and bed.
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reader, dezy +, writes (12 February 2013):
Sweety, it all depends on how much you trust him. if you feel uneasy about it then you must not trust him 100%. so you should sleep on the couch or different bedroom, because during the day he may charm you and make you want to sleep with him ~ even though he doesent mean to ~ its risky, but if you trust him enouf, do it. and you have to trust yourself too, to know your definatly not going to sleep with him. :) good luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 February 2013):
 is there a guest room for you to sleep in?
if so I would stay in the guest room.... no sense in teasing each other by sleeping in the same bed.
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