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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I'm completely ready to give up my whole life for my online crush of 5years. Is this normal?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16 years old and I'm convinced that I'm completely in love with someone I've never met. We've spoken to each other online for 5 years, the first time we spoke then and got to know each other we'd said we liked each other but then disregarded ...

His changing his pictures upset me, should I mention it to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i am on a online dating site.. i was getting tired of it.. i met this one person on there from it and we have been talking every day.. we have gone out 4 times.. we haven't gotten too physical yet and i am still deciding if i like him. Seems like ...

Emotional affair with someone in a loveless marriage... found out he has kids. what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! I'm in a bit of a dilemma and was hoping you guys could help... Recently i met a guy (lets call him Joe)on a chatroom where people just go for conversation, anyway he and I hit it off straight away. He lives down south and i live up ...

Should I tell him why I deleted him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - So there is this guy that I was working with on a project for the past two months. In these two months we became pretty close and somehow we developed a great friendship. In the last two weeks of our working together he told me that he liked me...

My wife is noticing that I'm constantly on the internet

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Well ive bin married for five years now and i recently got a computer to keep contact with my friends and fam. But i have found my self in a situation im falling for a girl i met online that lives milles away from were i live. MY question is could ...

How do I confront him when I'm guilty of having snooped?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Ok so basically I did the wrong thing and snooped and looked at my boyfriend of just over a years emails. I had a feeling back in January there was something to worry about when he was constantly getting messages late at night and we had one problem ...

Is online release horrible?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - So here is my situation. I have a really high sex drive. Much higher than my wife's. And sure, it's been a bit of a problem, but I've accepted that people are different and since everything else about our relationship is great, I'm deali...

We've only really talked on F/b -- how do I take it farther?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Hi I like this guy who i havn't really talked to other than over facebook. Anyway, we go to different schools but i know a lot of people from his school. I've seen him play sports against my school and think he is amazying!!! I'm not sure ho...

He's still have his profile in a Dating ste where we met. Was it a smart decision that I broke up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - "OP's Own title"I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because I had found out that he is still keeping his old profile in an internet dating site where we met. And the worst part he viewed one of my "fake" profiles that i created to caught him. ...

Does he love me or does he play games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Hello! I need your help. I have been chatting with him for 5 months.We live in different countries. We understand each other very well. We are like real friends. Recently he has become a manager of very big company and he rarely writes to me. We ...

"He dosen't know what I look like and he wants to meet"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I have been chatting to a really nice guy on a dating site for a couple of months now. I have seen a picture of him but he doesn't know what I look like at all he wants us to meet up tomorrow night.I don't know what to do. What if he doesn't like ...

Why does he ask who I'm with/tell me who hes with? Why did he tell me he posted an ad? Why is he this way? Is he too comfy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - a cpl of weeks ago i met this guy from online, he had responded to an ad i had.Seems we hit it off after meeting cos we hung out again and he made me dinner/watched a movie.He still sends txts seein what I'm upto etc.Recently I got a movie that he ...

What should I do... I'm not the same person I used to be..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Okay im 16 for the record. So I met this guy Chris online in july. after meeting him, we totally fell for each other :) i'd do anything for him. so for the first time, he got me to send him underwear pics. and then eventually i also sent him a ...

How can I pursue my online girlfriend in real life, without scaring her off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - i am 40 yrs old and found a woman 35 yrs old online that is absolutely gorgeous and a wonderful personality to boot. We have shared pictures and personal information about ourselves and communicate really well. We have made out on IM and it was ...

I want my boyfriend off his online dating site, am I over-reacting here??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 6 months, my boyfriend lives with me and he tells me he loves me everyday. i thought our relationship was going great until, i got on the computer after him and saw he was on a dating sight connected to facebook. i ...

"I want to blow his mind"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - I have known this guy since September. We met online and only chatted up until about 2 weeks ago. Well, a few days after we met, I went to his apartment to watch a movie, and things got carried away. We didn't talk about what happened, until ...

Karma the love story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - *OP's original question, Okay, My story is one of those "created a fake account and fell in love" ones :[ Alright so letsee, Long story short, 3 years ago I made an account on myspace to get back at this one girl, but It was going to be a joke s...

Back home, clueless and confused after meeting my online love. I'm 20, she's 40+ married with kids!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

22 May 2010 (M) - Hey everyone. So I met a woman online 2 years ago when I was 17 and we started typing to each other really often. It wasn't on a site like facebook or myspace so it was basically anonymous to a degree, with no real orientation around dating or ...

Treats me like dirt, U dump him, suddenly he's perfect!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - so here's the deal. i was dating my boyfriend (now ex) for about six months. things seemed fine and great until i found out he was getting pictures from another girl and flirting with other girls via the internet. he is a shy guy and like lives on ...

"Online dating issues"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - "OPs own title"I decided to try the online dating. However, I am encountering the same problem over and over and wanted to know how others deal with it. The problem is about the amount of time taken by someone to reply. For example, this gu...

We've had five dates, there's serious chemistry, but he's still dating others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Dating, met online dating and he still has an active profile.... hi, needs some unbiased opinions not from gf's but others. I'm no stranger to online dating just recently went back on again, after a short break. I've met great people, and horrible...

Why did his relationship status go from single to it's complicated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - well i have been dating my significant other for about 6 months and he had his status as single until recently when i looked and saw that it said, "it's complicated" now i don't have any idea how i'm suppose to take that and i don't know if that is ...

Is she interested or not? Its driving me nuts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - I hope this question isn't too long. OK, here's the situation. I came out of a long term relationship 7 months ago. Around two months after that, I met an awesome girl. We met through friends, became facebook friends, had some really good online ...

Is he pretending to be busy or is he honest with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Hello! I need your help. I have been chatting with him for 5 months.We live in different countries. We understand each other very well. We are like real friends. Recently he has become a manager of very big company and he rarely writes to me. We ...

My ex contacted me, but now what I've read on his dating profile has shocked me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Alright Sunday night a guy I dated briefly contacted me via dating site we met on two years ago and I should probably mention that it ended ugly with his last words to me being F-off or something to that effect when I told him I was pregnant. Anyway ...

I love my enemy. Help me please...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Hi everybody! I need your advice, friends. I have been chatting with this guy online for 4 months.I am 18, he is 27. We trust and respect each other very much. There is such impression that he is my soul mate. We like and dislike the same things ...

She pretended to be someone else and when we met her appearance was a turn off for me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

18 May 2010 (M) - So here's my story. Last summer, I started talking to a girl online. We slowly fell in love with each other, but she always said that she couldn't come to see me because she was in another country. We talked on the phone every night and online...

Should I go with the older man who I feel could take care of me, or the younger one who I feel like I'm insecure talking to??

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18 May 2010 (F) - Hello, I have two guys who I am chatting with on FB and I am interested in both. One is 18 (I'm 19) and the other is 34. I dated a guy who was 8 years older than me for 2 years...so I'm used to the guy being older than me. I feel a lot more ...

Why does it take longer for him to respond to certain texts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Hi all, My boyfriend always replies to text messages really quickly when they are business or funny. but as soon as i say something like 'i've missed you' or similar it always takes up to an hour for him to reply. he always gives an excuse l...

Is she cheating on me over the internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years. Every since we started dating she's always hidden her cell phone from me. I never thought anything of it. She's also always had a password on her computer. We've had our ...

He won't introduce me to his child -- how long should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I met this man on-line we met up and hooked up. We've been seeing each other for 9 months. About 5 months ago I told him that I wanted to be more than hook up buddies. Since that time we've gotten closer he's even met one of my children. One ...

It feels like he has done a 180 degree turn on me and I have no idea how it happened

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I don't even know where to begin. I met someone online because well I was tired of trying all the traditional methods or ways. Well the guy I starting talking to is in another state. He has asked me to move several times and I just wasn't ready to ...

Should I cancel the date because he told me his penis size?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - Hi friends, I met a guy online and he is 13 years younger than me. I am 48, take great care of myself and get alot of attention from guys. We are both professionals, work out alot and he is very handsome. We have been emailing, within a week he...

The girl who advertised on-line for casual sex is using my sister's photo!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 May 2010 (M) - A few weeks ago, I responded to an online ad for casual sex. I'm 27 and single, and I was planning to use protection, so I didn't think it was that big of a deal. I chatted online with the girl who placed it a few times, and she seemed really cool, ...

He always says he has to go and he'll call me back but he never does!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - I met this Guy online and after a month of phone call and emails were met in person. Everything went very well. We talked for hours and have kept in contact. Recently when I call him he always have and excuse to get off the phone and tell me he will ...

Stuck between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Right... Well I broke up with my boyfriend months ago and I'm much happier. I've met this lad online who i've now started texting he seems perfect: He's sweet, funny, Gorgeous, Lives Close and He's the real deal. But he likes to talk dirty alot. Th...

How can I have a relationship with him when I am afraid to visit him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - I have an online friend that I trust completely, he's 18 or so and we've been the best of friends for 3 years. But lately he's been saying sexual things to me and even told me that if I visited him he'd probably rape me (He only lives a couple ...

Should I steer clear of him? He's on medication and a recovering alcoholic.

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11 May 2010 (F) - hello, i met a man online a few months ago, we spoke around twice a week mainly just silly talk but it was very enjoyable and funny, recently we have been out on two dates, when im with him we have a nice time, the conversation is good and he is a ...

Boyfriend has on-line girlfriends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend playing bridge on-line. After several months of playing we arranged to meet, fell madly in love, and now, over a year later, we are living together and have a great relationship. He had met his previous girlfrie...

Should I say something about his browsing online dating sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for around 7 months. I have known from the start that he previously had social dating accounts - but has never met or hooked up with people or paid for subscriptions.. He likes to look at profiles, at what is out ...

Meeting online companion, AND his whole family?!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - I badly need advise before I materialize my plans. I met this guy exactly 5 months ago online as a way of coping up with a break-up. Anyway, he is younger than me by 7 years and at first we were just chatting out of boredom, I didn't even care...

She's so elusive! I want to communicate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - well I have been dating this girl for a year now. and i really do love her but we lost our communication skills with each other among other things too. my main issue is that she goes away for school and is so happy out there with her friends, and...

My LDR girlfriend has changed her tune

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - This might be long..Hi guys. I started dating my online girlfriend last year in November. We live quite far from each other so meeting has not been possible and we had agreed to do it when it's affordable for one of us. Our relationship was awesome ...

How can I trust someone who keeps important secrets for our whole entire relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 7years. We had our ups and downs. She's kept a secret from me for 7years and finally wants to come clean 1st strike. She drilled me hard about sites like myspace and etc. I stopped using them. Come to find out she ...

I don't see my internet boyfriend enough in real life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - hi i met this guy in a chat room about a year ago,we both felt something special,we kept talking everyday and we made a deal to meet first in person to decide where our relationship can go,so we met and it was cool and he became my internet...

Is he masturbating over girls we know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - about a month ago I was on my boyfriends computer, and while i was typing in an web address a porn site popped up, as one he was looking at recently. So I looked at his history, i know i probably shouldnt have, but i did. i wanted to see what kind ...

Wanting to watch the girl I love have sex with another man, since I can't.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - I met this girl online that I really liked and we fell for each other and it is all completely amazing, we are pretty both always searching for a way to talk to each other and I am soon gonna move to where she lives so we can be together. But ...

How much time should I wait for him to text me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I just met a guy through a friend, and we talked for a bit then in the end he asked for my number. He texted me the day next. We chatted. Then I texted him 2 days after. We chatted. That was yesterday. The question: I'm wondering how lon...

Did I do right letting hurt boyfriend go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Hi all, I started online dating last October after being a happy single person for 2 and a half years. I felt ready to meet some new men and hopefully, someone to love. I went on two dates at the end of last year, two nice men but not for m...

Why was he a no-show? And what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Recently I've been talking to a friend of mine on the internet. We live in different cities but have hung out a few times. We're the same age and I've known him since 7th grade and I am now a freshman in college. We were never really "friends" ...