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writes: I met my boyfriend playing bridge on-line. After several months of playing we arranged to meet, fell madly in love, and now, over a year later, we are living together and have a great relationship. He had met his previous girlfriend through on-line bridge as well, but had been broken up with her for a year before he started seeing me. We continue to play bridge on line, and my boyfriend also plays with a lot of other on-line people. All of his on-line friends are women about our age, and he keeps many of them in his friends list and plays with them often. He has become very good friends with many of them and has exchanged photos with them, e-mails them and keeps in touch with them through the bridge messaging center. He often gets up at 4 am to play with one of them who lives on the east coast because he knows she plays weekday mornings after her husband leaves for work. If I get up early, I join in the game too, and I chat and play and have fun .. - but get this knot in my stomach because I fear these girls could easily fall for my boyfriend just like I did , and even though none of them are even in the same state, it worries me. I trust my boyfriend and know he is not looking for anyone else. Why am I experiencing this irrational jealousy of on -line friends?? Or do you think it is irrational? Please help me straighten out my thoughts.
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (19 July 2010):
 Dump him. He is cheating on you emotionally and obviously isn't as committed as you.
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