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She's so elusive! I want to communicate

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Question - (7 May 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *erowithin515 writes:

well I have been dating this girl for a year now. and i really do love her but we lost our communication skills with each other among other things too.

my main issue is that she goes away for school and is so happy out there with her friends, and just has such more and better communication with her guy friends out there than me. not only that im in the military i have to leave a few times out of the year and that makes things harder, almost like she does not need me at all to express her feelings too they're others she can go to. lets face it she never comes to me about anything anymore. Well i would also have to say i really hurt her feelings one night just playing around with my friends i posted a message online about an old friend from high school saying she is beautiful and i wanted her eyes, but that was my best friends girlfriends i was only joking about the whole thing she does not believe me.

Just really want to know if there is anything that could help me be apart of her life and fix our communication between each other as well as stop the verbal fighting between us so we can love each other again.

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A male reader, DeadEyeDick United States +, writes (8 May 2010):

DeadEyeDick agony auntDude your so lost, havent you learned your lesson yet, girls dont communicate, it's your job to read their mind! I cant believe youd actually ask a girl to communicate with you, you cant be that naive?? seriously bro, if you find a girl that has every quality you could want in a lover, and is perfect in every way, and to finish it off, will sit down and tell you exactly what she thinks, wants, and feels, you need to pinch yourself and or just wait till your alarm clock brings you out of it! cause I am really starting to whole heartedly believe that girl is just a myth!!

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