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*ainIsLove
writes:Right...Well I broke up with my boyfriend months ago and I'm much happier. I've met this lad online who i've now started texting he seems perfect: He's sweet, funny, Gorgeous, Lives Close and He's the real deal. But he likes to talk dirty alot. Then theres my guy friend who is also friends with my EX. Being honest..I had a massive crush on him when I was seeing my EX. He was one of the reasons I dumped him because I couldn't stop thinking about him and I felt like a bad girlfriend plus the relationship was shattering into tiny pieces anyway :/. Anyway these two guys...I told my friend about him and how he sounds perfect and i'm not sure but I think he's jelous because he checked him up on facebook and told me what he thinks of him in his words: He sounds like a douche. He keeps on asking when am meeting up with him ect..He also complimented me for the first time and we talk way more now. In the past I tried to get over him because it was clear he wasn't interested but now that where talking more and more and there might be a possibility he might like me...Im starting to like him again :/. This other guy is lovely but i'm having my doubts..I mean he's much more experienced and a part of me is thinking..What if he just wants me for sex? :/ Im stuck!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 I think you should choose your guy friend over the internet one. It is better to have a known quality one than an unknown .
Have you met the internet one yet?
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (12 May 2010):
 Ok I shall 'unstuck' you...pick none of these boys and spend some time being single figuring out what you want from life and who you would like to spend time with. The sexy internet boy could be anyone - a fat, hairy, balding paedophile-type who has no life outside his keyboard or an over-sexed teenage boy who is looking to get some sexual experience with anyone he finds off the net. He has already talked dirty with you which means he is setting a sexual agenda when he meets you and he obviously has no respect for you. He won't be gorgeous when you meet him or all you imagine him to be as those internet photo's lie - if he was that fab what is he doing on the internet clawing for attention? Surely all the females in the area would be beating him door in. Don't meet him because he will be a menace and it could be dangerous. As for the other boy, don't go there either. Your ex will hate you and it will make the friendship between the boys complicated. Lots of boys to date in the world, and lots of time for you to date in the future. You are recently out of a bad relationship so why not leave it a while and get to know you and what you want rather than grabbing a boyfriend, any boyfriend will do...
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