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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I adore my internet boyfriend, but now I'm worried that he's cheating.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Im in an internet relationship, He lives in America and im from the UK. We've been together 1 and a half year 1.7 on the 3rd. We've always spoke in the morning and at night but recently he said he wants space, and doesnt want ...

I've been rejected... again. What is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5957 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hi yet again I have been rejected. I don't know how much more rejection I can take anymore. I don't want to spend the rest of my life on my own but I'm so hurt at the moment. Last year my long term live in partner dumped me for someone he...

Does he chat with her instead of spending time with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend had this girl add him on Msn, he doesnt know who she is and she started talking about sex and trying to have cyber sex with him. I told him i wasnt too happy about it (he would go mad if it was me!) He says he deleted her and doesnt t...

My online guy is pressuring my for naughty photos... is this a bad sign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Theres this guy who I have been chatting to on msn, from an online dating website. We havent actually met yet cause he lives in a different city, but closer to the end of the year, I already had plans to move to his city for university, so w...

My online girlfriend won't come and meet me and wants me to go there. Is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) - hey Im 15 I have met this girl on the internet and i really like and she really likes me to. She live 2 houres away from me by train but only 45 minutes by car. I asked is she could get in her car and come and met me but she said no she want...

I have a wonderful boyfriend,but I don't feel happy or like my emotions have changed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - OK,this month,I met a boy on the internet.He's 13, really sweet,and has always made me feel special.I asked him out yesterday,and this morning,he said yes.I was excited when he said yes,but it feels like nothing's changed.I don't feel different.I...

Silly things lead to my boyfriend to distrust me, can I hope that he changes? I have always been truthful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I am divorce have an 8 years daughter, after my marriage I stayed single for almost 4 years, then I met my boyfriend online 3 years ago, eventually he moved in with me because I did not want to get married again. The first year was so happy I though ...

When should our anniversary be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - When should our anniversary be? We knew each other online for ages before eventually meeting. We were supposed to just meet as friends as I had a boyfriend at the time, but we ended up getting on so well and ended up kissing and I realised I had to ...

We met online, he just told me he loved me, we're going to meet up soon. But will it work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - i met this guy on habbo about 2 and half years ago now. We started speaking on msn then too. Now he's the same age as me. And i have developed strong feeling over the past years or so and the other day he was tipsy and he said 'sorry i'm a little ...

He's sending me mixed signals long distance. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have known ‘John’ for 10 years. Our dads are best buddies. Unfortunately, we didn't get the chance to meet up often as distance set us apart (we are frm different states). Besides, he's studying Medicine in a American Uni while im still in my ...

He compares me to his long-term ex. Why has he acted this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend in the aim chatrooms May'07.He stays in Northern Cali and I stay in Southern Cali.We flirted but never intended or thought it would be more.Then it became more than ims but phone calls and then we decided to be more.When we ...

When he comes to my place (after work) he falls asleep, this led to disagreements between us and I'm not sure what's going on...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I met this guy on a dating site and we seemed to be getting on really well, he said some lovely things to me like i was everything he really wanted in a woman and wanted us to stay together forever ect, i did believe that we had something but now he ...

How do I convince my on line date that he should come to my city first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - Theres this guy who I have been chatting with online for a while now. I really do like him alot and he likes me alot too. He found me on a dating website, and contacted me first, despite the fact that I live in another city to him. I replied anyw...

Should I pursue this online relationship with this girl? We live 400 miles apart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, I would really like anyones help on this little situation I'm in. A little while back I met a girl online through an extremely large art website (deviantART for those of you wishing to know) so her and I started talking on there...

He started falling for me early on but flirts with other girls online! Is this LDR going to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - we met in jan and he started falling for me soon but never ever said that, later he flirted with other gals online. but now he is totally committed to me. but the problem is he never ever sends me gifts?? his password is also on his ex's name an...

I fell in love with a girl I met online. Now I'm beginning to suspect there are things she hides from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

25 July 2008 (M) - Hi. This may sounds funny. I met a girl online which lives so far from here. We have been talking to each other online for few years. I fall in love with her. She does say she loves me. From talking online, we progressed to talking on phone f...

Where do I find people to have cybersex with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5962 days ago

25 July 2008 (M) - Ok so I like to chat online but recently I've wanted to do some cybersex chatting and have no idea where to find partners for free! Anyone know? thx...

One minute he's a attentive... next he's not! What's going on here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

24 July 2008 (F) - Seen this guy 4 times in two months... but it has been just sex, and I have always said I wanted more than that. (Met on internet dating site). Sometimes he does not contact me for days at a time, and a week ago I told him that was enough, and ...

Is meeting people from Internet dates a bad thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

23 July 2008 (M) - Dating people off the internet and going to meet them is a bad thing? I dunno why but feel tense if I tell my parents where my new partner came from if i did find someone of internet......

He said he may not be ready for a relationship and we should take it slowly. Was he breaking up with me, or not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - I met a guy from an online dating site. We hit off after the first date. I never have sex on my first date. However, the chemistry between me and him was so strong, I slept with him. Things were going sweet on the second and third dates. Yet, I felt ...

She says she likes me as a friend - what can I do to change her mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

23 July 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, I need help. Tonight i kinda got rejected by this girl i like. We have been getting along really well and talkin on msn all the time and we always send each other kisses and that sorta thing. Well anyway we were going to go out t...

I fear I may have fallen victim to an online predator....help me please, should I meet him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

22 July 2008 (M) - I'm a 15 year old male and i recently met an older man off of a forum. It wasn't a dating forum or anything, and we started off as just friends, just talking about stuff. On my account it said i was 21 (I had listed my age as that to be taken more ...

How come all my dates from online turn out to be LUNATICS?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - I have been internet dating on RSVP for 12 weeks now and have been on 6 dates. Each of these people i have gotten to know with several IM sessions, phonecalls, emails and sms chats. The thing is every single one of these people have been an absol...

I'm not sure I want to meet my online date, as he is not my type and comes accross as really obsessive - so should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hi, i really need some advice. There's this guy i've been talkin to on msn who lives local. Apparently he really likes me, and i think i like him too but he comes across as really obsessive... he often rings me, emails me etc. And it does become r...

He cheated on me, and he pays for online sex shows. How can I trust my husband ever again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I have trust issues with my husband, we've been together since 2003. Since we've been together i know his cheated on me at least once maybe twice. Also about a year ago i found out that he'd been going online and paying to chat to women while they ...

3 months pregnant and discovered that partner is looking for sex online

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for just under two years. We live together, I love him and I am carrying his baby of 3 months. We just got back from a week getaway to reconcille our differences and took the laptop with us. On returning, one eve...

I would never encourage a break up...but...does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5966 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - I'm a little confused as to whether this guy likes me as a friend or more than a friend! I've known him for quite some time, he was my first boyfriend's best friend (when I was 14). We haven't seen each other for a very long time, we didn't ...

Did I do something wrong to make him only view me as a sexual partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - I have recently ended a long-term on again/off again relationship with a married man. It went on for 14 years. I finally broke it off with him -- for good. This all happened in the last month and I am still sad about the whole thing, though I ...

Isn't even a friendship based on trust or am I assuming too much here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

20 July 2008 (M) - I met a woman on a dating site and she informed me she was just looking for friends as she had recently ended a long marriage and wasn't looking for another relationship. After one date and a lot of texting and phone calls for a week she revealed ...

How can I flirt online or a webcam?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

19 July 2008 (?) - Can everyone gives me ways to flirt with a guy or MSN and webcam ??? and also flirty questions I could ask my guy ??? ...

Can I love him even though it's over the internet and he's older?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

19 July 2008 (F) - I pretty sure I'm in love with an amazing guy I know from the internet, he is three years older then me, and I always have to reasure him it doesn't matter how old he is because three years is nothing really. The question is, can I love him? Id it ...

Is she giving me the brush off?… The silent breakup before we even meet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

19 July 2008 (M) - I met this girl online and we did a lot of talking over the phone, seemingly having a good connection with her. We made plans to go on a date, meeting each other at a club. We had made the plans a week ago. We planned out where we’d meet and ...

My online date cut contact with me after 2 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

18 July 2008 (F) - I talk to a guy on-line dating we meant , were seeing each other a few times a week , texing and enjoying each other company . then he stop answering my tex and when I asked him what was wrong he said his ex came back from florda . I didn't even ...

I don't know what to talk about or how to make good conversation. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - hey everyone Okay so I really like this guy and he goes to a different school. I added him on myspace and he accepted so I messaged him and he gave me his number. Eventhough its just the beginning its going really good. He dosent know me personal...

I don't just want him to email me, I'd like him to call sometimes - What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5971 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - Hi all, I've been reading this site and there is some EXCELLENT advice here, so thanks to all of you who're willing to dish it out. My question is - I like this guy. We've been casual dating for almost two months, no sex yet since it take...

I'm confused and is she? What to do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

16 July 2008 (M) - Back in Feb. I met a wonderful woman and we started on the journey of a long distance relationship. It worked for a while and then she couldn't deal with the distance. We decided to just be friends. The unfortunate thing, I fell in love with her. We ...

Internet Dating - what sort of expectations should I have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - Hello I posted on here before about a couple of things and got some helpful answers so I'm back again hoping for some insight. I'm on an internet dating and friendship site and not quite sure how to approach it all as I've never done it before. ...

Is my online guy being discourteous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - Hi I wonder if you can advise me. I posted on here before and got some good balanced sensible advice which really helped so I'm back for more! I met a guy in February on an internet dating site. We are going to meet in two weeks time. We got on...

Love in cyberspace....and in realspace?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (M) - Firstly I'm a bisexual male. I've met another man online who I'm in love with. I live in Europe, he lives in America. We will be able to see each other next year. He loves me too, but he also has a boyfriend, also an online thing. They're go...

Is he just being extremely nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5972 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Almost 2 years ago, I met this military guy in a delivery of some radios to his base. He was my contact but I had the chance to talk with him twice bfore he left. I didn't knew I like him until our second meeting where he fascinated me. He was ...

I ended up dating 2 girls at once, broke up with the first one, am still with the second, but can't stop thinking about the first girl...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - i had a relastionship with a girl that i really liked from the internet and i met her and found myself loving her soo much but i got attracted to another girl which is a colleague in my college and a close friend too.. suddenly i found myself i...

Did I overreact when he put the picture I took of him on the dating site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5974 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I met a man a few weeks ago from a dating site and he admitted he talked to alot of women. But We got along well and he said I was his g/f and wasn't looking to meet and date anyone else. One day we had a lovely day out in the countryside a...

How to bring up the subject of meeting her casually to at least say hi without giving of the impression I am desperate to speak to her?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - i met this girl online who i found very pretty. shes local. i got to know her a bit online but she didnt talk much. we saw each other for the first time when walking by each with our own group of friends. i saw her looking too but we didnt make any ...

I'm not sure which girl I should pursue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

13 July 2008 (M) - Hey I have a friend who I have known for quite a while - and we talk to each other a lot - both in real life and on the internet, and I really like her as a friend. I fancy her as well though, and people say we should get together and stuff. I think ...

Why didn't he have the decency to tell me he didn't want to keep in touch anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

12 July 2008 (F) - I have been e mailing a man friend who always said he would always reply to my e mails but uinfortunately he hasnt recently so I assume our friendship is over for good. Why is it he couldnt have the decency to say that he had decided he didnt want ...

This guy wants me to send him naked pictures of me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

12 July 2008 (F) - this guy wants me to send him pictures either nude or somewhat nude i dont want to be nude at all not even in bra and underwear i really like himm but i dont want to do it. what do i do?...

Is he really the one stealing pictures?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 3 months. I met him online and love him dearly, but I'm not sure if the pictures he's shown me are real. He told me that a lot of people have stolen his pictures on myspace, is He really the one stealing the ...

Is the any way to get over the anniversaries of our meeting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - Hey, I don't really know how to think and feel a moment. It's been just over a year since my first love left me, and just over 3 years since I first met her face-to-face (we met over the internet and had a long distance relationship for 2 year...

She's shy, we have talked on-line, but not in person, going to ask her out on actual date, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5976 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - There's this girl I have known for a while, I met her through a friend and our friendship built online. Eventually me, her and our friends would have to go out together as friends...and apparently she had the hots for me which made everything ...

I know he probably doesn't feel the same way about me but I want to spend the rest of my life with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

10 July 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid: I met this guy last year because of an accident, somehow he got my msn and added me to his contact list. We started chatting everyday and we found ourselves mad about each other. He studied at the States but was born in my city, so...