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writes:I have been e mailing a man friend who always said he would always reply to my e mails but uinfortunately he hasnt recently so I assume our friendship is over for good. Why is it he couldnt have the decency to say that he had decided he didnt want to keep in touch anymore or even made soemthing up and said he had just met a nice lady and they had decided to make a go of it and didnt want to correspond with me anymore and not jsut reply having promised me he always would. I cannot understand it. I think its a shame.if he was cross with me for some thing he could always send a dating site by e mail (tosay to me like get off my case) I feel upset as it seems everything I do is a hopeless case. I can understand him getting scared off that isnt the issue but why couldnt he just say he has met someone or just say look here Im sick of you get lost and not just leave me in limbo-dont I deserve a bit of something? Not just a blank. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): I can understand that you are feeling let down and dissapointed; unfortunately these things happen; however, there might a very good explanation for him not answering; BUT
hey, there are lots of other people; start talking to them; don't allow this guy to get you "down"; it takes lots of people and all kinds of people to make the world an interesting place; sure you were good "online" friends, but find somebody that really cares for you; somebody that will want to get to know you; somebody that will be more then just a convenient "online" friend.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): I can understand that you are feeling let down and dissapointed; unfortunately these things happen; however, there might a very good explanation for him not answering; BUT
hey, there are lots of other people; start talking to them; don't allow this guy to get you "down"; it takes lots of people and all kinds of people to make the world an interesting place; sure you were good "online" friends, but find somebody that really cares for you; somebody that will want to get to know you; somebody that will be more then just a convenient "online" friend.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, Secret Teller  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 move on and get on with your life. he wasn't going to be there for ever you know, and you deserve better than that. you deserve someone that will always be there for and never let you down. not some one thats going to leave you hanging.
best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): You have to understand that online dating is, to a lot of people, a fantasy world. There are people who live their lives through imagining they are in a relationship but when it comes to actually doing something realistic like meeting the person, they run a mile. They feel safe behind closed doors in their room, having a virtual affair online. Yea sad, sick, call it what you will but unfortunately, these people exist. They can't cope with reality so they have a 'virtual' relationship.
Genuine people like yourself, in the meantime, get hurt as a result. That is the problem with online dating agencies, you don't know what your getting. I'm sure there are also quite a few genuine people also but bear in mind, you will encounter as many weirdos too.
Stick with it but be careful and try watching for the signs. As with any relationship, don't take people at face value.
Good luck.
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reader, Island Vibe +, writes (12 July 2008):
 How long ago did you send him a message and how long since he didn't reply.?
If its a few weeks he might have gone away with work or a holiday without letting you know and not having access to a computer.
However if its lets say a few months then i would send him another e-mail incase the other one got lost or he missed it, something like that.
But from what you describe of him he doesn't seem the person to not reply.
I wouldn't worry i'm sure there is some sort of answer.
let me know how it goes, mail me if you want :)
good luck
x
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