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anonymous
writes:this guy wants me to send him pictures either nude or somewhat nude i dont want to be nude at all not even in bra and underwear i really like himm but i dont want to do it. what do i do?
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reader, saph667 +, writes (12 November 2010):
im 13 and this guy wants me to do the same thing...i didnt no wat to do but now that ive read ur comments i will make a good choice and nt send naked pics of myself even if i like the guy ALOT!! :) thank you all this means alot
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): give him the pictures. its ok to show people ur naked photos
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reader, miyaa +, writes (8 July 2010):
well this is the same with me
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reader, miyaa +, writes (8 July 2010):
yea samme here thiss boii wants me to do the same thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni do know him he's 2 years older and we've met many times,
we are friends now and i am not sending him pictures
thanks for the help
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 DON'T DO IT!
If your age is stated correctly (13-15) you are wayyyy too young to be sending him naked pictures of yourself. Regardless of your age, if it's something you're not comfortable with then you shouldn't do it.
If he's a nice guy, he'll understand.
Plus, if you send him pictures they can end up on the internet - facebook, myspace where ever! Which will not only be embarassing but humiliating for you as well.
Just don't do it.
Take care! XO
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): Hi, obviously you don't want to do it, so don't! I'm sorry, but a guy who likes you just wouldn't do that, tell him no way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): i sent some one i liked and he was ment to like me back semi-naked pictures.
they went round his whole school not just his year but every year!
people were coming online that i hardly spoke to saying "sum1 sent me a picture of you today"
it wasnt nice
dont do it!
Love myaz xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): absolutely cut the crap, dont talk to him again although u like him.
if a guy wants u to do such a thing be sure that u will not be someday anything but a naked woman that he thinks about when he get nothing to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): Never ever give any person pictures of yourself in the nude. He can do lots of things with it now; but think how you will feel if in a few years time, you might in a happy relationship or even married and your husband gets hold of the pictures; picures of yourself in the nude will haunt you forever; you will never know when it might surface and can you imagine how embarrassing it can be.
Don't ever do it.
Best wishes and lots of smiles.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008): He's a naughty boy!
Whatever you do, don't send him any intimate pictures of yourself unless you want the world to see them, because as sure as hell he'll show them around to his buddies, maybe even put them on the internet for some paedophile to drool over.
If you must send him something, there's already pictures of models and such on the internet. Download a couple of those and send them to him. He'll know they're not you, but at least he'll know you're not about to participate in his little scheme.
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reader, Torianne  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 You're only 13-15. How old is this guy? EIther way, don't do anything you are uncomfortable with
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reader, OhLawdWhat DoIDo +, writes (12 July 2008):
 I'm a guy but if I were ever in your position I know that is something I would never ever do. Some guys see these as a "trophies" and wont keep them as private as you may have been hoping. Maybe this guy is better than the ones I know but thats a risk you take if you go through with this. Your choice !
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reader, lexilou +, writes (12 July 2008):
 How old is this guy? If its someone a lot older then think why he wants the pictures.
If its someone your own age think how devasted you would feel if he showed them to your friends or it ends up on youtube or facebook or something?
Dont take naked pictures for this guy, tell him no x
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reader, Fabulous Fairy +, writes (12 July 2008):
 Hey there,
The answer is simple, dont do it!
More than anything, you should never do anything you dont want to, or feel uncomfortable about doing. You have said that you dont want to do this, so please dont.
I know you like this guys, and if this guy likes you then he wont ever pressure you into doing something that you feel uncomfortable with....if he doesnt then he is not worth your affections.
Good luck.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 If he's a decent guy, he'll understand when you say that you don't feel comfortable sending him pictures of you. If he gets angry or horrible about it, then you know that this guy's an *sshole.
Have you told him that you don't like the idea of it? You need to tell him otherwise he'll just get his own way. The problem with doing this of course, is the fact that once you've given them to him, he could do anything with them.
So, just tell him the truth - you don't feel comfortable giving him such pictures and if he gets all moody about it, then he's not decent.
Take care hun xx
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