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writes:I pretty sure I'm in love with an amazing guy I know from the internet, he is three years older then me, and I always have to reasure him it doesn't matter how old he is because three years is nothing really. The question is, can I love him? Id it possible for me to love him?
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (19 July 2008):
 You're asking us to tell you if you can love him or not? Love is NOT something someone else can tell you to feel or not, it's something you feel yourself only and that only yourself can know what if it's real. Many girls confuse love with lust a lot, specially at your age, so be careful.
Now, as many people said already, be careful on dating on the internet and specially at your age. This is not something silly we want to tell you to destroy your relationship, but just something that sadly lurkes around in sheeps clothes: pedophiles or bad people. Do not readily believe something that someone tells you, specially on the internet.
Now if you want to meet this guy, don't do it yet for safety reasons. There are hundreds of news articles depicting bad news about girls who met the guys they knew from the internet and ending up having a bad day.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (19 July 2008):
 Darling for all you know he could be a paedophile grooming you as his victim. Don't what ever you do give out your phone number and please please please do NOT agree to meet him.
Does your parents know that you are talking to strange men on the net? I think it is high time they knew what you are up to YOUNG LADY! Because you do not sound very streetwise, I am only advising you for your own safety.
THERE ARE A LOT OF DANGEROUS PEOPLE OUT THERE READY TO POUNCE ON A VLUNERABLE AND NAIVE YOUNG LADY LIKE YOU.
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reader, saltwater +, writes (19 July 2008):
 Do be careful about online dating...especially at your age.
Peadophiles and other nasty people make stuff up to lure kids into love/relationships/sex.
I would inform your parents that you are in contact with this person...not so they can keep tabs on you, but they can ensure your safety should you take it any further.
But like I say, BE CAREFUL!!
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (19 July 2008):
 I'm with RFD on this one - be careful with people on the internet. You don't know who you're talking to even if they insist they're this "fit" 18 year old who works out 5 days a week.
Just be cautious and don't tell him any personal details - not even your last name.
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