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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Found out that my ex lives near the home my wife rented. Have made it complicated for myself? What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I arrived in US three weeks ago. I'm Indian Muslim . I'm 28. My wife is also 28 Recently, I bumped into my Ex”L” while jogging and she lives just one mile away from my wife house. She was also American and dumped me four years ago. ...

Tired of being alone in my marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - I have been feeling really down. I got remarried, everything was really good in the beginning. But now, I do everything. I work two jobs, i watch a baby during the day, and do hair on side. I also have 2 children of my own, and my husband has a ...

Stuck in an unhappy marriage. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

30 July 2013 (M) - Hi everyone, I've been married for over 15 years. For the most part it has been a good relationship. I've always been an easy going guy and not a lot rattles me, but over the course of the years I've really felt like I've taken it on the c...

Divorcing, and I feel hurt and anger and extreme regret!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Any tips on coping with feelings of hurt/anger/regret? Husband and I are divorcing-next month we can finally submit paperwork. He feels I'm trying to take every penny I can, I feel he's trying to keep every penny he can. We have a 2 yea...

Would it be an insult to get my wife an anniversary card after I cheated on her with a prostitute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (M) - I admitted to my wife just after Christmas that I'd cheated on her with a prostitute. I regret my behaviour very much and have no intention of ever repeating it. My wife is trying to forgive me and we're still together, but she doesn't wear her ...

I've met a new guy who I like and I led him to believe I was divorced. I'm actually married and my husband is threatening to take my children away from me if I try to divorce him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - I met a guy recently that I am really into and he feels the same about me. This guy is long-distance and is divorced and has been for 9 years. When he asked me "are you married" I answered that I was for five years...kind of giving him the ...

My husband and I are trying to rebuild the trust in our relationship but we have totally conflicting work schedules

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - My husband and I are working through some trust issues. With that said, we basically are trying to rebuild the foundation that our relationship is made on, because we both love each other very much and are not willing to walk away from something ...

My wife wants to re-establish contact with her bad news family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 July 2013 (M) - I have a dilemma. My wife has a very disfunctional family. Her mother took off when she was two never to be seen from again, and her father has been in and out of her life for her 30 years. She was raised by her fathers parents and his sister. Her ...

My husband's friend verbally attacked me and my husband believes him over me even though there were witnesses

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Hi,I am 24 years old and I now its 3 years to my marriage and there was always problem my husband spent more time with friends thn me.....but I managed as I love him so much,but now one of my husband's friend his name is suraj and he is married and ...

If I say yes to his marriage proposal will he later change his mind about me having girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Hi I'm hoping I can get some real life experience answers here. The situation is I'm bisexual. I've been dating a Guy for 2 years and I love him deeply. He's none since the day we met that I'm bi and he's never had a problem with me dating a woman ...

The Wedding Speech

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26 July 2013 (M) - The Wedding Speech Remember this day, your wedding day. Not for the dresses and suits, not for the extravagance, nor the dinner and dancing, but remember your wedding day because of the reasons you chose to marry your spouse. Remember who is it that...

Should I stay or should I go? I could start over...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - I am a 39 year old mom of 2 who is in my 2nd marriage. I divorced my kids' father because he has a narcissistic personality disorder. He spent money wildly on basically fake businesses deluding himself deeply into thinking he was a gifted ...

Why is my husband so demanding at home but a pushover at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - Why is my husband so demanding at home but a pushover at work? He says things like "when I get home from work I want my dinner and a drink on the table" and "make sure this house is clean when I get home" we have 2 children and I'm heavily ...

What is fair to expect from a wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 July 2013 (M) - I have been married to my wife for almost 21 years and there are many things about her that endear her to me. However, of late I am finding it harder and harder to remain with her. That's not because of what she or has not done in some sense, but ...

I think I need to leave this troubled marriage of abuse and lies

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - Hi readers, I am in need of some advice and hopefully I can get it through those of you who are or have been in a similar situation as me. I am 22, and I am newly married for about three months now. We are in a love marriage and he is 29. We h...

I can't trust my husband because he gambles and lies

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - My husband and i have been married for almost two years. I know we are new and young but I am worried that we have problems that I can't fix. When we were engaged he gambled away $500 of our savings behind my back then confessed. Then after one ...

Is it appropriate or inappropriate for your sister to live with your soon-to-be ex husband?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - Appropriate or inappropriate? My husband and I were having problems. My sister broke up with her boyfriend and requested to live in the house, I said no and gave her other options. My husband and I were on the verge of separation, I didn't think it ...

Can I get an hpv virus and pass it off to my wife if I have never had sex with anyone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (M) - we were married in 75, and in 82 my wife had a rapid weight loss issue that prompted her to go to her dr. he found beginning stages of cancer on her cervix and had to remove them. she never mentioned how she got it but now we know about hpv. is ...

My wife is emotionally abusive and I don't love her anymore. How do I tell her I want a separation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (M) - Hello, and thanks for considering my question. My wife and I have been married for 5 years, and have a 2 year old daughter. We've been through some trying times, but my wife has always been very financially supportive as the main breadwinner of t...

My husband decided he's really done. Anyone who has been in the situation please advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - I'm feeling really down. I need some advice or helpful words from someone who has been through this before. I posted on here the other day that I'm going through a separation. I'm having a hard time with it. For a lot of reasons I have to stay in ...

I have a great husband and family but can't forget a guy from my past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

22 July 2013 (?) - Am a 26 year old lady married with 2 kids. I have everything I want. Am educated/smart, Great hot husband with enough income, 2 amazing kids, lots of sex with my husband but I still can't get over a guy I met 3 yrs ago. He is married too and I know ...

My husband says he's totally against cheating but I've found out that he made a pass at my mum. During our marriage he has also slept with a 17-y.o.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - hi, my husband and I have been together for 19yrs now, we have two children 3yr and 6yr. my husband has always talked about his strong morals especially over affairs he has said that even a kiss is a passionate moment and in his views is as good ...

Married a friend, not a soulmate. How do I tolerate his intense need for affection and attention when he returns?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4172 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - This is why I'm a jerk. My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 4. He's 31, I'm 27. For the first 4 years, he was a graphic designer. For the last 4 years, he's been a Marine. For the first 5ish years, he was a depres...

Married for 32 years and she's never given me oral sex. Will I die never knowing what it's like?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 July 2013 (M) - I am 56 yrs old, sitting here late at night ready to cry - in that I have known my wife (55) for 35 yrs., married for 32, with 3 grown children and 2 grandchildren - and through all these years, she has never given me oral sex. I made some subtle ...

I feel unloved and unwanted in this marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - I love my husband of 10 years but for the past 6 months he has become totally disconnected from me. I am 47 and my husband is 49. We have no children. My 85 year old mom lives with us in a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom apt. We haven't had sex in ...

He's living with his mistress and driving her SUV only 2 weeks of leaving our home.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - I had my husband of 15 years to move out of our home because I discovered more evidence that he's having an affair. He moved out, but refuses to talk to me about anything. He's been doing this every time I try to talk to him. The isolation from our ...

How would you feel if your fiance talks a lot about a female co-worker? Should I be concerned?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

19 July 2013 (F) - Well, I'm back. I've posted on here about this issue before and it doesn't seem to be getting resolved. I know this is a long post. So bear with me on that. I didn't intend for it to be. Kudos to anyone that can finish reading it. Thank you. ...

He woke me up and used the "two minute blow-up doll" method.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

19 July 2013 (F) - So Im really mad right now. My husband and I dont have sex often ( maybe twice a week if that- NOT by my choice ( he gets mad if I complain or ask for 3-4 times a week.) So its almost 4 am. He woke me up around three ready to go. I was sound asleep ...

My American wife green eyes scare me during sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

18 July 2013 (M) - I'm Pakistan and two months back I came to US on fiance visa to marry my American Fiance whom I met through internet. We got married one month ago. I'm 33 and my wife is 34. She is beautiful, caring and loving. I have been confronting a very strange ...

My husband just doesn't want to do 'normal' things.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

17 July 2013 (F) - My husband just doesn't want to do 'normal' things. He is very fond of drinking whilst I'm not bothered. All his plans involve drink and drinking buddies as I call them. He won't make plans with me to go out or walk with the dog, take me out a ...

Should I buy this house with him, and try to make this marriage work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

17 July 2013 (F) - I need some advice. I am 6 months pregnant and my parents have given me and my husband some money, so we can buy a house together. We have found a place and have applied for our mortgage, we are hoping to exchange contracts by the end of augus...

Facing a separation and divorce, after just one year of marriage! Help, please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - This is probably the most I have needed advice of any question I've asked on here. I am facing a separation and ultimately divorce. I'm having a lot of mixed emotions and its been a roller coaster but I'll give the background in as short a story as ...

22 years later I still feel guilty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

14 July 2013 (M) - 22 years after my divorce, I still feel as though I let my children down and don't seem able to throw off that feeling which haunts me every day. The divorce was not totally my fault although I do bear some of the responsibility....

Should I get back with my ex husband after seven years apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - Hi, I met my ex when I was 15 and he was 16, we were married for 18 years with 3 great kids but I found him too much to live with because he has mental health issues and it was affecting me. I left him and have tried to make a life, did a lot of g...

Why am I so jealous and insecure of my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) - Im really insecure and jealous to me n my husband have been together for almost 2 years we have a 14 month old boy n a 1 month old girl. But when we first got together i was just playing on his phone and found so many pics of naked girl i mean alot ...

I always cheat on my wife, how can I stop this bad behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 July 2013 (M) - dear cupid I am a male aged 35, I am married with 2 kids with my wife, and I has another dougther with my Ex, of which we parted ways 12 years back. I married my wife 9 years back. Here is my problem. I has never be faithful in my marriage, I ...

I don`t want to cheat but I`d like some affection from my friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - Ok heres the dilema, I'm married and have 2 kids. Years ago I met a guy who totally blew my world away, we only saw each other for a short time and were never intimate sexually. I had to break it off because my ex wanted me back in my life and ...

He goes MIA to watch porn, or go to a strip club. I'm feeling very deflated. Should I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

10 July 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 7 months and dated for 5 years. Recently our sex life has been few and far between. I am a very sexual person and would have sex everyday if he was in to it. He denies me sex but has no problem watching ...

Swinging gone terribly wrong, am I stupid for staying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - I am a 41 year old married woman for 16 years. I got my husband into swinging then I began an longtime affair for over 10 years. I do not want to swing anymore. I just recently stopped my affair within the last year, my husband is still a swinger ...

What makes someone like my husband so immature and extreme in his reactions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

7 July 2013 (F) - Why is my husband so selfish? He was the oldest of 8 kids but I swear he acts like an only child sometimes; someone who never learned how to compromise, or share things, or accept another person's ideas and viewpoints. Case in point; we bought some ...

My husband is so forgetful that sometimes I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

5 July 2013 (F) - My Husband is so forgetful! I really don't know what to do! Anything important that I tell him, He just can't take it in. He'll be talking about it that day and then a few weeks later he'll be like 'I wasn't aware of that.' For example, This month ...

Why my husband won't show me affection in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

5 July 2013 (F) - Why my husband won't show me affection in bed? He talked about al of his exes and how he would please them knowing they cheated on him but knowing I'm loyal he makes me feel like a call girl just in it to get his rocks off. He knows nothing that ...

I'm in love with my married bestfriend and I don't want to lose her friendship. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

5 July 2013 (M) - Since my divorce. I have not dated anyone. It seemed that everyone else had love and I was alone. I met someone that became my best friend. Her and I spend every second together. I fell in love with this girl so hard it made me sick. Here is ...

Wife don't have a job and doesn't like to cook or clean the house.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

3 July 2013 (M) - I've dated my wife for almost 10 years before we got married for 5 years, ever since I met her she never have a job. Reason I like about her was she was very old school like my mom and I thought she would make a great mom one day and she's very ...

Is it possible that I'm turning gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

3 July 2013 (M) - I've been straight but started getting nasty thoughts progressively. Thinking about getting a prostate massage from my wife and even doggy with a strap on. Today I just thought of kissing this guy that followed me in the mall. I have been married ...

My partner is obsessed with affairs and with pretty young girls.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4190 days ago

1 July 2013 (?) - My partner seems obsessed about watching television programmes all about having affairs, or men getting one over on women. If it was just a couple of times a week it wouldn't be an issue, but its every night. Our SKY is full of recorded films al...