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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

My wife had no problem seeing my best friend naked! The casual way she acted around him, suggesting that MY underwear would look good on him, makes me very uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I don't think there is a problem, but my wife's behavior toward my best friend seems a little weird and it bothers me. My best friend and I are close. Since I married my wife she has also become 'TXX's friend. We are all very close, and go out toge...

Am I unreasonable in thinking a marriage should be more?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I need some advice on my current marital situation... My wife and I have been married for six years. She's very religious and, as such, there was a very strict "no sex before marriage" policy - which I agreed to. The problems began after the ...

My wife had a termination 6 months into our relationship, and now 7 and a half years later the sex is still terrible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - Hi, me and my first love have just got married 5months ago, we have been together for 8 years nearly and have never slept or even been out with anyone else! We are only in our early and mid 20's. For the first year the sex was great and very ...

My husband accused me of cheating and won't allow me to leave the house

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - i am deeply in love with my husband but he doesn't trust me. he treat me like a cheat and calls me a liar. i can't even go and visit my mum for just a few minutes. i am in my mum's house now, he will send call back or call me to come home. i don'...

Black specks in underware mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Black specks in my husband briefs after washing; what does that mean if anything?...

How to keep it in the family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i am in love with my dads cousin he is married n has kids but still loves me more thn anhything he recently proposed to me n i really wnt to marry him but if my family found out then it would be disaster his family is not a problem. how should i...

Wife prefers for us to take care of our own needs rather than have sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Hi everybody. Wife and I are both around 50 with 4 kids. The youngest is 17. Our sex life is very hit and miss and has been all through our marriage. Her sex drive is low but she masturbates regularly, though she denies that she does it as much as ...

Wife Always Walks Ahead of Me...Far Ahead

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - This is a puzzling thing for me. About 10 years into my marriage I noticed that my wife would immediately walk ahead of me when going places. She doesn't slow down, just keeps walking. She is not more attractive for a woman than I am for a man, ...

He is like a light switch

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I have been married to a guy who is like a light switch what I mean is one day he will say I love you but the next day he says he doesn't like or love me. When we fight he take the easy way out by taking off for days and then come back and tells me ...

My wife says I play games too much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Okay my wife says i play my game too much that we don't have time for each other anymore. Okay i work all night pretty much i work 4 Nights a week and then on Sunday i go to work and open. We have a 15mth old daughter together so those two days that ...

Should I try and work this out or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. ...

Advise required on how to keep our affairs on the boil

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - i had sex continually with my wife's good friend who too is married for many monthes. we know its wrong but we both want to continue. please advice what we shud do to continue our relationship....

On top of all our problems sex is not happening either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My husband was in an accident 25 years ago prior to our marriage that left him paralyzed. He has a full time job and has lived indepentantly. We met 3 years ago on the internet. I lived in the USA and he lived in Australia. He came to visit me in ...

My husband has joined an online dating site

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - My husband has joined a sex dating site. Should I be worried. Or is it harmless fun?? ...

Has my husband's love for me faded?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - hi guys. my husband has been leaving on his own outside the country. recently i joined him there. but he doesnt seem happy to be with me. apparently its an isolated place with mostly men there. he has become so harsh with me. always finding fault ...

Not enough sex in this marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I love my wife. We have a great relationship, but no were near enough sex. I personally am up for it anytime anyplace. She also complains about not enough sex, but never initiates it. How can I change these things? ...

I still can't be intimate with my wife despite forgiving her infidelities

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - My wife and i have been married going on 4 years. In our first year married she cheated on me with my ex best friend. Well i found out later by her best friend and for a while My wife denied it then she finally broke down and told me. Well I forgave ...

Problem looking at other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Hi - I am 40, married for 10 years and have 3 amazing and beautiful kids. My wife keeps thinks that I have a problem of looking to other women telling me that I do it also in her presence. As for me I have no idea of what she is talking but I admit ...

I feel that I m a mother to him, not a wife.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - We 've been married forever. Right after my high school. We started out having no money at all to now owning a jewelry store. We split responsibility. I care of administration, my husband actually makes all the repairs and new designs. The probl...

I am almost certain my husband is using escort services!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone, I also am pretty certain that my husband for the 25 years is using escort services. My husband is self employed ,he not a nine until 5 man. There are alot of unexplained afternoon mobile numbers on his bill, when he dails these nu...

Could this be abuse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Am I being abuse if when I question my husband he puts on his headphones to block me out, ignores me for days, sleeps in the other room, tells me I'm negative, threatens divorce and if I try to remove a headphone from his ear to talk to him he hits ...

My wife says she no longer enjoys sex but she's unwilling to try new things

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - I have been with my wife for a total of 5 years and until recently, our sex life was pretty decent, but as of late, she has stated that she does not get anything out of it. I have done some research and understand what she means, but she is unwil...

How do I get past this insecure feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - I have been married for 23 years. I am exmilitary and have always been a striong secure male. My wife had a bad childhood and throughout our marriage has pushed me away every couple of years. I have tried to make her stop and realize she doesn’t ...

Trapped in a loveless, sexless marriage. Everybody loves my husband except me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - I have been married for many years and I have children. I have fallen in love with another man and the other man feels the same way about me. How do you make the choice to leave your marriage? I am not happy with my husband. I keep hearing everyone ...

I'm leaving my abusive husband, but why do I still feel so weak?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - Dear all, After 3 years of misery in a really bad marriage I finally decided to separate from my husband. I have no doubt that the marriage was bad and that this is the right decision but my problem is that I’m so afraid of the future. I’m 33 y...

How can I be happy if a part of me is forced to be repressed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - Hi aunts and uncles, I hope I do not offend anyone but I am a semi active crossdresser. Basically I am a married heterosexual man with no interest in men. I have a strong feminine side that I feel I need to satisfy, meaning, I need to feel pretty ...

Just learned that my wife cheated while we were engaged

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - I just found out my wife cheated on me when we were engaged. I'm really confused about what to do. Part of me wants to just leave and get a divorce, but my wife and I have been married for more than 10 years and 3 children. My trust in her is ...

Should I leave or stay? My ex husband cheated and may have a child with her...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - My screen name is blackwidow48, because of how I feel inside. I have been married for 16 years, but divorced for 2 years yet, my ex got evicted and asked if he could stay with me for a few months to save money and that was 8 months ago and he still ...

People think he's perfect. Yet how do I cope with his secretiveness and fact he may be seeing escourts? He has excuses for everything.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm married with two kids and have serious trust issues with my husband. We've been together for 12yrs and everyone who knows us thinks he's the perfect guy as he is a great father, helps around the house and is easy going. About 2 yrs ago I ...

Our living situation is getting to my wife. I endure her regular tantrums. Do I change our whole lifestyle and income due to her whim?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - I am 41 and I have been married to my wife for 19 years. We have no children. We bought this house in a large suburb (120K people) 10 years ago. It's near the mountains and we get a lot of wildlife. There are lots of trees, too, and you'd never know...

Problems with a blended family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 January 2012 (M) - I've been married for 2 plus years. My wife has 3 children all living with us ranging from 23 to 15. We lived together prior to us getting together for around three years. But I worked evening and got off work after everyone has gone to bed so I did...

I'm starting to see sex as another job/chore. My husband jokes its my "duty" but I really feel like telling him he can shove it

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 January 2012 (F) - My and my H have been together for over 10 years and have 2 children we both work full time. I am 27 and he is 35 we get on great and normally I have the higher sex drive however atm I just don't have the energy/need to have sex I haven't lost my ...

I am on my way out the door and about to separate from my wife!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 January 2012 (M) - This will be a long post and I would like honest comments to each point. I am on my way out the door and about to separate. I want to break down the problems so I can improve myself. I'll start with some things that have bothered my wife: -...

Wife scared of attraction to other man, how do I help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (M) - Good Afternoon, I could really use some assistance from the "experts" out there. My wife and I are each others first. July of this year we will have been together for 10 years, and married for 6. We have an amazing year and a half old chil...

I want to stop obsessing over my husband's female friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - I would like to stop obsessing over my husbands friend that I have mentioned in other postings. I don't want this to be an issue anymore. I just really do not like her or think she is good for our family. Please, anyone, any suggestions????...

I want to be my husband's best friend. How can I do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - I have not been a good friend to my husband for the past 12 years and so because of that he feels he cant trust me as a friend and is afraid to tell me things because i haven't been a good listener and would take it personally and criticize and make ...

Will I have to wait around all my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I am 20 and I have been seeing this man (35) for two years. I know I care for him and though I realize that something like marriage cannot happen right now (I want to finish school and be settled in my career first) I wanted to at ...

My wife says I should be satisfied with sex once a week or less. I'm not happy. what can I do about this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

22 January 2012 (M) - My wife only wants sex once a week or less this has made me so mad angry and upset most of the time I cant handle this lifestyle she has a low sex drive. I'm very sexed up every day I masturbate and need sex... Wife says she will never change onc...

My husband treats me bad and I have nowhere to go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - I dont know how to stard,anyway i got married to a guy who i loved for 5 years.now i have a 1year old son.but i feel my husband treat me like a shit.he do hurt me a lot but now i stop crying.onerstly if i dont have my son ill kill my self.he dont ...

I talk regularly to an ex, but he never told me he got married. Now he wants FWB with me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - I need some advice, I dated my boyfriend for 4 years, I am still in love with him but,we broke up in 2009 and every now and then I email him just to say "HI'. My friend told me he recently (2010) got married, I was shocked. I asked him if he was ...

My wife wants kids and I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - I'm 26 and married for 4 and a 1/2 years and my wife wants kids, but sometimes i don't. Yesterday we were in her friends home and i saw their kid energy all night and i thought to myself: "My GOd! I don't want kids, i dont want that hell! I dont ...

My husband was sex texting his ex and I can't trust him now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

19 January 2012 (F) - about a year ago i found that my husband to be, was sex texting his ex. i almost left him, but we just had a baby and i really love him (typical). he has been proving to me all year how devoted he is to the family. we r a family of 5. 2 other ...

In love with another man, how do I leave my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

19 January 2012 (F) - I am in a very difficult situation. I could really use everybody's help. I have been married for many years and have children. I have not been happy in my marriage for the last several years but stayed because of the children, financial securi...

Getting my marriage back on track - please help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

19 January 2012 (M) - Dear All Helping souls, I am from a south asian country - India - and have a problem. Being a workaholic I have repeatedly given preference to my work over family and wife. (family has one 3.5 years old child and we are married for 6 years)....

I'm married and now my lover has got married I have lost my trust in her....what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

18 January 2012 (M) - I am married and I have been in mutual relationship with a co worker for few years now. She recently got married and it was mutual decision that we shall continue working post her marriage and we both wont change our feelings for each other and ...

How does one deal with marriage issues, where the other person thinks everything is fine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (M) - How do you deal with marriage issues when the other party thinks everything is fine, in the sense they are devoted to the children and don't really care about the husband-wife dynamic....

We are poison together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 7years, it was love at first sight for both us.- the dilemma we face is we are poison together. We both use drugs I've been doing them from the loliness that I've been feeling. By numbing them, how and when are ...

Does my wife love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (M) - lm a guy aged 24 and im married.my wife she is pregnant,the problem is that all the time she want to fight with me and she hate me.the other thing is that she likes sex everytime when i am at home even im tired coming from work,tell me did this ...

My husband has fallen in love with a friend and blames me. So what does the quote mean that describes what he did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

17 January 2012 (?) - Many people have long time emotional affairs but keep saying that they are just friends. My husband also did it to me...very nice and obedient to his friend and very worst and ignoring to me..then fell in love with her. Feels guilty and confused..an...

How do I get my husband to realizehow selfish he is and how callous he is about my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F) - How do I make my husband of 30 years realize he is selfish and ignoring my feelings? I found out recently one of our old friends is one of his old lovers. He never told me and blames me for not asking. She has not been nice to me over the year...