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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I don't think my wife loves me anymore, but another woman has taken an interest in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Me and my wife have been together for 5 yrs and married for four. we have a child together, she is 2. I have two teenagers that live with us. she does the world for them and me even when I wasn't working, but even when I was working she has been...

I'm married and had an affair with a colleague, but he decided to stay with his GF. I'm so miserable and crushed, and can't face seeing him at work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I am married 6 years with a young child. 10 months ago I started texting with a guy I work with, who lives with his girlfriend. We had an instant connection and starting texting non stop. We fell in love...always wanting to see eachothe...

My wife has not had vaginal orgasms with me and it makes me feel very bad.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - I've been married for 3 years. This is my second marriage. I do love wife very deeply and she loves me. She has had many previous sex partners (around 25) and we met each other when she was 40. There is something I can not get over: She does not...

Why do I feel like I need a man to complete me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - hello cupid,i hoping you can help me anwser some concerns i have about me. i have been married for 20 years now. but thinking back i really got into this marraige really fast. within a week of my husband and myself dating we moved in together and ...

A wife, another woman who I love, and kids with both. Tell me how I can fix this situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - hi there I am 33 years old man and I have been married for 4 years now but been together for 10 years and we also do not have sex my wife treats this like a job. half a year into being married I started having an affair with a woman but only for fun ...

I think I still love him. But it's not mutual. What can I do? Seeing as my partner thinks I'm silly, and wants to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - I dont think my husband loves me because I just cant feel that! I think this question will be a long question. We did love each other a lot, he left his hometown and move to my city, in the frount of all the pressure just came to us, all the bill...

Married in 1975 and then in 2011 he cheated. He blames me for the break-up. Could we ever get back together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - my husband and i met when we were 16 and 17 he was my only boyfriend. We married in 1975 and been married for 37 years. In June 2011 he did something unusual that he never did before it was only a phone call to me and said he had rang the wro...

Is it only me who gets upset that some people cheat, and then want to keep that fact a secret from their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - Some Posters seem to be condoneing cheaters and ex promiscus people. Why do people think that its ok to lie to their husbands or wifes??? I just read where one agony aunt said "don't beat yourself up over it you just felt a connection so yo...

Unfaithful in my marriage. Why did I do this? Can I keep this secret forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have been married for over 20 years and have always been faithful with the exception of one man, twice. I met him 15 years ago at the gym and I was immediately attracted to him but kept it to myself. After a while, we began to talk and before I kn...

Why is my wife's family and my wife keeping big secrets from me? Why is my wife saying she loves me when clearly saying otherwise to others? what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - Hello, My wife and I live across a ocean! She is doing her post grad studies back home and I am working in Europe. Two months after I left for work and medical reasons (operation) my wife started seeing some guy. She had told her friends th...

Enough is enough! His alcoholism has resulted in him threatening me and make me feel insecure. What can I do and where can I seek help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I have been married for 13 yrs, my husband had been drinking since I met him it didn't use to bother me at first. This is because he will act nice and become nicer later. But lately he had become aggressive. Everytime he drinks he will start acti...

I've been having an affair for 9 years. I know it's wrong, but how can I break away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Hi all. I love this guy totally but he's married, so am I. Been trying to stop seeing each other for years. We been together 9yrs now. Each time we fail and whenever we do, we desire each other more and get closer. We have great fun, time ...

Suspicious of my wife. I keep a voice recorder in the house and heard her and my younger brother being over familiar. I am confused.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

26 December 2012 (M) - Hi all, Seeing other posts, I think I can get opinion here. Please suggest for below a thing that occurs in my home. Me and wife, 28 and 24 yrs and are married for 3 years. We have good relationship. But due to some suspicion, I kept voice rec...

I want to get back with my wife. I know deep inside she wants to give me another chance!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

26 December 2012 (M) - Hello, I am looking for advice to help me get back together with my wife. We were married for 8 years, knew each other for 15 probably, we have two boys 8 and 11. As people know that have kids, the intimacy in a relationship goes out the the door...

Husband is never around for me or our baby. Should I wait or hand him the divorce papers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I'm young, this I know but like most people my age I don't have all aspects of my life figured out and i'm not sure where to go from here. I have been married for about 2 years now and I have a 8month old baby with my husband, but now i'm not sure...

I stopped working after working all my life, I have no friends and I'm lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Hello there, just need some maybe little advice or i dont know what others can call it. Here is the fact. I am asian and i was a singer. I am a singer. Thats my job since im 16. I did it for my living. Im not really that star, im just ordinary mu...

Would he really leave his baby's mother for me? Or is he just telling me what I want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I have been with this guy for seven years and during the process of five years we were facing problematic issues because he was cheating. It happened that he made love with this other gal and she became pregnant, I left this guy immediat...

What can I do? I love my wife. I miss her. It's no no no too often. It hurts.There is no romance or passion in our marriage

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

25 December 2012 (M) - To start with I know woman like to say stuff like "your wife just needs you to be more affectionate" on these types of forums when men say they have this problem. This isn’t one of those situations at all...let me explain. Me and my wife have been ...

Our marriage deteriorates day by day. Sex is almost non-existent. Problems beset us. What can you advise? Because we need help now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I am having difficulty sleeping with my husband. We have been together for the past 6 years but our relationship seems to deteriorate by the day. In the beginning we couldn’t keep our hands off each other but these days the very thought of bein...

I've been flirting with guys the last 6 months. Should I leave my husband and start afresh in a more meaningful relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I met my husband when I was seventeen and married at 21. Now 28 with a child I am so unhappy! We argue a lot, over stupid and small things! I will admit I am bad tempered and may indicate things! Sex life gone down to a point I ask and be let ...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...

Ended affair last night.What can I do? Is there any point in hoping she could leave him? Or was I just played by her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

24 December 2012 (M) - I have no one else to talk to. For past year I have been in affair with coworker. Last summer we agreed that we will leave our partners and be together. I did it, she did not so I went NC for next two months. This autumn she started chasi...

What could I have done better? How to proceed from now on? advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I need some advice ok. I've been married for four years and we fought off and on and we have 3 children together. Four months ago my husband said he was going for a walk but never came back. Three days later I found out he left me for another wome...

What should I do about my mum having a relationship with a married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I recently found out that my mum has been having a relationship with a married man. My parents are divorced so its acceptable for her, but he is not. Also they are related to each other which i find very wrong. His children go to my school and i'm ...

Should I trust my husband? He cheated with my sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - my is love marriage,iam 30yrs and having 9 monhts baby girl,i got shock when i came to know that my husband and my elder sis having a relationship since one and half year in my 2yrs of marriage.i consider her as mother and she knew about it even ...

Our sex life is in the doldrums, are we doomed? He has the start of ED. His suggestion is a threesome, but I'm not so keen.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - My husband and I were talking about our sex life just a moment ago. He mentioned how sore he is from all the sex (which has been almost everyday...and I know he masturbates as well, but I think he has done that more in the last week than we have had ...

Should I confront my wife or am I being paranoid about her possibly chatting with other men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4391 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - We have been married for 5 years. Unfortunately live in seperate locations because of work(different continents !) We are committed to getting back together physically in a few months(move work location). My predicament is this, i believe she ...

I reached out to the friend with whom my husband cheated and I'm afraid it might backfire

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I will start at the very beginning, my husband and I have been together since I was 13 and he was 15. We were each others one and only for a very long time. When I was 20 I cheated on him, knew it was wrong came clean within a month and it was...

I want to leave my cheating husband, but need to straighten out some financial matters first. How can I cope with this in the mean time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

20 December 2012 (F) - I am married with 3 children. The youngest is 9 months old and the oldest is 3 1/2. My husband is contacting women on Craigslist and emailing them with the intent of having sex with them while he is at work. He has sent pictures of his genitals and ...

How do I cope with these feelings of hurt, jealousy, rejection, and anger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

20 December 2012 (F) - Currently separated for about 5 months, not hoping to reconcile, but there are still some feelings there (particularly because we have a young child and I'm hurting worse now that my child will not grow up with both parents). Husband flew to hi...

I'm confused and in love. What should I do considering my wife's attitude to our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

20 December 2012 (M) - What is the true meaning of marriage? My wife wants us to remain married, but i cant have sex with her. I can touch her, but i can only get a kiss from her every once in a while. She left my for her lover and now is single and not dating. She ...

My wife cheated on me with another woman. How can I attempt to start working out our marriage issues together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

20 December 2012 (M) - I have been away from my wife for 3 years now. we were together for 10 great years i thought. She had two kids before i met her, then we had a child to together. We had rough times here and there. From when we lost the house in a flood to losing...

What can I do to deal with my flirty (but not with me) husband who will not make love to me yet masturbates regularly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

19 December 2012 (F) - I have had it with my husband. We have been married for 16 years. The first 6 years I would say was great especially trying to have kids at that time. We ended up having 2 children. After our second child I noticed my husband wouldn't make an...

My head is telling me that I have to stay with my wife for the sake of my daughter. My heart is telling me that I have found my soul mate with another woman.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

18 December 2012 (M) - Should I follow my head or my heart? I have been married for five years now, but for the last year things haven't been going to good in my marriage. I am in the military and since my last deployment my wife has withdrawn herself from me. We have...

I can't stop making out with my colleagues!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - I am 27 married 7 years and have a child! I haven't been happy for a very long time but kept in marriage for security and for child sake! Recently at a Xmas do, I got very drunk and made out with s work colleague! I then went home and brought home ...

Should I leave my husband of 12 years for cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - Should I leave my husband of 12 yrs? My husband has cheated on me numerous times only 3 times I have proof of. Back in 2005 he had an affair that lasted for 7 months. I never knew anything was wrong it was a huge slap in the face. The reason for it ...

I just caught my husband wearing my knickers!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - My question is really two fold and I would like to hear from the other ladies. It was a shock to come home unexpectedly early and catch my husband in bra and panties. Things that he apparently has purchased but says this is really his first time ...

I want to have sex with my brother in law's wife.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

17 December 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid! Sorry to bother you. My problem still sustains there and now i need your help very desperately please. In my previous questions i asked you about a lady but almost all answers were very good and i tried my best to control myself b...

Should I leave my husband or not? I don't know how he will survive if I leave him....

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - I have to make a decision regarding leaving my husband. We have been together 18 years and have no children. Life prior to marrying was magical. I could not fault him in the least but on returning from our honeymoon he became grumpy and sulle...

My husband is tired of me. How do I deal with the rejection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

17 December 2012 (F) - I'm having a very hard time dealing with rejection. I'm 30, separated after 6 yrs marriage about 4 months ago. Marriage had it's good times, but was generally not very happy and there was a lot of verbal and emotional abuse. I stayed becaus...

I don't want to be alone, but I can't be on my toes anymore!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

16 December 2012 (M) - I'm sorry if this is So long, it is both a rant and a request for advise. Let me start by saying I love my wife very much, and she is the most important thing in the world to me after my kids. I truly believe she is my soulmate. She was also my ...

My Ordeals and Mistakes in Life will be my Strength

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14 December 2012 (F) - My ordeals and mistakes in life will be my strength When I was 24 years old, I thought of marriage as an escape from my father who was very strict with me. I married the man who was working with us as lead guitarist in our restaurant bar b...

I had a vasectomy 4 years ago...so why was my wife was taking birth control pills?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

13 December 2012 (M) - Quick question for any women out there. I am married for 12 years, 3 kids, no "issues" per se. I’m a good dad, provider, etc. My wife is a good mom, hard worker and loves me. We went through a period though about 2-3 years ago for around 12 ...

I caught my wife exchanging explicit pictures on her cell phone, is divorce imminent?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

11 December 2012 (M) - I caught my wife exchanging explicit pictures on her cell phone she says she has no attraction to this man it was purely an emotional connection I don't know if I will ever be able to trust her again children are involved is divorce imminent?...

How can I get closure with husband weeping around about lost young lover?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) - How to get closure when husband's young EA lover keeps him hanging on? I recently found out my husband, 58, of 30 years, had been having an emotional affair for the last 18 months with a young female friend, 28, who already has a live in boyfrien...

How can I show my husband that he should turn to me, not other women friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) - My husband and I have gone through a lot and it takes 2. In the past I have been very jealous and controlling and judgmental the point where he feels he doesn't really see me as a good friend to come to to talk to. So needless to say he has found ...

How can I get my self confidence back after being left by my husband? I feel like damaged goods now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) - How can I get my self confidence back after my husband left? I tolerated a lot of behaviors from my husband during my marriage that I never thought I would because I thought marriage was supposed to last forever. Every time I would be verball...

Why is my husband into this kind of disgusting porn?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

10 December 2012 (?) - My husband and I have been married for 15 years. I have always been aware that he watched porn (before marriage). The first time I found a video I threw it away, and I didn't say anything to him about it and neither did he. Needless to say he got ...

My husband said he can't express happy or be himself around me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

10 December 2012 (F) - I feel empty inside. My husband told me that he can't be himself around people or family when he is with me. he said that when he feels good and has something that makes him happy, he has to hold it in so that I won't burst his bubble. We are not ...