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female
age
41-50,
*ife is bs
writes:I have been married for 13 yrs, my husband had been drinking since I met him it didn't use to bother me at first. This is because he will act nice and become nicer later. But lately he had become aggressive.Everytime he drinks he will start acting stupid calling me name in front of my children and some times even putting his hands on me.He tried tp throw me out of the house in the middle of the night a few times.He has thrown my clothes outside.I want to leave him but I'm not a legal citizen in this country and he is. Therefore he threatens me with calling d police on me and says he's have my children taken away from me. I don't know Wht to do, I have a 14 year old, and a five year old, a four year old and two babies who are children I had with him. What can I do???
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reader, Dangerously Enthusiastic.  +, writes (27 December 2012):
 I have a lot of experience with alcoholics and situations involving children. Could you message me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 December 2012):
 Are the children citizens? Are you a legal resident? do you work legally?
IF you don't want to leave the country, contact immigration and find out what you can do to stay in the country legally if the kids are citizens.
Once you take away his power to threaten you with deportation he's really very powerless and then you can leave.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (27 December 2012):
 Book tickets home and get the hell out of there with your children.
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