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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Have I been blinded by love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - My wife and I meet via friends dating site. After 4 mths of boyfriend girlfrind relationship, I moved In with my 16 yr son and her 2 children 2 and 4. We had the normal ups and downs. My son left home due to my wife not wanting him there, which was ...

We are having problems but I don't want to lose her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - i have been dating my g/f for about 4 years and we were so comfortable with each other that we started picking out children's names and planned on moving in together and establishing our lives together. eventually though, within the past year, i got ...

I can't decide.....my wife?? Or my girlfriend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I need help from someone who has been through this life crisis before, and has time to read my story! My wife and I married in our late 20s, thinking we both knew what we wanted, and although we didn’t have a whirlwind passionate romance, we thou...

Am I right in thinking my husband might be having an affair with a co-worker?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - My husband has been a bit distant from me and he's been more into his job lately. I have this gut feeling that is starting some relationship with a female co-worker of his since he used to just call on a break to say hi and that has stopped and says ...

I left hubby now I want him back but he's with someone else now, is there any hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - i left my husband about a year ago. i thought i was unhappy with our life together and messed up big time. now that i realize my mistake i want him back but i think it's too late. he has been with a woman for around 8 months or so. the thing is he ...

How can I be neutral on this guy who I had a crush on from day one??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6139 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi... So I got married to such a great guy a year and a half ago when I was 19. He's so sweet and supportive and I adore him and we're so happy together! Before I started going out with my husband (2 1/2 years ago) I had a big crush on his best fri...

I had fantasies about my wife being slutty with other men, but now we're acting them out I'm not so sure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - well where do i start,im 35 and been married for 16yrs,i have 3 children with my wife,i have worked away from home for the past 14yrs and i am away for long periods at a time,for yrs we have had fantasies about my wife being a slut,as of recently ...

He is getting divorced, and still wants children, I cant give him this but we are so right together, I'm sure I can convince him we are meant to be if we move in together, that should work ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid. I need help. Okay here goes. I started going with this guy, and we've been together for 6 months now. He's married and is in the process of a divorce. He and his wife are no longer living together. He wants us to get a place together.At ...

What should be the right choice to make here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - This is a very awkward situation .I hope I can explain it as close as possible,and someone might be able to relate to this or give an advice. So its a long and troublesome marriage ,was real love i guess, but today, its an other story.. So the pr...

I found out my boyfriend is married, but his wife doesn't care, he still wants a future together, should I bother?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - please help is there anyone out there who has been involved with a married man? I met the most wonderful man almost two years ago. two months after dating him i found out he was married. I was crushed but couldnt drag myself away. His wife knows ...

Am I talking too much to his parents about his affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - My husband of ten years had an affair with a woman for 10 months. She works 2 blocks from his office and they see each other daily. I caught him and he confessed and so did she. Both of them told me that it was over and that it was merely sexual ...

Should I divorce to see what happens with my best friend, whom I have always loved? We're both unhappy in our present situations.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

27 January 2008 (?) - I am totally in love with my best friend. We have known each other since we were teenagers. We dated in our teens and were each others first loves. When we broke up, we remained best friends. He moved away in his early 20's and got on with his ...

Turned on secretly seeing wife with another man

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

27 January 2008 (M) - i saw my wife having sex with another man. they didn't see me and i watched until they finished. i didn't get angry, i got turned on. i want to tell my wife, but will she be disgusted with me? i really wanted to join in when i was watching, ...

No loving at home has me looking elsewhere

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6142 days ago

26 January 2008 (M) - I have a strip club, porn addiction. Is it totally wrong or can it be worked into a marriage successfully? My wife has been very negative towards any real love for a long time. I have been married for 30 years, but I am very interested in sex and ...

Overwhelmed by failed marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - I am 41 and going through a divorce after 25 yrs of marraige and im scared as heck and dont really know what life has in store for me and my daughter ...The Divorce is just really starting but he ask me in April I thought there was Hope But ...

How to say it's over

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - he wont even hug me anymore - i know i am a beautiful and desireable woman, this is over and i must tell him...

Husband's interest is wandering

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 January 2008 (F) - my husband is taking intrust in other girl i am worried about this situation help me what can do ...

Secretly in love with my wife's sister. I realise my marriage was a mistake. What next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

26 January 2008 (M) - what if you can't stand being married to the person you've married. what if after years of being married you realize that you've made a mistake. what if your marriage has turned out to be that you thought you could change the person you married, ...

She can't see that sex is love for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - hi I'm 54 my wife is 34 we have 3 kids in the beginning we had the best sex i ever had i love her so much it hearts dont work i have money look after kids all day we don't sleep together we have sex 4/5 times a year she dont touch me just says put ...

My newly sober husband and a clueless boyfriend! Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I'm at a crossroad here..My situation is tearing my heart apart and I need some advice from anyone who is willing to read this. Well I've been married for 3 years and my husband suffered a major car accident 7 years ago (before we met)ever since ...

Found inappropriate conversations between them on the computer...I'm afraid my husband is cheating on me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6136 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for nearly a year now and so far everything has been great between us. I've never thought him to be one to do things behind my back or anything like that. But throughout our entire relationship, even before we were ...

My husband is a good man but I am struggling to deal with his porn watching.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - I have been reading the QandA's on porn because i am trying to understand how to deal with this issue. My problem with my husband watching it has nothing to do with the sex part. It's my body. I am not over weight but do have the typical c-sectio...

We have had threesome's but he doesn't want to be part of a MFM threesome.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

25 January 2008 (F) - My husband and i have had threesomes with women and he performed with no problems and was not shy or anything. He has no problems with me having sex with other men. I want to have a threesome where i am the object of attention from two men and ...

Should I worry my wife might be gay because she watchs lesbian porn before sex??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - My wife watches lesbian porn before we have sex. Do i have to worry if she is a lesbian????...

My wife added an ex as a friend on myspace and I think this is very wrong...should I just delete him or confront her first??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

25 January 2008 (M) - My wife and I are married for a little over 4 years. We were dating/engaged for about 3 years before that. So we have a lot of history and a great marriage. Question is, my wife recently set up a myspace account (with my help, she is a little c...

Our sex life is in tatters due to his affair. How can We move on!?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

24 January 2008 (?) - Hi people, My husband had an affair last year. We have made enourmous progress in trying to get back on track, but it is tough. Through the recovery process, our sex life obviously has come into discussion and debate. Our sex life pri...

Should I still trust my wife after she admitted emailing her ex behind my back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - Hi, My wife received an email from an old boyfriend, she told me at that time and we agreed to that, she will reply and tell him that, my husband don't like us to exchange emails and for that this is my last email to you. The problem is my wi...

My estranged wife wants me back now I have met someone new. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

24 January 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been seperated for a year. I made it clear to her that I had no choice but to move on. I tried for 9mos to get her back and she said no at every turn. I recently met someone. My wife started looking into the divorce papers and ...

What are the most valid reasons for divorce?? Or should you never give up??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

24 January 2008 (F) - What are the biggest ,valid reason for divorce? -Living in a miserable marriage -cheating -lying -constant arguing -too absorbed in work -abuse -no fun -not initiating -not very passionate about their kids life -lack of sex -not feel loved So I ...

How can I be strong enough to leave or deal with his having cheated even during my pregnancy?...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - My husband was sleeping with this other girl before we were married, he was actually dating her behind my back. He didn't break up with her until after we were married and he kept sleeping with her. We have been married less than 2 years and he ...

What do we do about visitation for the children now we are splitting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - I have come to end of my relationship of ten years.I belive its OVER!! After ten years,and 3 kids he recently TOLD me we have no future together.I have put up with his manic depression,his affair,his mental,verbal and physical abuse.Him twisting ...

How can he say he loves me when he behaves like this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - My husband has damaged our relationship, we have been married for 30 years, recently I discovered he had been watching porn and masturbating to it, he said he would stop and that it was probably due to boredom having been together for so long. Then ...

Am I being too soft?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - I have just had a really tough year in my marriage. Here is a brief history: My husband walk out after a few months of marriage, devastated I then let my job, started a new life, he asked me back after 4 months, i went back, we then move abroad, i ...

How can I believe him and trust him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a dilemma, I have been married for 6 months now and have been going out with him for 4 years before that. I just cannot tell you how much i love this man, he means everything to me and i thought I meant the same to him. The...

How do I transform my love feeling into a friendship, as I do not wish to have an affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - I have been happily married for 15 years and I felt in love in a colleague in the past few months. Hopefully, he doesn't share my feelings but he enjoyes having lunch with me. How do I transform my love feeling into a friendship. I would like to ...

Can marriage work after an affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - I am a 49 year old MM and fell for an attractive 47 year old divorcee, after having a bad spell in our long 20 year marriage. We shared an intense relationship for a few months as "soul mates". I called it off when I realised I would not leave my ...

My wife's sexual past disgusts me--over 20 guys from the age of 16-18!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

22 January 2008 (M) - When me and my wife first hooked up, she was 18 and had me thinking she had been with two guys before me. Then the first lie came to light when I had to take a DNA test for our first son, because on a trip back home she had sex with "a friend". So ...

Mom's new husband seems to be pushing us all away from her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Hi everyone...I am having a problem with my mom's new husband. They first met about 6 months ago on the internet and decided to get married pretty much a month after meeting which was the first thing that bothered me since my mother has already been ...

My husband is crossdressing and it makes me SOO uncomfortable Help!!!

This question has 57 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

22 January 2008 (F) - Ok this is going to be complicated. My husband of over a year has started to act a little different. At first I found out that he likes backdoor play, and not on me on him! Then a few weeks ago he started wearing my undies, Telling me that ...

I am so angry--he 's married and I am tempted to tell his wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - I broke up with my "boyfriend" three weeks ago after spending three months fighting with him about how he lied to me about being married. He told me after I told him that I loved him. I'm not stupid. He lied very well and I'm way too trusting and ...

Husband can't make his mind up! where do we go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - My husband and I split 4 months ago after 17 years of marriage. He had a lot of jealous insecurities none of which had any basis, and he left me after accusing me of wanting to attract men online, which was a complete fantasy just going on insi...

We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her though...advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - Help, my wife has left me! We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her very much and I know she loves me, but the pain is to big at this point. We have children and I also don't want them to hurt. I am feeling depressed and I ...

Marriage problem - midlife crisis or age difference?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

21 January 2008 (M) - Hi I have been with the same (only) woman for nearly 30 years - she is older than me and has children from her first marriage. I love her very dearly, but aargh! I'm experiencing a real sense of restlessness - looking at other women, wanting t...

I feel unloved and unfancied. What can I do to get him to take more interest in me emotionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Hi Im 7 months pregnant and obviously a little hormonal occasionally! I have a very emotionally retarded husband anyway but now im pregnant i find it even harder to deal with. He's a very successful, business minded kind of guy so i gue...

Why do men engage in extramarital affairs? Love? Pure escapade?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

21 January 2008 (F) - Is a man who engages in an extramarital affair usually in "love" with the person with whom he is having the affair, or does he "just want to have an affair", meaning there is no emotions or love at all?...

Feeling insecure, how can I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

20 January 2008 (F) - hi... ive been married for almost 6 months now but hav been with my man for 3 years. ive always been an emotional person but recently ive been acting so clingy, i feel like i always need him with me or else i feel so lost and sad. i dont know how to ...

Husband tried to cheat with my friend. Do I forgive him and how can I look my friend in the eye again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

20 January 2008 (F) - my husband tryed to cheat on me with my best friend we have been married 5 years and have a 2 year old son. my husband and my best friend was drunk she went to bed and woke up next to my husband naked and trying to get it on with her she kicked him ...

Could I be being used?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

20 January 2008 (F) - hello im 33 and i am married to a muslim guy. we married after knowing him only 3 months or so. we married islamically.i think he is using me but his actions say otherwise. we argue a lot and he says he is in love with me , i would love a bab...

My husband always takes the side of our children to the point they all become abusive! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

20 January 2008 (F) - help - my husband of 24 years does not stand up for me - he always takes the side of our children to the point of them being very verbally abusive and physical as well. He does not step in to support me. I am at the point of leaving - what should ...

Why isn't she like she used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6150 days ago

20 January 2008 (M) - Prior to my wife having our daughter (now 6) e had a good sex life, now if we have sex it is just get it over with, i can't touch her the way i used to, foreplay is non existent. I want to be a good lover and husband but when i ask why she doesn't ...