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Feeling insecure, how can I cope?

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Question - (20 January 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi... ive been married for almost 6 months now but hav been with my man for 3 years. ive always been an emotional person but recently ive been acting so clingy, i feel like i always need him with me or else i feel so lost and sad. i dont know how to stop feeling like this.. i do enjoy time with mates regularly but even then sometimes it gets me down that im not with him. im sleeping at a mates tomorrow and it makes me sad and teary just thinking about not seeing him for 24 hours. why am i feeling this and how do i get over it?

sarah

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008):

It sounds like to me that you could be pregnant. When I was pregnant with my last two babies, I started wanting my man around all the time. To hold me, talk to me and rub my back. Go get a pregnancy test, girl!

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A female reader, Devilish Angel United States +, writes (21 January 2008):

Devilish Angel agony auntGive him a call. Hearing his voice helps alot. I'm embarassed to admit that I keep his voicemails and listen to them from time to time because it always puts a smile on my way.

Also check if you're pregnant. Your hormones go nuts when you are.

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A female reader, tj1091 United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2008):

I used to be exactly the same. You need to make more effort to create a life outside your marriage, doing other things so you don't depend on him so much. Being so dependent on someone does nothing for your self esteem, and it can be annoying for the partner too. Try to be independent, and strong, and he will respect you for that.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (21 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntGrow up and learn to be independent.Don't treat him a clutch.You are not an invalid.

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