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Archived questions from: June, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

He cheated and I took him back, but now I am upset

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - I discovered that my husband of 16 years was having an affair with a work colleague. I had my suspicions and constantly confronted him. He finally told me and then left to cross the world to be with her. All this time he was telling me he loved ...

I'm confused and unhappy with the way my life is going

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

30 June 2007 (M) - I am a MAN, and I have realized how stupid I am! I am married, since 4yrs and I don't know why? I grew up in a single parent home and I am having major challenges in understanding the needs of a home, wife, family, etc. I am a good person. ...

My husband is overprotective

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - hi everyone im a 33 year old wife and happy with my husband but sometimes he can be acting a little overprotected. i was just wondering if u guys can help on wether or not go to a trip with my sister and her family with my kids. i asked my husband ...

I can't bring myself to leave my husband but I can't end my affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I am very confused and need help. I have been married for almost ten years. About fours years after we were married I became pregnant and was blessed with a beautiful daughter. Unfortunately, I became very ill during the pregnancy and almost died ...

I want my new husband to stop thinking about his ex wife

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - Hi! I have been married for the past 6 months to a divorcee with one kid. I knew my husband while he was going thru his divorce. I have this feeling that he thinks of his ex while he is in bed with me, and he still harbours feelings for his...

Our marriage is over and I'm angry about his other interests

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - My eleven year marriage recently ended. For the last two years our relationship declined to a mere roommate situation and during this time frame I became very lonely, but because of my belief in maintaining a monogomous relationship I never steped ...

Since we got married he's become like a different person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - My Husband and I just got married less then 2 months ago...We've been together for 5 years and it was his decision to get married. I thought this would be such a wonderful start to a new life. I was so Wrong!! Since our wedding, he does nothing ...

We're going to sell up, move away and start again, opinions on this would be appreciated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6309 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - Hi guys, It would be nice to get some opinions on my situation as it is at the moment please. My husband and I were going through some business and financial difficulties early part of last year and it caused us to lose sight of each other. My ...

How do I light a fire under my lazy ass wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - How do I light a fire under my lazy ass wife? She doesnt do anything but lay around while im at work, and then expect me to do dishes, laundry, and clean the house. Should i just quit doing everything? Granted we have a two and four year old, but ...

My wife makes me feel like I am less than a man at time, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

27 June 2007 (M) - my wife is a very aggressivley emotional person and when she has her emotional outbursts it makes me withdawl emotionaly because I feel like I'm being attacked. she accuses me of having no emotions and accuses me of having no passion in the bedroom. ...

I can't imagine not wanting sex so I would imagine if I could just get her to want it more, we could both be happier!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm married over 10 years now and love my wife very much. Lately, however, I have been feeling like I'm getting a bit old and wanting more sex to compensate. I fear having a dull, brother/sister type marriage. I'm extremely sexual and could have ...

He always hides little things from me from his ex and child and I wish he wouldn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Female from San Francisco. I have been married for 5 years. My husband was married before and has one child. He always hides little things from me from his ex and child or other things. everytime I comfront him he says that that life is over and...

I married him after 6 months only to feel secure - I feared that I wouldn't find anyone else. Now I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Not Sure If I Should Stay With My Husband... My husband and I have been married for a little over 3 years now. We met at a stressful point in my life and he was a strong support for me. We only dated for about 6 months before getting married....

My husband and his brother's wife had an affair. I feel his brother needs to know, but I don't want him to hurt as I do. Children are involved - what should I do??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - I found out my husband had an affair with his brother's wife. I am now going through a divorce. Learning about the affair has almost destroyed me. His brother knows nothing about the affair. I know my soon-to-be ex-husband and his broth...

I always inititate sex with my husband and he never does. When I try to talk about it, he refuses! I feel so alone.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - I need some advice. I dont mention this to my friends because people think we have the perfect relationship and it is, well almost.... I have been with my partner for two years, he is my dream man, when we first met and still to this day there is ...

I can't stop thinking about this other guy! How can I split with my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - hi, recently i've been having feelings for an ex, we have spent a bit of time together, problem is he has a girlfriend and i am married. I have been unhappy with my husband for quite a while now, long before this other guy came on the scene again....

I am attracted to my husbands brother!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - I feel guilty because lately I've been having fantasies with my husband's brother!!! I'm glad to know that I finally found someone that could listen to me and give good advice on this that I been keeping to myself. I've been happily married ...

I feel a chemistry with a man who isn't my husband--is it all in my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - dear cupid, i'm in a bit of a dilemma, to say the least. i've been married for nearly 7 years though cant say it's been any kind of relationship apart from co parenting for at least 4 and i am terribly lonely and miss love in my life and my husband ...

She's getting married but she has feelings for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - This girl I really like initiated some dates with me about two months ago. I wasn't sure at first how I felt about her in that way. I'd known her for about three months before that and we'd gotten on alright. However, over the past six weeks I've ...

My married bf has no time for me, now and I'm depressed about it! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - Hi friends I am married and after my 1st child born, i love to someone in my office in first sight love. Till now I am in love with him (means 12 years now) I love him so much and he also love me too. I don't know why I do not have any kind of...

My husband won't communicate with me--I'm desperate for help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - Please can someone who either 1) has 1st hand experience in these things or 2) is able to give positive advice instead of saying the words 'leave him' or 'you should never have married him' kind of advice answer this. I am totally beside myself an...

I'm in a loveless marriage; should I leave?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - Do I abandon a passionless marriage? He loves me, I know -- but he's not in love with me, never has been. And he's trying, he knows we're in deep stuff here. But it's been 20+ years of little romance, an ever-decreasing amount of sex, and such a ...

He said he had an affair because he thought I was having one

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice! I recently found out that my husband of 16 years-married since we were both 21-has been cheating on me for 6-7 months with someone I know( a mother up at our local school)-we have 2 children. He said because he felt I ...

My wife says she doesn't love me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 June 2007 (M) - been with my wife 22 years, married for 12 years, had a bad 2 years , jealousy, her going out , money probs, now she want to throw in the towel, is there anything i can do to save my marridge, she says she cares for me but dont love me in that way ...

My husband won't take any responsibility for my unhappiness--please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - I am very unhappy with my husband at this time and I have tried to express how I feel but he keeps saying that 'he is not responsible for my emotions' and that 'he is not responsible for my happiness'. I know it is important in life to find your ...

My husband "jokingly" puts me down--is he doing this on purpose to hurt me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - My husband, who I love very much, constantly puts me down in a 'jokey' way. He never pays me any compliments and didn't want our baby, he stares at other women all the time and I feel like he is just waiting to get a British passport. However he ...

I found out my husband is looking to meet transvestites--how do I confront him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Hi, I know this probably is not the best place to find help in this matter. But right now I don't feel like telling my friends or family about this. I am married and really love my husband. But he uses internet a lot and he keeps logging on dating ...

How can I get my wife to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

22 June 2007 (M) - I married my highschool sweetheart after I completed college and we've been together for more than 15 years, and had what I thought was a great relationship. Then suddenly after my wife lost her job as a medical administrator, she told me she wasn't ...

I think my husband wants to cheat on me to make up for experiences he missed out on in prison

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

22 June 2007 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 10 months. We knew each other for 11 yrs before we got married. Things have been great until April. I had to go out of town to train for my job. I came home every weekend and it seems since I came home for ...

I'm so tired of my disasterous relationship; how can I fix things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 9 years (5 of which we have been married). I met my husband when I was 20 and we moved away together. I was enamored with him from the start. He is brilliant in science and architechure and runs his own company. He ...

My husband is a dirty stop-out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - How can I keep my husband from coming in after 12:00 midnight. ...

My husband was seeing prostitutes while I was pregnant, has been searching for women to date online and is always bad tempered since the birth of my baby. Should I leave him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - Hello, I have been married for 4 years, and together with my husband for the past 7, and I gave birth to our baby boy last September. My husband has been unable or unwilling to have sex with me for the past 3 years on and off, and since I was 8 we...

I found out that my husband is sending emails with photos of himself in his underwear! What am I to think?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - Recently I found out my husband has been emailing photos of himself in underwear to another man. I was emailing a friend we haven't seen for a long time some photos of our recent holiday, checked the outbox to see if it had sent, and was stunned ...

We've been married 12 years and he's never given me an orgasm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - My husband of 12 years has never given me oral sex. I give him BJs all the time. He's a missionary-position type of guy. I'm very clean and shower often, and have shaved everything, too, because he said he might like that. But he has a hang up ...

My husband won't stop spending, despite our debts

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2373 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - hey everybody i have a question why are men so difficult? my husband wont stop spending money! hes overseas and we have all these bills that he had before we got married and i now have bills because i got behind on some of my things tryin to pay his ...

My best friend's wife gave permission for us to sleep together as their sex life was non existent and she couldnt be bothered to try and improve their marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

20 June 2007 (F) - My best friend's wife gave permission for us to sleep together as their sex life was non existent and she couldnt be bothered to try and improve their marriage. We did this on many occasions and eventually fell deeply for each other , but when she ...

I don't want to cheat, but I want other men!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

20 June 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband for 10 years. Before I met him I was very sexually active with many different partners. When I got with my husband and fell in love I thought I would change but over the last year or so I have wanted to look elsewhere. I ...

My wife is behaving strangely; could she be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6344 days ago

20 June 2007 (M) - Do I have sufficient reason to be concerned/suspicious? Recently my wife of 9months has been hanging out with a group of new "friends" (she's 26 and this group is 19-20) until 2 or 3 in the morning. She use to be very concerned about getting to...

Should I be selfish and risk the possibility of messing one relationship up and eventually being right back in the same situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

20 June 2007 (M) - I thought I loved my wife when we met. It may have been many things that caused me to feel the way I did and do for her. I feel like I'm staying in the marriage for duty rather than anything else. The problem comes where an ex girlfriend of mine has ...

My lazy alcoholic wife is making me nuts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

19 June 2007 (M) - Hi, Been married for 14 years now, 3 three lovely preteen/teen girls who are my life. My wife and I have had lots of ups and downs - in the past, mostly down to me I think. I had lots of issues lying to her about things (mostly money stuff,no ...

I fell in love with another man, but dont want to hurt my children by dumping their Dad

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

19 June 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost nine years now. It has been a rocky nine years due to affairs on both sides. We have two beautiful children together. About three months ago I joined a website just to make friends to chat with when I g...

My wife has just gotten too darn fat to be attractive anymore

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

19 June 2007 (M) - I'm in my late 40's and have been married for nearly 26 years, most of which have been happy however my Wife has become increasingly overweight and put simply I no longer fancy her physically. She makes no serious attempt to lose weight and get fit ...

I want to leave my husband but there are too many other problems in the way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

19 June 2007 (F) - My husband and fell out of love a long time ago. 3 years ago, I decided to leave. I started looking for work b/c I had been a stay at home mom for 11 years and I knew we couldn't afford for me to move out b/c we have a lot of medical bills with one ...

My wife and I can't communicate our feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

19 June 2007 (M) - my wife loves me and i love her but we always wait for eachothr to show that, always hiding our feeling to eachother. what should i do to fix this problem?...

He lies to me about where he goes and gets mad when I confront him!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

18 June 2007 (F) - My Husband and I have been married for 12 years. 4 years ago he had an affair. we stayed together and got past that. He for some reason has continued to lie to me about where he goes, he gets angry when i confront him and turns in on me. This has ...

I'm just about ready to end the relationship with my long term boyfriend. Should I move out before I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

18 June 2007 (F) - I think I'm nearing the time for breaking up with my long term boyfriend who I live with. We are not officially married, and have no children, but for the past few years for all intents an purposes been functioning as if we were married. It sounds s...

Should I end my marriage and just go on a hope and a prayer, with this other guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

17 June 2007 (F) - Alright, I have a problem. My head hurts from thinking about it and analyzing it. Let me give you some background. Basically I met this guy, B, sophomore year of high school. We hit it off immediately. Literally the week that we started dating ...

My Mother in Law is Mean!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

17 June 2007 (F) - my mother in law is very close to my husbands ex and i have never been accepted or respected by her. She talks about me behind my back and calls me fat. (i am not) her attitude towards me and my relationshop with her son is totally disrespecful. i ...

Do I divorce my husband and go for my dream man or continue living in this unhappy marriage for the sake of the children and the society I live in?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

16 June 2007 (F) - I am married for 20 years but was never attracted to my husband as it was an arranged marriage. I continued in this marriage for the sake of the children and the society i live in. Now both the boys are teenagers. There was no intimacy in our ...

He told me today he can't leave his wife for me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6340 days ago

16 June 2007 (F) - I have a best friend who declared his undying love for me but he is married to a very dominant lady whilst he is very weak and he had decided a while ago he was leaving through unhappiness but didn't. His wife stopped us seeing each other because ...