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My wife and I can't communicate our feelings

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Question - (19 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my wife loves me and i love her but we always wait for eachothr to show that, always hiding our feeling to eachother. what should i do to fix this problem?

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntMy boyfrined when we had been going out a while had a thing about not telling me verbally he loved me. It was a big commitment for him so he would leave notes on my pillow and buy me flowers and little things like that. I used to buy him cards in return with how I felt.

Try buying her flowers and cooking her dinner to show how you feel and maybe she'll do something in return to show you.

Communication is a big part of a relationship and it isn't the easiest thing in the world, but even if you only sit down and talk about your feelings once a month or something you may find it'll become a habbit to talk about them whenever.

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A female reader, darksecretangel United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2007):

darksecretangel agony auntHey

Well, what you should do instead of waiting for her to say it all the time, you should just say you love her and express your feelings more.

Start by little gestures to show your love, for example chocolates, flowers to big gestures. Not only will she love it but she will also appriciate what you have done and probably tell you and show you how she feels about you.

Dont forget communication is the key so sit down with her once in a while and chat about whats on your mind.

Take care =]

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