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41-50,
*ammiej25
writes:I have been married to my husband for 10 months. We knew each other for 11 yrs before we got married. Things have been great until April. I had to go out of town to train for my job. I came home every weekend and it seems since I came home for good that he would rather me not be here. He spent time in prision and he told me the other day that he feels like he missed out on things. Well news flash he did. Thats his fault. I checked and rechecked with him before we got married that he is sure he wanted to do this cause we could put things on hold for a while if need be. He assured me over and over again that he was fine with where he was and what he has experienced. Now I found out that he is signing up for text flirt through his phone. I don't think he has cheated on me yet but I feel like he wants too. He never wants to be around me anymore and complains that I call him too much. So I decided to give him some space and back off. I don't call him at all anymore unless its an emergency. What is up with him. Should I just let it go or be worried. Please help I love him with all my heart and want to keep him.
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reader, Dr. Surgel  +, writes (22 June 2007):
 Back right off from this guy for a while. Don't call him, do your own thing - work, play, have your own friends, live your own life as much as you can while you are still married to him. By doing this you will make yourself much more attractive to him again, and even if he does want to, or has cheated, he will probably start missing you and hopefully realise eventually that another woman is just another woman, and he would like to go back to the life he used to happily share with you.Good luckDr. Surgel
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): Text flirting services are a con (I used to work as an operator talking to men such as your husband). They are generally flirt services, not meeting services. 'Flirting' means chicks will sexy chat with him but that is all he is going to get. He is getting ripped off (since he probably thinks he is going to meet hot babes), and he deserves the massive phone bill he is going to get.I have talked to TONNES of guys like your husband. Confront him about it - it is a fantasy of being with another woman, or would he take this into reality. If he is serious about making your marriage work, he wouldnt be doing this stuff. I feel for you, I really do.Best thing is to be upfront - you have nothing to lose and communication is everything. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): well guys are like that .yes look out he will start cheat but dont think you will be the first person to get hurt just look out
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