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Love stories: Help and advice

Why won't he tell me about his female friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - This guy has confused me. We started off as friends. We get along really well together. He is the most caring man I ever met. Gradually, I felt I could see a possibility of a future with him. We are together almost like 24x7, except that we don't ...

Unrequited love.... I now realize she was my first love, should I write this letter to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - unrequited love My flat mate and me fell for each other at uni three years ago. We had lived together for two years and just got on fantastically well, however despite her being a reasonably attractive girl I must admit that I didn't find her sexu...

He told me that I'm his world.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - This threw me off a bit last night. We were saying our goodbyes and after our goodnight kiss he told me that im his world. i know this should make me all giddy inside but honestly idk how to feel about it. what do guys means when they say this?...

I really like her, but I'd like to be her friend in the process.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Hello everyone. I like this beautiful girl! The thing is I feel she is out of my league. The thing is we used to talk a bit at school but that stoped. So last week she comes and sits next to me. So we start talking and I say I would help you if I ...

Are my dreams guiding me to be with her, or misleading me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I've been having dreams this past week about a girl I like; all which has been consecutive. She is one of my good friends who lives down the hall in the dorms. In the dreams, we are usually just hanging out doing whatever. Over each dream I have, we ...

I want to get to know this guy, but I'm hesitant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Well, I have a crush on this guy. I always see him on the bus stop when I come from school early. He's beautiful! He has long red dreads and a pale face with the cutest freckles. He's older than me. I think by a lot of years and he might be on drugs ...

Would you tell him with words or body language if you didn't like the increase physical affection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - Girls, if you had a male best friend who admitted he liked you but you felt you wasn't ready for a relationship (for any reason but for example because you've been hurt in the past), how would you react if your male best friend gradually started to ...

love my best friend who I also live with..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I know there are a million people who have been through this but right now I feel like I'm the only one. I have a great job and live in a great city. I broke up with my ex girlfriend over 9 months ago now. My problem is I'm in love with my b...

Should I just hold her and go for it and kiss her on the lips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - I have been best friends with a girl for 12 years (we are both 26 and I'm male). We have always been close and despite what people thought, we always said we were just "best friends". During this time I was not aware she was suffering from v...

I'm a bisexual girl falling for my best friend, a gay guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I'm a bisexual girl and my problem is that i'm falling for my gay best friend (he's a guy). We've been friends for ages and I knew from the start he was gay but we've grown really close. I know many gay guys kiss girls and it doesn't mean any...

Should I ask out my hair stylist?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Hi guys. I happen to have a huge crush on my hair stylist (no, he is not gay) and I REALLY need some help. He and I talk a lot everytime I go there and have become sort of friends, or at least that's how I see it. The last time I went there we st...

In love and hurting - should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I'm 17 and as dramatic and cliché as is sounds, I love someone. He is dating somebody else and they aren't really serious, but all the same, I'm pretty sure he doesnt like me. In four months I will leave for university so I want to tell him how I ...

Does my old crush like me? How can I find out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - When i was in primary school I used to have a crush on this guy since I was 6 till i was 15. He was such a nice guy my parents got on well with his and my sister used to be friends with his older brother.We were always quite friendly towards each ...

What is the secret to a lasting relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hi there, My sister and her bf have been together for 4 years, my aunt and uncle have been together for 15 years, and my grandparents for 38 years. I want to know what is the secret to maintaining a good relationship. What do u do in order for the ...

Is love at first sight real or a myth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - Is it possible to fall in love with someone literally as soon as you see them? I use Facebook as my main way of communication with my friends. My cousin changed his status and a friend of his commented on it. The comments between my cousin and the ...

Perfect relationship apart from the forced celibacy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - My GF and I have been together for six years, I love her so much she is my best friend and I am hers. We do everything together, joke around around, travel, camp, hike, nights out in the city, you name it we do it. Everyone who knows us says that we ...

Miss my boyfriend but end up exhausted by trying to keep myself busy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Morning peeps. Just looking for some uplifting advice really. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the past 4 years. We see eachother every few months which is better than it used to be as we used to see eachother twice a ye...

Should I end our close friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - I’m in love with my male best friend. We’ve known each other for a while and we flirt and have it all. We have tons of inside jokes, and tease each other. We smile at each other all the time. We share everything with one another. I know things a...

Army boyfriend and engagement !!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Hey my boyfriend is in the army and is away alot. We have been together a yr and a half now and its been hard him nt bein around, but since he went away before for 3months and came bac and is away alot and i only see him every other weekend we ...

Going in circles - which of us should back down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Okay here it is... I met a guy(we will just call him Steve) a little over 2 years ago and we have gone back and forward for the past 2 years because I don't want to stop dating people until he makes a committment to me and he doesn't want to make a ...

Obsessed with my housemate!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) - I'm not one to usually share but am slowly driving myself crazy with this problem. I moved in to a house share about 2years ago and it was great except I soon fancied one of my housemates. Despite getting on great he never showed any obvious signs ...

How do I tell my boyfriend that I love him?

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20 April 2010 (F) - hi! my problem is how can i tell my boyfriend,,that i love him???,what should i do??? tnx ;-)...

He tells people we're married but we're not even going out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - During the summer when i was 13 i was asked for my phone number by an older boy when while i was at the pool with mu best friend. i shocked myself because i gave him my phone number and i never did that before. When he called we both found out ...

Do I verbally tell her how I feel, or keep flirting and hope for the best?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

18 April 2010 (M) - i like this girl in my class. we talk everyday and we have became best friends. it started when this other guy in our class started hitting on her. she didn't like him at all and he wouldn't leave her alone. so she asked me if i would sit in between ...

Am I a friend or someone more, to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

17 April 2010 (M) - I have a situation in which I can not understand where it will go. Recently an old ex from high school contacted me after 8 yrs of no word (Bad breakup). Since then we have hung out twice in the last month. I would love for it to be more but she is ...

I'm really into her, but she doesn't want any part of it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

15 April 2010 (M) - There is this classmate of mine, who is my best friend and is a girl. I sort of like her, she knows this. Everything was fine until i gave a cell phone as her birthday gift. I did not give it because i like her, i just gave it as a friend.she ...

He's moving to America on a scholarship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

15 April 2010 (F) - I'm told so and I also believe that I'm very mature for my age and I have been going out with my boyfriend for two and a half years now. We are deeply in love and we both can't stand being apart from one another. However this year, just before we ...

I was thinking about showing up at his place with my raincoat on and nothing underneath for the one hour drive to my mom's cabin. Do guys like things like this? Or, is it too forward?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I am a 24 year old woman and single (I hope not for much longer). To make a long story short, when I met my boyfriend, I took a deep breath and went after. The problem was that he was rebounding. Over a period of time, he got over that and came ...

Do I make the first move or wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - my friend and me have known each other for 7 and a half years, his the love of my life, i have always wanted to be with him and he knows this. about 4 years make he wanted me to move in with him and i just laugh thinking it was a joke and we left it ...

I love her but she slept with so many men

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - I was dating someone a couple years ago that I cared very deeply for. We were having a great time together. During the time we were together she was sexually assaulted by someone she knew. She didn't go to the police or tell anyone for months. ...

Does she fancy me or is she just using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - I like this girl for 3 months and she seems she's interested in me. She asks me about homework a lot and most of the times, she wants to be my partner. I know that Im not the smart one but yeah, Im kinda good about studying. We talk more and...

I'm very attracted to him but I know his strict Indian background will get in the way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

12 April 2010 (F) - This year I started at college, and was ambling along, not really worrying about finding a boy but more enjoying being free and single and away from home. But then there was a guy that lived beneath me and is doing the same course I am. I had know...

Having to choose between our families and each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

11 April 2010 (M) - I am married and love with a married woman. we both are in love for last couples of months. The problem is that both of us loves our family much and never want to do any such things which embarrass our family life and we con't leave without each ...

Was he just comforting me or does he have feelings me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

10 April 2010 (F) - Mod note: OP's own title Hello. I went out with some mates afew weeks back and the events of that night left me rather confused, and happy. My friends have told me in the past they think this guy likes me but hes to shy to say it. Theres just that...

Three years ago, she freaked when I told her I loved her. Should I tell her again, now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

7 April 2010 (M) - I've asked this question before but I never get many responses so I'm trying it again. I will have a very long detailed version of this and then at the bottom I will have shorter simplified version, if you want the short version scroll to the bott...

Is fate trying to tell us something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

7 April 2010 (F) - okay well, i was in love with my best friend of four and a half years, and i think he loved me back, but he said he didnt believe in love, i was just 'different from anyother girl he'd ever known' etc im sure you get where im going with this so ...

Did my sister's relationship lead to the end of mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

6 April 2010 (M) - My girlfriend left me nearly a month ago now after we've been dating for 3 years. We had the most amazing relationship, We both had what we've always wanted in someone, she'd even tell me that I'm better than what she's always desired in a man. Then ...

More than friends but not a relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

6 April 2010 (F) - Help! I'm so confused. I am STUCK in a Dawson/Joey type relationship. This guy and me have been in each other's lives since we were young. We were each other's first loves. We know everything about each other and have so many years of wonderf...

Any ideas for a special anniversary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

6 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have had a kind of rocky relationship, breaking up and getting back together. That happened for six months, and in the middle we both went out with other people. Our relationship hit a good, steady place six months ago, and so our ...

Do I contact this guy from 8 years ago?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

6 April 2010 (F) - My question is do i or dont i contact him? I met this guy about 8 years ago whilst I was travelling and we had a very full on and passionate affair as most travelling relationships are. It all ended when my visa ran out and I had to go home. we...

Can love be extented to multiple people at once?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

4 April 2010 (F) - Just a thought, I was wondering today, How many people can you actually be in love with at once, for example could you be in love with the person you married and also another person equally???...

How do I let him see how I really like him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

4 April 2010 (F) - Hello! Well,I am 19 and have known this guy since we have been in 9th grade but but became really good friends in 12th grade. We go to different colleges but live at home still which means we are not far away from each other. Eve...

I want him to leave her for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

4 April 2010 (F) - I am having a predicament. I was with "Joe" for 8 years. We met when we were 17 and just broke up a few weeks ago. During the past 8 years I have been very close with his family, in fact I am closer to them than he is. I still hang out with his ...

Does a shared interest in unpopular music suggest we're soul mates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

3 April 2010 (F) - Let's say that two people have exactly the same taste in music especially if this music is not very popular. Do you think that it's quite possible that they would have good a friendship/relationship or that they're some kind of emotional twins/soul ...

My highschool sweetheart has had feelings for me since 1974!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - Back when I was in high school, I dated this guy. He planned on marrying me after we graduated. I never knew this until now. We haven't seen one another from '74 until now. But he has been looking for me. His feelings are the same as back then. Th...