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writes:I have a situation in which I can not understand where it will go. Recently an old ex from high school contacted me after 8 yrs of no word (Bad breakup). Since then we have hung out twice in the last month. I would love for it to be more but she is about two hours away. I drive up there and typically stay a whole day. But small hints make my heart and brain confused. My question is this: How do I tell if she wants to be more then friends? I really cant read her, normally this is not a problem. I find her uncontrolably attractive. In her character, body, and soul. I cant help but notice her in a crowd standing in the dim rooms. I broke up with her if thats one question you might have. I never thought I would see her this way and honestly before this never have. Part of me wants more... but logic comes into play and wonders is this just a wanting of something I had before.I'm very lost on the subect because of the small hints she gives. Be it touches, or signs of affection. Should I ask her friends? What about her sisters since I'm friends with them? Help me out so my brain can cool off from wondering.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 She maybe thinking the same question about you .Have you been assertive that you want more from her?
Have you showed your intentions and given her clear signals to her that you want more than friendship ?
If you want more from her, you will need to give her your clear intentions.
Just like a pirate ship when they want to attack, they will hoist the skull and cross bones flag.
Are you waiting for her signals?
I come , I see ,I conquer.
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reader, LarryGalapagos +, writes (18 April 2010):
To find out if she wants to be more than friends, simply ask her.
Don't let her play you. Don't let her make you drive two hours just because she feels lonely.
You have too much respect for yourself, and you owe it to yourself to know whether she wants something meaningful, or if she is just using you so that she feels wanted at the present time.
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