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writes:Back when I was in high school, I dated this guy. He planned on marrying me after we graduated. I never knew this until now. We haven't seen one another from '74 until now. But he has been looking for me. His feelings are the same as back then. The problem is he's married with 2 grown adults. His friends have been telling him long before he found me again to divorce her. He wants to but has alot to split and wants to do it fairly. And he wants to see me while he is married. I keep telling him its not right. He's come by here and we just watch movies. His wife knows he sneaks over and calls everytime. Last nite she said she was gunna kill hersef and then said she was gunna kill both he and I. Who doesn't he go about getting away from her? And in the mean time, should I stop all communication with him?
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (2 April 2010):
 Do not see this guy until he leaves his wife - or you are in for serious trouble. Look his kids are adults now. They'll get over it. If he really wants to be with you he'll do the right thing. In the meantime don't be so accommodating to a married man.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 April 2010):
No way continue with this. He's having his cake and eating it, as they say. If he wants you, then he can leave her first. Don't be fooled by man talk. Find a nice single guy who hasn't got so many serious issues.
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