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writes:Mod note: OP's own titleHello. I went out with some mates afew weeks back and the events of that night left me rather confused, and happy.My friends have told me in the past they think this guy likes me but hes to shy to say it. Theres just that atmosphere between us, we dont talk much but they say they think hes really shy. Only problem is hes hard to talk to so theres no way of asking outright.This particular night we went out this guy and another mate had to walk me home as i became abit ill and also had abit to drink. This guy asked the other guy to walk back with us with me being in that state. We went to get food and i was just leaning on him and our other friend as i felt sick and tired etc, i was just rambling on about loads of random stuff and the fact i wasnt feeling to good. I'd been leaning on him for a while and i;d said many times i dont feel very well. I was really panicing. And at first he put his hand and rubbed my arm saying i'd be ok. Then he held my hand shortly after only for afew seconds though which by this time i;d shut up. he seemed abit nervous n unsure as if he was building up confidence tbh. Then he put his arm round me, cuddled me, had his head leaning on mine for a while and he held my hand again, properly this time. After he got up to get a drink i was sat with my back to him and he had me from behind and hugged me but then he just sat there behind me holding both my hands. by this time i was just talking to them i wasnt doing anything, he wasnt holding me still or hugging me because i was upset hje wasm just holding my hand. He walked me down the street where we all sat on a wall(where i did start crying but not for long) and he had hold of me from behind cuddling me, i assume to keep me safe. However once we started walking home i was hugging hima ll the wway and everytime i took my arm from round him he grabbed it and put it back. I did at one point grab his hand because by that time i really thought he must feel that way. He didnt reject or anything. I wander up an alley way because my mate wanted the toilet(sorry for details) and i said i aint going up and we were all just stood there talking and i said "im going" n walked back down the lane. Which at that point he ran after me grabbed me from behind and hugged me. And then said "walk with me". We were together until i got home where i hugged him again when we were gonna part however it was a very long hug. I went to let go once and im sure, i wont say he pulled me back but as ni went to let go he hugged me again tighter. And after we;d done hugging i noticed he had his hands on my bum. I went to walk further into the house and he still hadnt let go properly he started to follow which i assumed was to keep me safe and i said im fine and they left.Thing was that hes not normally like that. He wasnt drunk, of course he would look aftyer me and hold me up making sure i got home safe n didnt fall etc but the holding hands and the touching of the bum and just the way he had hold of me made me think, where his hands were and as i say its just the sensation i got. Do you think theres something more there?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 April 2010):
 There might be something more there. He certainly sounds like a guy who took a lot of care with a drunk, erratic young lady.
The problem with the shy, quiet types is that they stay quiet and shy. You could try putting yourself in his path again and just have a conversation with him about anything. Maybe talk about films you'd like to see and leave broad hints that you'd go with him if he asked?
Please keep in mind that being drunk isn't a turn-on for a lot of people, they get the idea that you don't have much self-control or self-esteem and it can make you look sloppy and cheap. You don't want him to have that impression of you, do you? So rein in the drinking and spend more time just hanging out with him, and eventually you'll have your answer.
Of course, you could just ask him out yourself and know for certain sooner.
Good luck in your discovery! I hope he does like you.
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