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*licewhite
writes:I'm 17 and as dramatic and cliché as is sounds, I love someone. He is dating somebody else and they aren't really serious, but all the same, I'm pretty sure he doesnt like me. In four months I will leave for university so I want to tell him how I feel before then. I think he used to like me, so do you guys think there's a chance we could end up together? I've been so patient, but some days are just agonizing. He lives half a block away from me too, which is torture. I guess I'm just looking for comfort and any form of advice. I know I'll live, but right now, this sucks. Thanks in advance.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 Shout it out aloud to the wind and let the wind carry that message to him.
Embrace your new life which will be full of excitements and fun.
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reader, alicewhite +, writes (27 April 2010):
alicewhite is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much to everyone for their ideas and opinions! I'm going to study biology/pre-med. Very excited.
I'm definitely leaning more towards the take-a-risk side of things. If I end up regretting telling him, then lesson learned. I'll be leaving anyways, soon enough. I don't want to wonder what could have been.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 You have to do this. Take the risk. Trap him in a corner somewhere and romantically tell him how you feel. Good luck at university. Can you let us all know what you're going to study? Remember, most men love being approached by women. He won't be offended even if he says he doesn't want to go out with you anywhere. Life is too short not to take risks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): This guy doesn't show any interest in you he has a girlfriend and you're leaving in 4 months why start a relationship now... get over him there's plenty of other men out there you shouldn't say anything I mean what's the point you're leaving then what??? you'll have a long distance relationship... leave it alone if he hasn't tried to talk to you by now then that means he's just not interested
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Don't say anything. In 4 months you'll be at university, there's a see a new exciting opportunities waiting for you.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (26 April 2010):
Fate has a way of bringing you two together or messed up with your plans.
If he is interested, he would come for you . If you were meant to be together, things would have happened already.
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reader, foreverlove78  +, writes (26 April 2010):
Hi. Well first off im in the same situation as u are. I feel like this, if u have feelings for him then find out if he feels the same way. just because he has a girl doesnt mean he's not checking u out or he might have the same feelings but he could be waiting to see u feel the same.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 April 2010):
He's dating someone else, so you can't really. I had kind of the same problem when I fancied a girl at school, and out of respect to the other guy involved, I never said anything. It's very hard when the heart says one thing, but if you say something it might affect your reputation, and make things worse for you.
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