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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

How do I convince him to throw his clothes into a bag & jump on a bus bound up this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - It was 33 years ago that I was told that my first "great" love had been killed by his father. Well, I found him and he still sends butterflies fluttering around my heart! Problem is that he still lives in our home state and I live over 15 hour ...

How do I get out of this awkward dating thing with this guy I met through a dating website? I'm just not good at saying no or bringing up these things. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hey All! So I met this guy through a dating website but Frankly meeting someone through a dating website is not a ideal thing for me and I just did it because my friend forced me to join it. I have quit it now because I don't think it works f...

I've fallen for him but he's said he wants to remain single, I don't think he knows my feelings about having children. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I've been friends with a widower for about 3 years, before he became a widower actually. His wife passed away very suddenly about 2 years ago, they were very close. We started off as just friends, I was trying to re-engage him, his health was poor ...

LDR but he is not opening his world to me. I am scared to be used. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I'm back again after obsessing about my LDR. And more questions to ask. The relationship is going rather well, we talk everyday, our phone conversations are great. I have visited him four times now and had an ok time. He is supposed to visit me here ...

Is he pushing me away?/ I know he is pushing me away. How do I go about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I am getting the feeling my boyfriend is distancing himself from me. We are in a long distance relationship (different continents), UK and Canada. So we already couldn't be more farther apart. I just came back to canada for uni for summe...

Why am I not special enough for a guy to stay exclusive with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I feel positively stupid. And ugly... especially ugly. Long story short: I met a guy, we liked each other but it's long distance, so there's no chance it'd work... we met once a couple months ago and had a great date, we got along great, and...

I spy on my man and he feels suffocated. What does it mean that "I love him too much."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi, Im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, we've been on 4 months ago.. but a month ago we have an argument, i have this jealous attitude towards him i admit i almost became a spy on him even on his social network i spy him and ...

I visited an old boyfriend after 4 years. Is he worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, After four years, I booked a flight to visit my ex-boyfriend in Florida. The trip itself felt more like a dream because I didn't think I'd ever see him again. I had moved on, dated other guys and matured as a person whereas he did t...

Should I pursue something here? Or just let it go and accept that it's not meant to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - I have known K for a few years before we started talking and hanging out more as friends. He was due to move to another country so we met up for lunch, which ended up in coffee, drinks etc. Over the next few days we hung out a bit.....at a time ...

I think I did the right thing in breaking up a LDR but I still feel sad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - Hi there, I broke up with my long distance boyfriend about a week ago. He lives in Boston and I'm in California. We were together almost 4 years and were incredibly in love. He was my first serious boyfriend. We saw each other about 3 times a ...

Is it fair on us to be considering a LDR with her, in view of our past together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid I m in a tricky situation. my ex and I broke up last November after about 3 years . The relationship wasn't perfect but good. She had trust issues and at times she used to be really angry over the smallest things. We had loads of fig...

While I know that I completely ruined everything by expressing my fear of sadness when he's away, and deserve his current feelings, am I stupid to believe that he'll come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4198 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupids, I would really appreciate some advise..Apologies for the long post! I've been with a guy for the last year and a half..I adore him...We've had several ups and as many downs..I am his first proper relationship and he is my third....

What advice can I give my friend whose long distance boyfriend seems aloof?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Hi there, It's been a long time since I was here. You all were great help. So now I'm back with a question for my friend. My friends have been in a relationship for 5 years. Mostly they are in Long Distance Relationship, since the boy went to st...

My long distance girlfriend has been avoiding me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - Actually my girlfriend has started behaving strangely from past few days.. we are in a long distance relationship and now we are going to complete our 2 months. so here my problem goes.. we have met just 2-3 times then we came in a relationship o...

We had a LDR. We broke up. How could he do this after he gave me his commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my bf last month because we were in a LDR and he drifted apart. He never contacted me after the breakup. Just few days ago he sent me a text asked if I called him from an unknown number. If so just call from my normal number s...

He told me he's not thinking of marriage yet! Am I wrong to be disappointed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi im with a ldr now with my boyfriend and we been 3 years knew each other via skype and call. And always visiting me here every year, despite of the distance he always make effort to see me. He lives in Slovakia and i lived in Singapore and im ...

Is it stress that's causing this inkling that something has changed in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4201 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Hi all, I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months now and recently when we've been away from each other I keep having this tiny inkling that something's changed. However, when we're together that all goes and I want to hold her, kiss her etc and...

My long distance boyfriend has been cool with me lately

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4202 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Am in a long distance relationship, my boyfriend and i are best of friends, but this weekend (ie this last one) he travelled for a party, and i wasnt able to communicate well with him @ all. he sent a txt of his arrival to where the party is holdi...

My boyfriend has been acting strangely since he discovered I deleted his ex-girlfriend's number from his phone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship now because he is from the UK and I am from North America and I have to finish university until December, then we can be together. We have been dating for about a year and a half now and have...

I'm in a long distance relationship, but I've met someone local

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4203 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - For the past 5 years, I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 8 years. Due to our circumstances, we'd only be together twice a year at most. It has been hard for the both of us, there were times when we'd stop talking for ...

Lesbian LDR and I need help. Is our relationship going no where?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - Guys I need help My girlfriend says she is not gay or bi but not 100% straight neither… I am sooooo confused …Although I understand that we shouldn't be putting labels on ourselves but I just don't feel our relationship is secure. Almost all my f...

I'm planning to visit my long distance boyfriend, but too young to rent a hotel. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - So, this isn't really a relationship question, but my LDR boyfriend and I are planning to meet pretty soon and recently I've been trying to get everything prepared to go visit him. There are two problems though, I suppose. We're still pretty y...

How do I ask my parents permission to stay over at my Bf's house so I can meet his parents?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly three months. We met through my friend going out with his friend (kinda complicated but that's the basics). I'm 17 and he's 19. He's met my parents and he wants me to meet his, and they're really ...

My husband has been hiding that he's talking to his ex-fling on FB. What to do about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - We've been maried for 3months now. i'm just 22 and hes 24 maybe too young for marriage. We've been LDR for 2years then got married. We've been LDR again for about 2 months now, and he did it again, chatted wih his ex fling, admits he did but refu...

I want my ex to regret treating me badly. I want him to know I am happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - My bf and I were on and off so many times. He cheated on me twice and while he studied abroad I found out that he kissed some other girl. I forgave him and gave him a lot of chances. We were in a long distance relationship before I broke up with ...

LDR boyfriend has no time for me but always has time for his games and his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together in a long distance relationship for a year. My boyfriend is a gamer, he spends most of his time with his friends playing video games all day long. I always feel ignored, i always feel like he'd rather spend ...

Do you think I have any right to be angry? Or was I to blame for being naive?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - Well I was dating a guy for a month. It was a LDR and on the third date, I had to spend the night at his, due to distance. The date did not go too well, we had a bit of a falliing out but made up. In the night, he said he would prepare the spare ro...

How could I not see the evil person that he is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - First all thanks for reading this. I am single 34y woman. I met a guy living overseas last year. We had a good time and after we both left to our own countries we kept the communication by skype and fbk..etc. I found the opportunity to do some ...

I do everything for him and he does nothing for me! Is this love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship since 2 and half year now. I did so much for my fiancé that now days no one does. I got laser hair removal for 10,000, I gave him everything he asked me for, expensive perfumes, shampoos, glasses, iphone ...

He wont tell his married ex about me.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - Hello that's my first time to ask online but I'm really upset and stressed. My story is long and will try to make It short. I'm in a long distance relation. He was my friend before becoming my bf but there was too much chemistry between us he was i...

Can I breakup with my boyfriend a week before his birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - I met my boyfriend on holiday almost 1 year ago. He lives about 300 miles form me so we only really see each other for a weekend once a month. He comes to see me mostly and I have went to his twice (he is 20 and I am 18). We have spoken every day ...

LDR friend. How can I have a clean break up, without too much hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

13 May 2013 (M) - my LD girlfriend and I will have "the talk" soon about our future together, does not look good. we have been together for a year now and knowing each other for another. we are continents apart. I travel every two months to see her and stay a c...

Have made no new friends in this new place.Would it be better to stay here and continue with my job, and hope things get better? Or move back with my Bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Thanks for reading. I will make it as brief as possible :) I'm 20, and have been in a long distance relationship for around 4 months. Previously was living with my boyfriend (25) but have moved interstate to live with my mum for awhile. I fou...

I'm leaving tomorrow and probably wont ever see him again, how do I make this more bearable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

10 May 2013 (F) - We met online. Talked every day for months. He flew me over so we could meet. Halfway across the world. It was wonderful. We had a great time, it was like a dream. We were living together, which made us get to know each other more, including our ...

Is there any hope of me getting her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4213 days ago

9 May 2013 (M) - I had been with my now ex girlfriend for a little over a year, the last 3 months however was long distance. We spoke basically everyday and I went to see her 4times in that space. I asked her if iI could move up to the same place and iif she felt it ...

My girlfriend's mother has banned us from talking to each other! What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

9 May 2013 (M) - Okay, so the situation is that me and my girlfriend have been a serious relationship for about six months. We live in different countries, but we have both talked about this and we are hopefully going to resolve that in the coming year. As of ...

What will my ex think of me sending her 2 birthday presents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

8 May 2013 (M) - My long distance girlfriend and i recently broke up a week ago and did not talk or text for the last week. We have recently began casual texting again and I feel like I don't want to lose our connection because she is still very special to me. Its ...

Why now? Why did he tell me he likes me, now when he's going away? Does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

8 May 2013 (F) - I have been friends with this guy since high school and we used to live in the same neighborhood. Four months ago he moved away and since then we had stopped talking, about a week ago he texted me and he told me that's he's going to the army for...

He's going into the Army, which is stopping us from making our relationship official. What do you think I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

7 May 2013 (F) - Me and this boy have been talking for a while now and are practically dating we want to make it official but there is only one thing stopping us he leaves to be in the army in three months for twelve months, twelve months is a long time and a lot ...

I want to surprise my boyfriend when he comes back from holiday! Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

7 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is going on holiday with his family for a week on saturday. I am really going to miss him like crazy!!! I figured the best way to make the time fly and to make him happy would be to organise something really special when he's gone to ...

Between My Head and My Heart. Should I try to make it work with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - My fiance recently broke off our engagement. He immediately stopped talking to me saying he was unhappy and that he didn't want to change, although he said he loved me. He said he was tired of feeling like he couldn't be happy with me and that he ...

LDR and first time bad sex. Do I want to continue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship. We've been together 3 year. He's so amazing and Im very much in love with him. Due to the distance we were finally able to have sex recently. I was a virgin and he wasn't. It was horrible. Even though I'd never ...

He says he is not verbally affectionate or "open", but he used to be before. Am I asking for too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - Im 20. He's 21. We are in a long distance "relationship" (I use inverted commas because it isn't at the boyfriend/girlfriend stage yet. We are exclusively dating/seeing each other, but it isn't official, we're progressing to the relation...

We'e only seen each other once and when I talk about seeing each other he gets mad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - A year ago I met my boyfriend through my friend who lives in Texas. I have only met him once. Every time we talk he says he loves me and misses me and he can't wait till he gets to see me again but every time I bring up him visiting me up here or me ...

Are we hurting each other by staying together? I am not happy with our LDR!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

3 May 2013 (M) - H Everyone, I'm a 23 year old Canadian Male. I've been dating my high school sweetheart for a little more than 6 years. We were always very close and we loved each other a lot. We both went to the same university as well. However, I graduated a ye...

I can't get over that he doesn't want to be with me now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4215 days ago

1 May 2013 (F) - So I've known this guy for 3 years now. We live a few states away from each other. I started talking to him online with no intention of feeling the way that I do about him. He was upset about a girl he wanted to be with, and I was upset about a ...