A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:We met online. Talked every day for months. He flew me over so we could meet. Halfway across the world. It was wonderful. We had a great time, it was like a dream. We were living together, which made us get to know each other more, including our flaws and fears. I fell in love. I'm leaving tomorrow. I can't believe I won't wake up in his arms again. Today there were tears. We don't know what will be of us. We're both broke, so the odds of seeing each other again are slim. We also only were together in person for little over a month, so not enough time to make any big life changing decisions. I don't want to lose him but don't know what to do. I can't sleep. Want to be happy when he wakes up, leave him with a happy memory, but my mind is racing, and I'm scared. This will be the toughest and longest flight I've ever been on. Any advice on how to make this a great morning before I leave? Any advice on how to shake off this sadness and have a bearable flight? It is crazy to make life changing decisions over a small amount of time but I secretly wish we did. Don't want to scare him with that thought, but I wish he had that thought too. I wish I believed in magic and could do something to make him want that life decision. Any magicians out there? Sorry about the craziness, I guess I just need to read some kind words to get some peace. Thank you.
View related questions:
fell in love, met online, want to be happy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, oldbag  +, writes (10 May 2013):
 Hi
How romantic, it seems like right man wrong place/time. I would cook a great breakfast to eat in bed and TALK. See what he wants,if there is *any* possibility of a future.
If there is not, then keep smiling till you leave and tell him how special he is, that you will miss him.
Then don't look back.
A
female
reader, NORA B  +, writes (10 May 2013):
From your own words YOU hae lived the dream and loving like that is Magic.Would you consider having an indept chat with this guy and really find out what he is feeling and find out his very thoughts if he has any for the future .Dont leave just wondering-ask him make sure of his thoughts.But remember he must want the same life decision as you otherwise it would not work.Ido hope things work out for you .Best Luck Nora B.
...............................
|
