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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Recently reconnected after 20 yrs. Should I give up on this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am in need of some advice. I recently got back in touch with my first love through facebook and we spent hours talking and texting. I am in the very beginning stages of a divorce and and he is completely single. This is a long distance relation...

I feel like this girl is replacing me more and more each day....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been going out with this boy for 6 months, I met through my friend and its been on and off as he moved over to Australia in November, but yet we are continuing to try stay together for him coming back this November. We argue quite a lot now ...

Tips on how to make your relationship work.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - ok well im going to attempt to help people all over the place to make sure their relationship works. I hope to help people make their LDR work(it does work with the right frame of mind) i also want to help couples get through when one or the othe...

First sexual encounter : Is there anything you wish you knew / did your first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Im 19 and I am still a virgin - I'm not too particularly worried because I will probably lose it this summer as this boy and I are getting more serious. The thing is, he is almost 22 and not a virgin. We havent gone very far and now we are in LDR. ...

Not 100% happy in 2 year long distance relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Okay, well I am 17 (yeah kind of young, I know right...) and I am in a long-distance relationship. He lives in a place all the way across my country. I really want to be with him but it's hard. We have been together for 2 years. We are both too...

We both have partners, but we're in love! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My situation is awkward! I have been close friends with a guy in another country for a couple of years. We get on great together, have so much in common, and have met a few times in real life, which were fantastic. The problem is he has a partner ...

Girl I love is slipping away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Just need some honest advice. Spoken to friends but noone i know is really very experienced with long distance relationships. Were both at different colleges and so we were in a long distance relationship. Few days ago we broke up and its tearing me ...

About my LDR I don't know what to do any more.

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30 January 2011 (M) - Well I meet this girl about 2yrs ago online web cam site. One nite I gave her my phone number in we hit it off good. She starting calling me every day like we were ment to be. So we hit it off good the first couple of months. She has ...

I want to show him I care without scaring him off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - This is actually a followup on a couple of posts that I submitted while things were building up to the point where we are now. And on those previous posts, most of the replies I got were very negative, and said this means nothing, I wouldn't see ...

I spend hours waiting for my LDR girlfriend to get online!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - hello guys, im a guy who used to be so active, energetic, a party boy, in other words i used to be cool, but since a while, i got back with my ex, and now we re in a long distance relationship, and believe me guys :s i love her way too much and...

I'm afraid to call my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi Recently i feel even scared to call my bf. He is often calling me names and ignoring me and even when i call him, after the call is over i always feel humiliated and even less secured in the relationship. He often says im needy and clingy, ...

How do I become "just friends" with him if I have already fallen head over heels with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Ok, here goes: A year ago I started dating a married man. In that time, we have "gotten caught" 4 times, (but not in the compromising position you are probably thinking) He left his facebook up, she hired a private investigator, text messages, etc. ...

Would I be crazy to take my ex back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (?) - Would I be crazy to take an ex back? It was a LDR, he broke up with me (amicably) a few weeks back and I guessed he was getting cold feet, scared of commitment or whatever as I was looking to re-locate in the next few months to be closer to him. ...

I'm always there for him and I'm a good mother to his kids...then why doesn't he trust me and love me back the way I do for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - hi i am an OFW, im in a long distance relationship, he is 10 years older than me, we are together for 7 years, and we have 2 kids. i love my partner a lot as if i cant see my future without him, though we are not married yet because of some ...

He left me saying there was no future, but I love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Me and my beloved were together from the last 2 years. 6 months back he left for another country. He left me saying that there's no future(and was trying to ignore me from last 3 months). Yeah,i know we two are from different caste and his family is ...

We met through an online game but now things have gone bad, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - well im a 31 year old woman who has been playing this game online for almost 3 years, ive meet a lot of great people there. well ive been playing with this one guy for a lil over 2 years we have always gotten along really well . and back in may he ...

LDR trouble--she says she can't wait forever!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - hi im currantly involved in a long distance romance/love (as we are not in a LDR commitment) latley my girl has been really cold towards me and bitchy because of her frustrations that we cannot be togather all the time, im trying my hardest to ...

He is definitely not giving me what I need!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

28 January 2011 (?) - My boyfriend of 6 years off and on says he loves me so much, and wants a future with me, but he lives in another state by choice (not because of his job), and i haven't seen him for 6 months-he is coming on monday to stay at one of the four houses ...

Telling someone you cheated in the 1st 2 weeks after being together for 2 years?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Ok so this is just one about cheating and being unfaithful I would like to ask the females since I'm a guy. If you cheated on someone in the first two weeks of a relationship because it was long distance and you didn't think that person would last ...

Do you think we are meant to be? I never felt this way about a man ever, but I don't know if its the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Let me just start off that i met this guy in 2009 on youtube and we used to talk all the time about music and politics. It was just 2 people talking about things we loved. He lives in Ireland and I live in Canada. It was obvious we had strong ...

Will we be happy in a long distance relationship? Or do we have to break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - am 17 and he is 21.. we have been together for the last 2 years and 6 months... but recently he has gone out on career grounds and he will return only in october.. and i am clearing my 12 grade in march so by june even i'll be out of town by june ...

One month into this LDR and he wants to move in together, marriage, babies....the lot! Should I run away as fast as I can?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I am in a LDR with someone I've only known for a month. Never met and ended up talking over the internet on my web page. I have been trying to avoid relationships at any cost because I was engaged back in October but I broke it off with my ...

I want to go see my online boyfriend but can't figure out how to do it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hey, how is everybody doing? I need some help, it's been about a month now dating my online boyfriend. We really want to see each other in person, but it's very hard to do so, when he lives about 3 hours away. And neither of us has a drivers ...

How do I win his trust back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - hey i have tricky question. i am 23 and my boyfriend is 24. we have been dating for almost 4 months now. we are in a long distance relationship he is in South Africa and i am in London. i really love him so much and he loves and cares about me too. ...

Conversation starters and tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

27 January 2011 (?) - Hey, how is everybody doing? I need some help, it's been about a month now dating my online boyfriend. We really want to see each other in person, but it's very hard to do so, when he lives about 3 hours away. And neither of us has a drivers ...

A little puzzled regarding an article I read.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I'm in a LDR. We talk every week on Skype and get on very well and in September when I was staying close to where he lives (have my mother and other friends there) we went out and about quite a lot during the 6 weeks. I'll be going back in April. ...

A very complicated matter. Shes leaving me but at the same time shes not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - Ok. So here's the thing. I have been living with my girlfriend for the past 8 months and recently she decided to move home. Not because we are in trouble or unhappy with each other, but because shes unhappy in the place we live. We live in a city ...

Spending valentines day apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost 4months now. He's my first boyfriend and I really love him,as you can figure out this is my first valentines day. The problem is it's a long distance relationship due to college and work ...

I'm torn between 2 boys that like me. Which one should I choose?

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26 January 2011 (F) - I have been texting two boys. One lives 2 hours away from me and wants to start a long distance relationship. However, there is a boy I have met in town who has a child and works full time, but also wants a relationship. I'm so confused and I like ...

He broke up with me, so why is he doing all of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - :( please i need your help !! i was in a long distance relationship for more than 8 months ,i'm from tunisia and my boyfriend is from england .. we have never met but he said we were going to meet up last december but at that time we were fightin ...

None of my sexy pics look good, how do I get this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is currently living at the other end of the country to me but we keep in touch via text, e-mails and phone calls. He has recently suggested I send him photos of me because he misses seeing me, and I want to keep him happy but I just ...

Will vanishing from his life make him realise what he has?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I and my love were together for 2 years. He moved to abroad 6 months back. From the last 3 months, we have been in an on and off relationship. This is exactly what was happening-he used to leave me without giving any reason. I never used to call or ...

I feel like I'm at the bottom of his list

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I'm questioning whether or not I should stay with my boyfriend? Lately I've been really frustrated with him. I don't know if I still want to be with him or just to walk away. We have been dating for a year and almost 4 months. Our relationship is ...

Do we break up seeing as this is turning into a LDR?

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25 January 2011 (F) - am 17 and he is 21.. we have been together for the last 2 years and 6 months... but recently he has gone out on career grounds and he will return only in october.. and i am clearing my 12 grade in march so by june even i'll be out of town by june ...

Girlfriend of 4 years asks for a break and starts dating someone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - hi guys Ok so i was with this girl for 4years the minute i met her we clicked instantly and we were good frends for many months before getting into the relationship. We know eachother inside out and we are very close to each other. Just last y...

My girlfriend returned a gift I bought!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - I have been dating my GF for four years now and this year is our fifth year. The problem is since 2008 we started a long distance relationship because we both went to different universities, and now I am working while studying at the same time I ...

He had a way out but didn't end it and I'm really confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Hello, I am so confused about a relatonship that I recently got into. I met a guy on an online dating site in September. I was really taken with him he swept me off my feet and was so romantic we spent about three days a week together and we start...

Trying to talk dirty in a long distance relationship is proving difficult...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years has just joined the army and has been away for the past 2 months and will be for another 4. We are trying to keep our relationship alive and are fine just filling each other in about our days and what not, but occasionally we ...

A long distance relationship breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - hello everyone, please i need your help !! well i want to know if i Can You Fix a Long Distance Relationship Breakup?? and another question my boyfriend broke up with me .. and he said he still loves me .. but when i told him why not being in a r...

I have never asked him because I don't have the guts, but do you think he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - met this online guy around an year back and since den we have been chatting nonstep as in nonstop but the thing is now he is moving to another country for studies he says he will never forget me , he says me trying to stop him makes him cry he says ...

Help maintaining a relationship while I'm at University

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Im going to University in September and am looking for ways to still maintain the relationship with my boyfriend who is 20, I am 20 in December. My University will be about 2 hours away, and despite him saying he is willing to visit every week...

I don't get this girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - I don't get this girl, we talked one day she tells me how she does not want a relationship with anybody and is not willing to lose me. She does not want to be tied down to a guy, and well she told me she would only date a guy she didn't really know. ...

Where can I learn more about contraception and find information on what to expect if my LDR friend And I take it to the next level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I'm really hoping I can get some good advice. Well story is I am in a LDR and my boyfriend is planning on coming to visit me soon. We have nothing particular planned, however, depending on how things go there is the possibility we will sleep ...

Why my girlfriend just doing sexual things at first to make me happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm in a very serious long-distance relationship with my girlfriend of two years. We met senior year in high school, after we both were committed to different colleges, and so we made the choice to attempt a four-year long-dis...

I feel stuck and unsure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I was wondering if anyone one has gone through a similar situation and how you dealt with it. (And thanks for reading this) My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3years, me 22 and him 24. We have been in a long distance relatio...

Should I stay and hope she changes her mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I've been with a girl for 5 months now and I'm crazy about her. The problem is that she is graduating and is leaning towards not being in a long distance relationship for a year until I graduate while I am certain that I would like to give it a ...

How do we find a way to work together given all the visa restrictions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I met my current boyfriend this past summer while working on a cruise ship. We are both from different countries (i'm from Canada and he's from Brazil). We hit it off instantly and are crazy about each other. I had to leave to go back to Canada in ...

My LDR has something going on but won't tell me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hi there, hope some of you can help settle my mind on a certain situation. I'm involved with a guy who lives long distance, of whom is coming to spend the weekend with me within the next 2-3 weeks. We're really close and share almost everythi...

I like two guys, but I need help choosing the right one. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I'm so confused. I met a guy on an online dating site. We exchanged numbers and have been texting... he lives about 2 hours drive from me and we haven't met up yet. Recently, I met another boy who I do like. However, the other day, the boy I met ...

My friend set me up with a male friend of hers, but now she's acting jealous! Should I go through with meeting him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

22 January 2011 (?) - My friend wanted to set me up with one of her guy friends. I talked to him over e-mail and he wants to meet up. He lives in another state but said he would drive up to see me. I'm nervous because what if he sees me and isn't interested? I'm just ...