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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok. So here's the thing. I have been living with my girlfriend for the past 8 months and recently she decided to move home. Not because we are in trouble or unhappy with each other, but because shes unhappy in the place we live. We live in a city and she wants to move back to her village, which is about 2 hours away(give or take a half an hour). We are actually very happy with the relationship. At least she seems to be. The thing is every time I go home with her I get so bored and depressed that I want to hang myself. So its like a catch 22. She doesn't want to stay in the city with me and I dont want to move to her village with her. I really don't know what to think about the situation. We are going to try long distance with me travelling to her, and her travelling to me. But neither of us believe in long distance, we just dont want to lose each other. We are incredibly in love with each other. Please. Can somebody help me. I would love to hear other peoples opinions. Advice would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): I know that this may not be possible considering I don't know the whole situation, but maybe you two can move somewhere new to the both of you. Or one of you need to make a sacrifice to move and commit to it. I know first hand how long distance relationships work and they are not easy on single bit. But if your love is truly strong it can work.
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