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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Should I Care About My Lack of Title With Special Guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - I am a single mom who is on disability due to my advanced rheumatoid arthritis. After some bad experiences dating several years ago, I decided to focus on my kids since dating was a hassle. Despite my R.A., I am quite attractive, and am able to ...

Why do some people "forget" to contact you back? Is my friend being selfish ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3648 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - I need advice, why do some people take so long to respond to your contact efforts? surely it becomes rude at some point? obviously there is something wrong or they no longer wish to see you..or be in contact, it happens, we lose fships.. sorry t...

Is my dentist being professional? Am I expecting too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I was hoping someone could help me shed some light on this situation as it's completely baffling me! Last year I started a teeth straightening treatment and I was reccomended the same orthodontist by a work colleague and an old school friend wh...

How do I heal after all his emotional abuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3650 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - I recently broke up with my husband. He manipulated me for years, but it was so cleverly done I didn't realise. It's only since we split up that I realised. He spent 12 years making me feel bad about myself, and in the end I couldn't answer the door ...

How can we help my Bf's brother to take control of his eating and drinking habits that are affecting his health?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and I are great. His brother is our problem. He has severe health issues and my boyfriend and I want him to take better care of himself. We just don't know how to go about it. The guy drinks 4 x 2 liters of Diet Coke a d...

Does my girlfriend have PMS?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

28 November 2014 (M) - I asked my girlfriend to move in with me and my 2 children and wonder what on earth has hits us, i think she suffers from PMT and have tried to talk to her very gently about this but this only ended in her throwing a pan at me which nearly did hit ...

Shouldn't I be dreaming about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - So I am unable to have sex with my boyfriend of 6 years for the time being due to medical problems being looked at. As a result, I also came off the contraceptive pill because it was giving me migraines and it seemed like the best time to come off ...

Is it inappropriate to ask a guy to take an STD and HIV test before we date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I haven't dated in a long time but I decided if I should date again would I be wrong to bring up front about taking STD and HIV test.My health is in great condition and I want the same for the new guy.Thanks ...

How do I tell my new partner I want to be tested for STI's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Hello, I have recently entered a new relationship after being in a previous relationship lasting roughly a year. My last relationship ended because of lots of trust issues. Anyway I want to go to a sexual health clinic and get tested for STIs. I ...

I always like guys that I know I cant have or who don't want me back and it kills me but I just cant seem to stop myself.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Hey this may seem like a stupid question but I have no one else to talk to about it without sounding stupid! So there's this guy that I work with that I have had a crush on for a while now we are pretty close and flirt back and fourth all the time, ...

I think I have a problem with something on my penis.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

24 November 2014 (M) - Dear readers I think I have a problem with something on my penis. There's small bumps that circle my penis, right where the shaft meets the head. They've never caused me problems, but they are odd and I'm confused as to what they are. They'v...

Am I too tight?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - Hello, I'm a complete virgin, never been fingered or touched at all.. Whenever I've got Into situations (being alone with a guy etc) I've always completely freaked out and sometimes started crying.. I don't want to let the guy down. I'm scared of ...

My mum is ruining my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - First of all, I’d like to say that I am not a native English speaker so please, forgive my spelling mistakes! Sooo, here is the story. I am 24 and I live at my mother’s place with my younger sister (16 years old) – and no father - after spending 6...

Could his girlfriend have deleted my message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - ok so i sent my ex boyfriend a text message on a! iphone 5 asking if our little girl has been ok because she wasnt feeling the best! he also has a iphone and told me he never received the text and showed me a screenshot to prove it! cant remember if ...

My wife won't have sex with me anymore and won't tell me why not

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I think the title says it all. We have been married for 7 years, together for 10 years, and the sex went from twice a night (which is normal in a honeymoon phase) to never over the course of 2 years. Over the last 5 years we have not had se...

'Tears' in my foreskin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

21 November 2014 (M) - hi, quite recently i have noticed 3-4 vertical 'tears' on the topside of my penis right on the tip of my foreskin, it is now painful to retract my foreskin obviously i cant have sex or masturbate... i am very hygienic and shower every day and i am ...

Is my boyfriend not attracted to me anymore? Am I not good enough? Is he seeing someone that looks better than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - Ok so when me and my boyfriend met i was 15 pounds lighter, Iam still not overweight and look average for a 28 year old woman but i feel there is something missing and i can't figure out what it is. He used to be so into me and our sex life was ...

Is this normal in sex? I'm new to it and have no confidence in what I'm doing!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - So i have a question for the guys! If you have sex with someone and use the pull out method (i know not entirely sensible but sometimes it happens) is it normal to finish yourself off as it were?? This happened on a recent conquest of mine and being ...

I wish that life would give me a break!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - I need help, a friendly advice.. I have lost so much faith and strenght in life. I have been through a lot the past 15 years in my life. less than ten years ago, I started my dream education together with my ex boyfriend. But we broke up ( ...

Is he horrible or mentally ill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

18 November 2014 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for two years and it was great for 6 months but then something horrible happened to me and I became extremely depressed. My partner helped me through that although at times it was awful, I didn't know if it was all my ...

My wife hides vodka around the house.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

18 November 2014 (M) - Hi Biggy issue. My wife drinks every night. Varying from half bottle of wine to half bottle of half bottle of vodka.? She spends roughly £60 to £80 a month on booze. I myself don't drink. Havent done for 2 yrs. Had a mishap w...

I told him its me or the weed ...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - my boyfriend stopped smoking weed and recently he talked about starting back. but me on the other hand hate it and don't want to be around it. What should I do? I told him to pick me or weed and he says its up to me.. help!...

Does my boyfriend think he's too old for me and is using my health issue as an excuse to end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 months is a director of a company where he entertains potential customers at his house and as I am his partner he says that he expects me to come and help him, 3 weeks ago I had a IBS episode during one of these evenings and I said ...

My fiance and father of our child has revealed that he has fantasies about having sex with other women. How am I supposed to cope with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - What would you do/think if your fiance who you just had a baby with says he fantasises/wants to have sex with other women! One of the woman he sees around work and talks to. Hes never cheated as far as i know and says he only would sleep with oth...

Sad and confused. Wish I'd never met him. He was my first boyfriend, so why did he fail to give me support after he promised to help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Hey aunts I'm really sad and just confused. I'm a 23 year old college student who works part time. I've never had a boyfriend before, I just always thought if I waited than the right guy will come alone and I than too will experience my first bo...

Two weeks ago my husband joined a gym, and now he has no energy left for intimacy. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Just a quick one really... My husband and I have been together for a good 4-5 years and we have always had a good sex life (3-5 times a week) up till about two weeks ago when he joined a gym. I'm all up for him going and getting fit feeling bett...

Trying for a baby is ruining my marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been trying for a baby since our honeymoon one year ago...with no success. All hope is not lost at this stage, we've had tests done and the specialists are pretty confident we'll concieve if we keep trying, and that treatment ...

Text to an ex? I quit smoking!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - Ok so a guy I was seeing broke things off when he realised I smoked (really anti smoking as a close family member died) and he couldn't be with a smoker. A bit on I am thinking if sending him the below txt, thoughts? Hey, I just wanted to sen...

Do guys need to see women naked?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3667 days ago

12 November 2014 (M) - I find I can do without porn and don't want to support any porn sites. But if I go a long time without atleast seeing naked women, I start feeling bummed out, hollow, empty or dead inside. Is that normal? Could it have something to do with being ...

I fear my ex is going to die of his drug use!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3667 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I just ended a relationship with a guy who was going through a really dark time - he was on drugs, getting involved with lots of shady people, and he became verbally aggressive with me. That was the final nail in the coffin, making m...

I can't get over wasting my younger years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

11 November 2014 (M) - I seem to have given up hope on life for a while now, as in goals. Ambition and actually thinking I have a future. But I don't want to feel like this any more. I know little changes can make a difference ie going the gym, eating healthy a...

Herbal supplements for suppressing male libido?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

10 November 2014 (M) - I'm 18 years old, straight, and have never had a girlfriend, this hasn't bothered me until recently when I've begun to notice that my sex drive has seemed to increase as of lately. Now I realize that for most men an increased/regular sex drive is a ...

My alcoholic boyfriend has become a born again Christian and insists we marry

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - Hello everyone - I'm confused with the direction of my life. My alcoholic boyfriend of 5 years (and it has been a roller coaster ride of binge drinking destruction) has finally quit drinking after a 10 day binge which ended up with him in hosp...

He accuses me, he yells and shouts and pushes me, and he leaves!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I feel like I am going mad, no matter what I do I am wrong...am I wrong? I really hope you can help me as I feel I am going mad :( My husband and I have been through such a tough life together and it has certainly taken it's toll on me,...

My butt is not big enough for my boyfriend.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - The thing is, I have some insecurities about the size of my butt. I've been together with my bf for around 3 years and from the beginning he has wished my bottom was bigger. I have gained some weight (around 9 kg)and done exercise and as a result my ...

I'm tidy, she's messy, I know we will find a compromise but how do I bring up the topic without upsetting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3671 days ago

8 November 2014 (F) - Need some relationship advice. I'm a lesbian in a relationship for the last 7 months and everything is going really well. The woman I'm with is honestly the kindest, most caring, and nurturing woman I have ever met. I am madly in love with her ...

My husband has cancer and he's given up hope

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - Hi, here i am again. Asking your advice. Im 43 years old. My husband is 69. We are 10 years together and 7 years marriage. I love him and yes i know he love me too. The problem is 11 months ago, we found out that he has a stomach cancer, its a big ...

Does my crossdresser boyfriend have multiple personalities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-common-for-crossdressers-to-have-multiple.html Dear Cupid, I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years within the first 3 or 4 months of our relationship I knew that he was hiding something so I precede...

If domestic violence, in the past, has affected me, then where do I go for help in the UK to deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - Okay, so I haven't been on here for a while and after having a lot of thinking time I think I have finally cracked the code of something which I have been trying to work out for a long time, and it is very sensitive to me so please don't be too ...

It's become repulsive how much he thinks about sex. Is it different for men and women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3674 days ago

5 November 2014 (F) - So fed up and needing some advice, not criticism but some solid advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, we got engaged 2 years ago now, I'm settled lovely in life, got a great job, 2 great kids, and a lovely semi detached. My children are ...

I don't see my boyfriend and I moving in together should I walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

4 November 2014 (F) - I don't think my boyfriend and I will move in together, should I walk away ?. He has bipolar disorder. He recently moved into a new place. He doesn't seem to want to move in with me, and it could be difficult to live with him, as he has so many mood ...

The trip with my ex would ease my physical pain, but I don't want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3674 days ago

4 November 2014 (F) - My ex bf and I were together for about 3yrs. During that time I pretty much did every single thing for the guy and supported him in every way. Eventually, he had an opportunity to go abroad to a beautiful tropical place for work, which I sorted out ...

Is this a real doubt? Or a lack of self confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

4 November 2014 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a relationship of about 3-4 years. It is going strong at the moment, and next year we are looking to buy a place together. We have been living together for a few months. We broke up about 2 years ago for 3-4 months as a re...

I want to move back to my own country, but can't tell my boyfriend about it or he will kick me out! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

3 November 2014 (F) - I moved to a different country to be near family 4 years ago and i met a guy who helped me through some tough times. The problem is i was happy with the move at first but then i started getting sick of it. Fast forward four years - i havent been ...

Is oral sex harmful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

2 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend gives me blowjobs. Does it is harmful or bad for her???...

Is my husband bi-polar?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

1 November 2014 (F) - Does my husband have a form of bi-polar? I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We have 2 children. We've been through some rough times as my husband is very moody and has a negative and anxious outlook on life. He utters threats to...

Guys, is this a turn-off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

1 November 2014 (F) - Sometimes my vaginal discharge is very sour, very tart, like a vitamin C pill. Anyone else ever have that? Dudes, you ever notice that? I know it changes with time, it's not usually the fluid that comes with being turned on. What's it mean and is it ...

How many tears have to fall before my husband gives me a hug?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

1 November 2014 (F) - I've been feeling really bummed out about the way my husband responds to...well me being bummed out. Sorry to be confusing. For example today I took a big hit as I realized I missed the deadline for papers for a sizable sum of money...I had lots of ...