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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I'm 18 years old, straight, and have never had a girlfriend, this hasn't bothered me until recently when I've begun to notice that my sex drive has seemed to increase as of lately. Now I realize that for most men an increased/regular sex drive is a good thing, however for me it has become quite a nusance because one, I have no healthy/normal outlet for expressing my sexuality except masturbation and two, since I'm going into the military in a month for basic training plus technical school afterwards, also add in the fact I'm very quiet and have very mild social anxiety it'll be a very long time before I can get a girlfriend to have sex with. So my question is, what are some herbal supplements that reduce/suppress male sex drive? Preferably those that are easy to come by and I can buy at walgreens/GNC
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male
reader, wiseoldman +, writes (16 November 2014):
Your urges are normal; your desire to suppress them is not. Work on overcoming your normal adolescent shyness, learn to interact with women, find one to sleep with, and dare I say it, just let yourself grow up.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 November 2014):
My advice, EXERCISE!!
It will benefit you twofold, you will be FIT before going to basic and it will WEAR you out, plus you will get the benefit of looking fit and feeling better. Why do you think the military has a 2 HOUR morning PT? Not just to say fit, but to stay FOCUSED.
Your testosterone level is increasing and has been since puberty started. IT's NORMAL - even if it feels uncomfortable. ACCEPT that this is how a MALE body develop. It's PRETTY darn normal. SEXUAL urges are PERFECTLY NORMAL.
"Trying to kill" your libido or lower your t-levels is NOT advisable as LOW t-levels are tied in with heart disease.
Sorry, having "morning wood" and random sexual urges is part of growing up, instead of trying to "eliminate" it, MAYBE learn to take control of your body.
Welcome to adulthood.
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 November 2014):
I can't suggest anything OTC but I can recommend that you ask the doctor for some Paxil.
It's an anti anxiety anti depressive that totally destroys libido...
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 November 2014):
The military used to sprinkle salt peter (potassium nitrate) on the soldiers' food to stifle their sex drives. Not sure how well it worked tho'.
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female
reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (12 November 2014):
I am afraid there are none.
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