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Health: Help and advice

Job interview coming up soon. Feeling stressed, worried and overwhelmed. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I feel that I need some advice re. my stress. I have a job interview in a few hours and I feel overwhelmed with stress and worry, that I'm in tears and feeling nauseous . I don't have time to go and see a doctor at the moment. But I don't know how...

When ever I have sex with my husband I feel dirty!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I love my husband and I am attracted to him, but every time we have sex I feel dirty and cheap afterwards. We only have sex about once a month and it's lights out him on top. I still feel dirty and horrible afterwards. It's affecting our marriage, ...

How can I best cope with my insomnia? Is it that my kindle addictive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - Basic problem. Im staying up late, until about 1:00 am on my kindle. It's ruining my sleep schedule. Why can't I get off of this device and go to sleep? Help? Such a small issue, and I'm too tired to figure it out on my own. I know it's ...

My boyfriend wont take responsibility for his actions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Hi all. When my boyfriend has had too much to drink he can be very argumentative, he misunderstands things I say. Last week he asked a stupid question and I gave a stupid answer, he got angry, when I tried to explain he said he never said that. Then ...

How can I overcome my jealousy and my fears that he might cheat and my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Please help guys. I need to stop being so insecure all the time with my boyfriend, I'm so scared im going push him away. I just get so scared he's going to cheat on me or whatever do something. He hasn't really given me a reason to doubt him he t...

I think I'm falling out of love. What can be done to improve the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now but it doesn't feel like we're dating anymore. we dont go out much, we never really did, but we would always go to each others houses and hang out have sex and chill. i keep urging him to do ...

Four months of dating and he's giving me mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - Hello uncle and auntie's, I have posted a concern before regarding my four-month relationship with this guy. This guy and I have been together for four months and everything was going well it's just that he has and ask me to be his girlfriend. ...

Am I crazy to want a partner who desires me and finds me attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - I have been married 16 years and have been bothered by something that may seem trivial to some people. I am aware that all people will notice other attractive people but my husband seems to have a real issue with this and I have talked to him about ...

My online boyfriend shouts at me and hangs up, but I am lonely without him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy. We came to know each other through online dating website. It's been 1 year we have still not meet each other. In the initial 2-3 months he was very loving. He made me feel true love. He has been going through ...

My Gf never initiates sex. Makes me feel I'm the only one who wants it. How can I encourage her to initiate sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - For the ladies, Ive been with my babe for 4 going on 5 years and we had sex about 2 months ago and both lost our virginity to each other. Awesome! But the whole time we have been together I always (if not mostly) initiate our intimacy and as her ...

It's seven years since my wife allowed me to touch her breasts. What might help to help her resolve her issues over this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - How can I get my wife to be comfortable with me touching her breasts? Ever since our daughter was born seven years ago touching her breasts has made her uncomfortable and its distressing me. It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong and I do...

If we break up will he give up on our daughter too? I am tired of his abuse and his behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I know he treats me bad but sometimes some people re abusive because they love you too much, this is my baby daddy and he is emotionally abusing me. He left me pregnant and came back when baby was 3 months blaming me for making him leave. We ...

What's a 32 year old Virgin to do if he feels like a Nerd in his own community - if he wants to get girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - Modnote: I allowed 2 of the videos as I feel that they contributed important understanding. I did not allow the Fleshlight video. I watched all 3 videos before I allowed the 2 in. The rest below is from the Original Poster - - - - - --- Well..I n...

He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over. He's cold and distant. Is this relationship over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - He's lost his job and now I feel like we're over? My bf was the sweetest, caring and very attentive when he had a job. But he's lost his job 6 months now and he's just so distant and cold. He hardly calls or texts me. We argue every time w...

Is this the right course for me? Disabled wife, no sex for years. Now I have a platonic female friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

27 June 2014 (M) - I am a married man with a disabled wife, and I suffer from extreme caretaker's depression because of it. Recently I ran into a divorced lady of about my age, who used to be friend of my wife's (they turned out to be very non-compatible a...

I feel like I need him here to feel OK

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3837 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have a diagnosis of depression and anxiety. I have a boyfriend of six years. He is wonderful and looks after me well. However, whenever he goes away for the day with mates I get so insecure, anxious and uneasy. I don't want to stop him doing the ...

I called off the wedding. But how do I get past the guilt if I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I was until recently, engaged to be married. I called off the wedding because my fiancé yells a lot, is very stressed (life choices, poor planning, disorganization, plus regular stresses of job, kids, etc.), blames me and others for everything, ...

Etiquette for sex and periods??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have recently got a new boyfriend, everything's going well, but I have a question so looking for some advice for people in the same situation. We have a lot of sex, which is great, I'm loving it, especially after having none for a good few years...

Could this be a learning disability?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - I'm 23 and for some strange reason I've always struggled with my learnng throughout life. I fear I may be dyslexic, infact thats incorrect, I don't fear the fact of being dyslexic, I fear I will never find out whats wrong with me. I recently los...

He brought an 18 year old home and wanted a 3some. What to do to cope with my bad feelings over this?.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - I am dating a guy that I am crazy about, I am not what you would call a woman that has had the greatest track record with men, two divorces and several lost relationship problems in between with men and woman. Needless to say, been single for a wh...

Any suggestions for extremely painful periods?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

25 June 2014 (F) - Help! My periods are awful! They are so painful. I am currently on Tranexamic tablets for when I am on my period. It was okay when I first started them, but now they do not seem to be helping anymore. I went onto the pill and tried a few but I wa...

I am unable to achieve orgasm with my girlfriend. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3840 days ago

24 June 2014 (M) - Hi I am 21 years old and just gotten into a relationship very recently, we have had sex 3 times now, and each time I have been unable to reach orgasm, I think I have somthing called delayed ejaculation... When I lost my virginity I couldn't...

30 year old male virgin. Sexually frustrated and have Aspergers syndrome.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

24 June 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a shy and sensitive university-educated 30 year old male who suffers from a mild autism known as Aspergers syndrome. Owing to my social interaction difficulties (I am not socially popular and have no true friends),I have nev...

Is this normal for the pill or should I be rushing to the doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - Hello, I have been on birth control for 4 months now. At the fourth month my doctor upped the dosage to help rid of the spotting. I never really got a full blown period before she raised the dose. I missed my wednesday pill and took it thrusday...

Who shall I choose? My long term partner? Or the married guy from work whose wife treats him badly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3832 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I've been engaged for 6 months to a man who has doted on me for the last 4 years. He literally would do absolutely anything for me. We have a wonderful life together...we always cuddle, text, call, miss each other and go travelling lots, his hous...

Am I being unreasonable, to be concerned about my Gf's actions? She goes to parties when I'm away, gets flirty and drunk too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

23 June 2014 (M) - First off a little background on my girlfriend and I We are both in high school but go to different schools. During the school year we would go to parties on the weekends and sometimes if I couldn't go she would go without me. It never bothered ...

My husband wants me to act like a porn star and said I've ruined his life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My husband told me I was a fat disgusting pig! And he watches porn because I'm boring in bed and I have no ambition. These are things he has never said before to me ,we got into a fight and told me he needed to get things off his chest. I have ...

I am my ex boyfriend's booty call .....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend split up with me in February, because "he didn't love me anymore and the spark wasn't there".. He has been sleeping with ALOT of girls, and drinking ALOT! I have been sleeping with him still, but now I'm starting to get jealous and have ...

Their father did nothing when they were growing up but now he is "Mr Wonderful"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I was a single parent after my Ex walked out when the kids were 6 and 7. I made sure they had contact with their dad although in the early days it was hard to get them to go and one refused to go for over a year, mainly because of his new girlfrie...

The last time I got naked for a man the internet didn't exist ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Ok I need the brutal truth from men. I'm freshly back on the dating scene . The last time I got naked with a man for the first time the internet didn't exist ( at least not like today) and things were different. It seems highly likely that any man I ...

He is pressuring me for anal sex and he is out of my league anyway......

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I have just turned eighteen years old and I have been with my boyfriend for about six months. Recently he's been pressuring me to have anal sex with him. He goes on and on about it even though I've said no several times. He doesn't respect my ...

Issues with my boyfriend's relocation is causing stress.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3840 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I need real good advice stressing me out My boyfriend lost his mom whom he lived with June 9th this year we are neighbors same apt building him and his sister went back to Maryland for 2 weeks bome next weekend. They felt mom baby him to much and ...

My husband always was an agressive man but his cancer has made him worse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3842 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - Im so sad, very very sad, help me please. My husband is a cancer patient. Before this illness come, he is already soooo loud and so aggressive but it get more worst now that he is in this situation. My problem is, aside from being so loud and ...

I can't control my jealousy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3841 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - I am having trouble accepting how sociable my boyfriend is. He sometimes meets friends who are girls one on one for a drink, and he has a night out coming up with some friends he made at work (all girls apart from one guy) he is a very sociable ...

My long time friend is drinking herself into oblivion ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3843 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - Hi everybody. This is a touchy subject. My close friend of nearly 40 years is an alcoholic. I met her through my husband at the age of 17, his best friend was dating her. We went out as a four some regularly, she was my bridesmaid and v...

Side with my boyfriend or his grandma?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3844 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - Hi, Currently my boyfriend is away visiting his mother's side of the family who has never treated him right to the point of severe psychological trauma and constant hospitalizations. His grandma on his father side basically raised him more t...

Should I block him on facebook, and should I end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3844 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - I'm worried. My boyfriend is acting weird. He has Bipolar Disorder. He wrote to someone that sent him a letter recently. he put his address and phone number on the letter and he mentioned me. I'm worried because he has told me things about that man. ...

He's a recovering alcoholic, not yet divorced from his wife and 3 months post-breakup with his girlfriend. Is it reasonable to keep dating him and see how it goes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3844 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - He's a recovering alcoholic (2 years and 3 months, attends AA) He is separated for 2.5 years, not yet divorced, while he is paying his wife for the business they had together He broke up with his girlfriend 3 months ago. I have been seei...

I love him to bits, BUT..... am I being too jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3844 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - Hello.. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and I love him to bits. Now here's where I'm stuck. He is in a band so he practices evey sunday. That doesnt bother bother me. I support him. Recently, though, he told me he was going to ...

My husband, a veteran, has extreme anger issues

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3845 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I am well aware that no marriage is perfect. Mine is one example, but unfortunately, I think it has gone too far. My husband loves to spend money--two days ago he spent almost $900 on one single comic book just for the heck of it. There was th...

There is only one you!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - Why do some women think the key to a happy relationship or sex life is being beautiful? And why is their standard of beauty always the "clones" they see on t.v. or in porn? It's always some big boobed, long (extended) haired, extremely thin waist ...

Borderline Personality Disorder, I feel like he's always angry at me but he's not.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - Dear cupid, My boyfriend of a little over a year has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. He's seen psychologists since he was 10, anger management, therapy, medication, etc. (he's in his twenties now). Maybe I was afraid, ...

My boyfriend is insisting I go meet his parents and sister this weekend even though his mam said not to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3845 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing my boyfriend since august. Been official since december. I live in the north of england as does he, but is from the midlands. I know we havent been together too long but its going really well and i really think its guna last and i ...

How do I tell her without offending her about her wiping issue?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

18 June 2014 (M) - Hi I just started dating a new girl . The sex is great and we both oral fixated me giving and her getting . There is one problem she wants her anus licked which I usually enjoy doing but there is a problem with this she has a wiping problem back ...

Am I being a petty girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - So I'm in a relationship with another woman and we both have our own places. When I stay over at her place I bring my own towels but not toiletries. If I see she's out I go buy her some. Newayz I noticed she uses the same towel for days at her own ...

I just want to be confident and happy, so I need a nose job

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - I'm looking in to getting a nose job, all through my childhood i have been so self conscious of my nose, i am a pretty girl but the only thing that lets me down is my nose. Everyone i know says they like me the way i am but im certain i want a nose ...

No sex for 7 months and now blood?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3847 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - The first time I had sex I didn't bleed. Then felt I had problem and my BF thought I lied. I've had sex several times after then with him. I stopped having sex for about 7 months. Penetration became difficult when he tried, but eventually it ...

How can I accept being ugly?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3845 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - How can I accept being ugly? I'm too old to be wondering this. But I'm ugly, as a kid I felt awkward about my appearance and high school was hell with all the bullying. There are things I can change, like lose a little weight, take care of my ...

Lumps after shaving

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3848 days ago

16 June 2014 (F) - never had these lums on my vagina at first after shaving 5 month ago i notice the lump on my outside vagina im real stres pls help me. Its not sore either not itchy ...

Before I visit a doctor does anyone have any idea what this could be?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3846 days ago

16 June 2014 (F) - About two months ago I had sex and the lips of my vagina swoll up really bad. It was unfortable and it burned to pee. I haven't had sex since then. Then a little while after that I woke up and one side was swolen (I think I might have been playing ...