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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello.. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and I love him to bits. Now here's where I'm stuck. He is in a band so he practices evey sunday. That doesnt bother bother me. I support him. Recently, though, he told me he was going to start helping out the lead singer ( who is fairly new) with some of their stuff. She's a female and I dont like the fact that he would be alone with another female. It is no secret that I dont like him alone with other ladies. I'll admit that I get jelous and have anxiety attacks. Its not that I dont trust him because I really do. I just know he can do better than me and I'm afraid that he will realize it. Anyway, I finnaly agreed to it and he went last night. He was there from 5-8pm at her place. Right when he got there he told me he would text me afterwards. Part of my agreement was for him to keep me updated and to comfort me. He did the complete oposit. We got into an argument after and he told me I either deal with it or breakup. Am I wrong? Is it wrong for me to get jealous? Is it ok for him to be alone with another woman while I'm worried? He has never cheated in me so why do I get so jealous??? I feel like I'm going crazy..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2014): He's a very moral based guy. He doesnt have a big ego at all and I have met her before. He's not the only one whos teaching her either. He works in ghe city and she live closer to his work than his original practice spot so he says it's more convient. I really do trust him not to cheat but it still drives me crazy when he's with any woman alone. Is that wrong? Another thing I should add is I have cheated on him in the beginning of our relationship. Notjing sexual but cheating none the less. Could that be why??
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2014): Is he committed to the relationship? If so, he shouldn't have to be alone with another woman in her apartment. He should be handling business on band time. I don't buy it. I personally think any woman would be uncomfortable in your shoes and agree with letting him go if this continues. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2014): Any one in your shoes would think same like u do.i don't believe his excuse to teach her new stuff to stay at her place.ask him to introduce her to you and see how it goes...if he is reluctant to do so,u need to make a decision..
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