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writes:Why do some women think the key to a happy relationship or sex life is being beautiful? And why is their standard of beauty always the "clones" they see on t.v. or in porn? It's always some big boobed, long (extended) haired, extremely thin waist woman they are jealous of. Also, why do you want attention from the men who find these women most attractive? I've heard how these men talk about women who both do and don't fit this type, and it's vomit inducing. I would never want to be with someone who is capable of treating someone else so poorly, or even give them the time of day. What is wrong with being unique? There is only ONE you after all. Why would you want to trade that to look like someone else?
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reader, YoungButNotNaive  +, writes (10 July 2014):
 I like this, and it's true. I apologize for the late response, I don't check the articles section very often.
I think the reason women do this is because like you said, they THINK it will make them happy. The truth is, it wouldn't. No matter what they looked like, they would be insecure. I'm willing to bet even if they looked perfect, they would find something wrong with themselves. It's all about mindset. So likewise, you can not look "perfect", and be happy with yourself no matter what someone else says about you.
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"So, since some girls know this, they try to be curvy as they can, which in my personal preference, kind of pisses me off! Just be you!"
Actually, it's likely they are naturally curvy, so they ARE being themselves. Just because curvy isn't your preference, shouldn't upset you that some women are. While some of the thin women you find attractive are naturally this way, there are also probably some on a strict diet to be this thin, which technically is NOT being themselves. So if you truly want a woman to be herself, then you also want a naturally curvy woman to stay curvy. You can't have it both ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2014): Many men are somewhat judgemental about a woman's looks, but we will accept most any girls. Based on everything I've collected, most men don't like "chunky" girls. So, since some girls know this, they try to be curvy as they can, which in my personal preference, kind of pisses me off! Just be you! There's someone out there for you! Everyone can get someone. Believe me, I didn't get my first girlfriend until I was in high school. I thought it would never happen, but I just had to wait. And then I Got 2. You can do anything you want, and you will find someone. Women need to accept who they are, and find someone who likes them for themselves.
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