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writes:First off a little background on my girlfriend and IWe are both in high school but go to different schools. During the school year we would go to parties on the weekends and sometimes if I couldn't go she would go without me. It never bothered me that much, but now that summer has started she has been going to parties a lot. The last 5 nights she has gone to parties. I went with her on the first couple but I'm away on vacation and it's bothering me now. Maybe it's because I never was a huge party attendee, or that since we don't go to the same school I don't know many of the guys at the parties she's going to. But it's really bothering me that she's getting drunk at parties without me. Is that unreasonable? I trust that she won't cheat on me, but sometimes she gets really drunk which doesn't make things any better. Should I say something to her about it? I guess it just bothers me because she could cheat on me and I would never know since I don't know the people. Plus she tends to dress very suggestively at parties and when she gets drunk she forgets to pull her top up to keep her boobs covered enough. I've said something about that and she tried to tell me that she only dress like that when I'm there but I'm not stupid. I didn't believe that for one second. What're your thoughts?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (23 June 2014):
 Is this the girl yo'd like to be the mother of your kids? If not stay away from her She is on a path of self destrustion. Part ways ASAP
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2014): For starters, you should tell her something about her binge drinking because it is ruining her health. It is also, apparently, eating into your relationship because you don't seem to like it. You should also tell her that and if she cares for you then she should stop or tone the drinking down.
Her drinking is also impacting her dignity because you say her dress goes sloppy exposing her privates. While other guys may like a drunk undignified female either to look at or hoping to score, I think you should explain to her that such behavior is subtracting from her worth in your eyes and eyes of others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2014): I think you need to perhaps think about what you want? She clearly loves partying and is still very young. maybe you want different things - you seem a bit more mature than she does and perhaps thats why you get frustrated because you feel she should be doting to you 24/7. Thing is you are both young, and clearly she likes attention and doing 'young' things such as partying which I think you shouldn't blame her for, you are only young once. Try not to get so attached and relax a little - you wouldn't want her sat at home alone while you are on vacation - how is that fair?Definitely ask yourself if you and her want the same things in life - she obviously feels young and wants to go out with friends and party hard, you seem to want the settling down type of girl... Hope you can sort it out. You're young - theres plenty more fish in the sea - have some fun yourself! x
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