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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Can an STD like chlamydia make you sterile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - ok i have a std called chlamidia (not sure if thats how its spelled) ok well im getting it taken care of right now. but isnt it true that that std can make you infertile. how long would you have to have it before it did?...

Can I still have sex if I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I am 12 weeks pregnant with my first child, can i have sex while i am pregnant...

He said he wouldnt be a dad to our baby and so I had an abortion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I really dont know where to start...I need some advice. About 2 years ago I started seeing a guy who I thought was really nice. When we were together 8 months, I read his mobile phone messages. He was saying to his ex girlfriend that he loved her ...

I am confortable being frumpy, but want to be attractive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I feel a bit Bridget Jones writing this but I am truly feeling like life is passing by. I'm 35 and have one failed marriage of 13 years behind me - no children. I am comfortable in my own company but I feel like I am stuck between wanting to find ...

I am angry all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - hello i have a big problem with my fiance.the problem is that i am angry all the time with silly things.my childhood was bad i dont love my mother. i think something is missing in my life. i cant be happy. I am always unhappy. I am always angry on ...

Do you have to take the pill at the same time every day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I just started going on the pill and was wondering how important is it to take it the same time each day? Im pretty sure my doctor said that you dont have to take it at the same time everyday, its just easier cuz it helps u to remmeber it. But then ...

I think the size of my japs eye is too big!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - Im not that old, Im getting to that age where im wanting to start doing sexual stuff. The problem is my japseye, sometimes, especially when my penis erect, its really big! instead of looking like a slit, its more like a circlular hole, and it can...

Should I keep shaving myself like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Dear cupid hi im 15 and I have a big problem because it effects my looks alot i love the felling of the razor on my skin ans have bein shaving my vagina since pubity i always shave my legs armpits and that but one day when having a bath i fel...

How can I break this vicious cycle? I need a miracle, I need to find my way back to how I used to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I've got bipolar disorder and most of my life I've been clinically depressed. I'm on medication for many years now, but you know what? When your life is miserable and sad then there cannot be no magic pill to make you feel better. I've got a PhD, ...

What does cut and uncut mean, penis-wise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - whats the difference between a cut and uncut penis?...

I smell more when i wear a thong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I was wondering if anyone else had this problem. When I wear thongs I stink more down there and then when I dont where thongs I dont stink much. Does anyone else have this or had this problem and what do I do about it?...

What food effects the taste of my cum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend says that when he goes down on me and he tastes my cum he says sometimes it is sweet sometimes it is bitter and sometime it is nothing. What food do I eat to make that happen cause I dont understand it. He likes when it is sweet so does ...

My boyfriend is paranoid... how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is showing signs of depression and has extreme paranoia and refuses to do anything about it saying it's just always going to be there and no one can help him. He had a very disrupted childhood; his parents left him when he was 6 months...

Quickest ways of losing weight.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - whats the quickest way to lose weight? im 14, size 12 and weigh 11 stone and i hate the way my body looks. everyone around me and most of my friends are thinner than me and i hate being the big one. ive tried loads of diets but none of them see...

Never had sex but my period is late, why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Hello, Im 15 Iv Never Had Sex Of Any Kind, But My Period Is Late.. Im Always Regular And Come On Ever Month Which Is Why Im Abit Worried.. The Thing Is I Cant Remember When I Was Due On But I Know I Am Late.. What Can This Be?? Im Abit Worrie...

It's only two inches.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - im 25 year old and my problem is that my penis is only 2 inch so i dunno how to please a woman i tryed to have sex with my 1st gf but i couldn't please her nor myself so she cheated on me my question is how can i fix this problem cus now im too ...

It there any way my sister can stop talking in her sleep?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - dear cupid my sister sleep talks in her sleep and does not know what she saying. is their any way of stoping this?...

My girlfriend and I still haven't had sex. She's never in the mood!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - Hi there. I've been with my girlfriend for about 1 year and 2 months. We still havent had sex, we're both 18. She isn't "in the mood" very often and we always stop half way through foreplay because she isn't in the right frame of mind or she g...

I'm really under weight. I'm scared, but I won't eat.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - im really under wieght i come in about 6 stone maxium i dont fit in to anything im below a size 0 in the uk im scared but i wont eat...what should i do?...

I'm 14, how do I ask my parents if I can go on birth control pills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - how do you ask your parents for control pills when you are my age. wich is fourteen....

Why won't my boobs grow?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - It is almost August 2007 and I have had my period since Febuary, i was lucky i just got it in grade 10. But it has been almost 7 months after i got my 1st period and my boobs are still the same size??? when will I grow!!!What can i do to help them ...

Some questions about the contraceptive pill

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - I was wondering if I am on the pill is it safe to have sex unprotected and I mean with the same person all the time? Would there be any chance of getting pregnant? How long after I am off the pill would it take to get pregnant? Just wondering with ...

Whats supposed to happen and how will it feel when I orgasm ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Helloo.. well this is a bit of an embarrassing question. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months now and we have recently started sleeping together. I can make him "come" but I dont seem to myself..this is the embarrassing bit i dont ...

My wife has gone to be with her terminally ill mum, but shes not a care for me, Ive got problems too!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - my wifes mother has terminal cancer and she has gone to be with her which is what i wanted for her to do. The only thing is that i feel that im out of sight out of mind i have an eye problem and could go blind with in 5 years started treatment but ...

Am I allergic to this dandelion tea, I have been drinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - Hi, just wondering if any of you have been through this and can help before i visit my G.P. About 2 months ago I drank dandelion tea everyday for a week because I was sick of my body retaining water. I got no result and so stopped, until 2 days ago ...

Is it just because i'm working to hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I'm 23, female, and in a commited relationship for about 4 yrs now. My boyfriend and I have lived together for about the last 2yrs. I really love him alot, and believe that he will someday be my husband (which I kind of wish was sooner then later) ...

I have developed a need to be with my husband all the time. I miss him even when he goes to work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - Ok some of you may think this isn't a problem but really it is. I'm missing my husband even when i'm just at work and its getting worse and worse. It all started when i went on a school trip to this activites place which was for 5 days(i'm a teacher ...

Its been 4 months since I had my period.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I'm 16, about to turn 17 in a month, and I've had my period since I was 13. The last time I had it was about 4 months ago. I'm a virgin, but I've done oral on only one guy and gotten oral from 2, and both of their penises almost went in me. Not ...

When you have to pee why do you get an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - when you have to urinate why does your penis get hard...

I am 25 and really scared of sex due to a painful past

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - Im 25 and i am really scared of sex, i was abused when i was a teenager by a family member and physically and mentally abused by an ex boyfriend. it has always affected my relationships with men past and presant. I ve recently meet a lovely guy and ...

My jealousy and pettyness ruined one wonderful relationship, and now is threatening another! How do I stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

26 July 2007 (M) - Hi there,, Ive read many of the posts and can relate to many of the tales of horrible all consuming jealousy, and Im amazed and ashamed that I actually feel a little bit better reading these posts and in some way feel close to you all, just today I ...

How can I best overcome these issues and stop it damaging our relationship!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - I hate two things: 1. Pornography (and men leering)– it makes me feel sick. If my partner wants to watch something on tv etc which falls into this category it makes me angry. He also likes me telling him stories about my past and I dont like it....

Is there any way a physical and abusive husband can ever change ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - Hi all! i would like to know if there is any possibility that a verbally wrong/abusive and psysically abusive/bully husband can become 'normal' with time? (he does not drink, no drugs). if so, how long can this 'transformation' take? how can on...

She's got an Std, but isnt going to tell her boyfriend!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - I have a friend who has herpes. She got herpes when she began to have unprotected sex with her fiancee who didn't deem it necessary to tell her that HE had the disease. Needless to say, they are no longer engaged, but she does have this life long...

Advice please on oral sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - what is oral sex, how is it done.can someone get pregnant after oral sex or get infected with hiv...

Update on my 16 year old son who can't stop dieting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6335 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - A followup on the question I asked a few days ago concerning my 16-year-old son and dieting: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/recently-i-found-out-off-a-good-friend.html I spoke to him again about it, and he insisted the "bikini beach diet" was ...

My girlfriend is on the pill but 4 hours after we had sex today she said she was bleeding, without pain. Why is this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - hi. me and my girlfriend have been making love for about 7 months now. and shes on a certain pill cant remember the name., but today about 4 hours after we made love she told me she was bleeding but there was no pain, we had no idea what it was does ...

What's the difference between a circumsised penis and one that's not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - Whats the difference between a cut and uncut penis ??...

My period is so heavy I sometimes can't even walk

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - hi.. my period last for 10 days with severe bleeding, i can't even walking sometimes. is this normal? if not what's causing it?...

Recently I found out off a good friend that our 16-year-old son has become addicted to dieting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6336 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Recently I found out off a good friend that our 16-year-old son has become addicted to dieting - or rather, a particular type of diet. He's become very interested in the "bikini beach diet" that a well-known tabloid did (look up "bikini beach di...

Does the contraceptive injection stop your periods completely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - hey, i want to go on the contraception injection, i was woundering does this mean my periods will stop for aslong as it is effective? ...

Want to lose weight by not eating.

This question has 49 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...

I'm having strange symptoms, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - i am 21 and not on birth control, me and my partner have been togther for 6 years. anyway my last period was 30/05/07 and usually lasts 5 days, however i missed junes period and am now 3.5 weeks late. took a pregnancy test last week and was ...

Gender confusion and I need some help! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - Ever since I was younger I have wanted to be female. I'm 19 now and male. I have a girlfriend as I am attracted to females but also am fascinated by wondering what it would feel like to be with anyone with male organs(male/tv etc). Am I gay? Or ...

Raped by my ex last night.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Hi, need advice and help please. I was raped last night by my ex, i let him in as he said he wanted to talk, anyway we were chatting normally he then tried it on, told him i wasn't interested, he forced himself on me. I couldn't fight back, i froz...

I am skinnny and my family's rude comments about that, really hurt. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I am very tall and naturally quite skinny-I do not exercise or diet and eat what I want. I am so fed up on everyone putting down slim people and making statements about "real womanly bodies" - as if being a size 0 somehow makes you less of a woman. ...

What's the chance of getting pregnant while on the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - ok what are the chances of getting pregnant on the pill and how can i tell when are my most fertile days?...

Only one of my fingers fits inside me and it smells 'fishy' down there; is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - When I finger myself only one finger fits up, is that normal? Also i would like to let my boyfriend finger me but down below usually smells of fish, is this normal?...

If you don't swallow during oral, can you still get and STI?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

22 July 2007 (F) - you can get an STI from giving head i know, how ever if you dont swollow, does this mean you cant get one? ...

I think I had an anxiety attack after an argument; do I need medical help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

22 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I had minor disagreement. I was upset and after about 10 minutes i begin to feel a tightness in my chest, shortness of breath, and my heart was racing. I felt sick to my stomach and I thought i was going to faint or die. I think i ...