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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

Can a former party boy settle down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3132 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hi. I am a 44 year old man who fell in love with a 49 year old man. He has been in several long term relationships, but since the last one broke up 4 years ago, he has really fooled around a lot. I mean a lot. He's on all the hookup web sites...

I wanna experiment with my best friend, how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Ok, Im straight always have and never thought of the same sex in any matter but im and open minded person about gay lesbians different cultures and all and i have alote of friends and family that are gay or bi bt i wouldnt never thought it would be ...

How can you tell if someone is gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) - Hey how can you tell if someone is gay/lesbian , coz i cum from a town where everyone is not open bout things and im just wondering me being lesbian how am i meant to know if sumone i like is gay . i couldnt go up and ask them coz you just cant go ...

Am I crazy for staying?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - My wife and I share 2 gorgeous children and we are coming up to 12 faithful years together. Over the past fortnight she has revealed to me that she has fallen for a female work colleague. My wife has had a very sordid past with many men and women. I ...

I've got a whole lot of perversions and moral failings that I'd like to disclose to the girl I'd probably get involved with. How do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hello World, I've got a question that I think I already know the answer to, but would like some reassurance with all the same (or other answers if any). It's about a woman I've been getting close to (in a strictly non-GF/BF way), and would like g...

I have days where I like both guys and girls. Then I have days where I like just girls.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Im only 17 and i dont know if im Straight, Bi or Gay. this can sound weird but i enjoy watching Gay porn, but i wouldnt want to do it in real life, i would only do it if something changes my mind, for years now I've loved this girl and i still li...

How do I know if these bisexual feelings are real or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So, this is one of those clichéd questions again. Sorry. I'm bisexual, or I think I am. I know that I have an attraction to some girls and I think I have fallen in love with one before. My question though is, how can I be sure? It's quite hard ...

My boyfriend can watch my one night stand but I don't want him to join in!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I'm bi-sexual and have been with my boyfriend for seven months. I've had past relationships both physical and emotional with other women and I desperately want to have another physical one night stand with a woman. Now, my boyfriend is the...

I have a girlfriend but sometimes wonder what would it be like to have sex with a man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Hay folks, got a little problem and I hear you the people to answer it. Me and my girlfriend are great, we laugh, we have fun, we spend time together, we have sex. Its amazing. But every now and then I find myself wondering what it would b...

My gay best friend traded me in for a new girl friend!

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30 January 2011 (F) - i have been going through a on and off friendship with my best friend guy... he is gay.. we were so well in the beginning of last year but ever since a new girl came into work with us... he has change he spends more time with her.. and seeing them ...

I feel like my soul left since the day we broke up. I can't get over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I am writing again, because I feel like I have no one to talk to about my problem. To rehash my story, the love of my life left me almost 4 years ago after being together for almost 5 years long distance. I have not been able to get over her. ...

Which states perform legal lesbian marriages? And is the marriage upheld if we re-locate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Does anyone know what states perform lesbian marriages, and if the marriage is still considered legal, if the married lesbian couple relocates to a state that doesn't uphold lesbian marriage? My girlfriend proposed to me yesterday, just ...

My lesbian friend suggested we have sex before I can be her gf. Is this how it operates?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I'm a virgin and a lesbian. There's this girl who goes to the same college as me and she's also a lesbian. We met in our history lecture and have become tight. She's been out for 6 years and has had lots of girlfriends. She keeps telling me that...

Could he actually like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Theres this guy in my class. He's been out with a few girls, but not many. I recently moved to his class and now we spend alot of time together in school. I really like him but the problem is I'm a guy too. I'm openly gay at school, and he ...

I'm going to give him space, but what do I do to get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - My ex boyfriend and I were going out for nearly 7 months. he broke up with me last week and we are on good terms. We've agreed to be 'friends'. And he still does talk to me The reason he broke up was because he just wanted to be single. but he doesn...

I want to fix our relationship and be a better girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Ok.. I am going to make this short and sweet and I hope there are other people out there that can relate.I am a lesbian and I am completly IN LOVE with my girlfrind. We have been together for going on 2 years now and I cant picture my life w.o ...

I told her I was in the university but I'm not. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I'm a 17 year old lesbian and a couple of weeks ago met this gorgeous woman at a bar. We really hit it off, kissed, exchanged numbers and haven't seen other since. We've been texting since that night, but the only problem is I told her I was in ...

Bi-sexual male living in a homophobic area, how do I ask this guy out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - I am bisexual male living in a fairly homophobic area I see openly gay people routinely made fun of, and it outright scares me. I haven't had much luck with girls, and sometimes when there's a guy I fancy, I really want to ask them out, but afraid ...

I'm falling for a tomboy...

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26 January 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do with my feelings for another girl...We're 18, seniors in high school and extremely close friends. We hug and cuddle when we're alone or at other friends' houses. She's the total tomboy with pixie short hair and baggy ...

Do I sound like I am a lesbian?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - So, I thought I was sure on my sexuality. But, lately I feel like I'm not a lesbian. Or I don't know where my feelings point to. Because I find both boys and girls attractive in 'that' way. But then again, lesbians aren't blind, and neither are ...

He acts like he likes me but always joins in on gay bashing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

26 January 2011 (M) - Ok, so i'm kinda in a pickle. I'm a 17 year old bi male and there is this friend of mine who I really like. He seems to like me also, but I really am not sure. The problem is that teen guys seem to "gay around" with each other, but this seems like ...

I've coped a feel twice now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Oh where to begin, I am at a loss as for what to do. I am a young (17) bisexual male. I have a huge crush on a guy, and to be honest I think there is chance he might be gay/bi too. I am not proud of this next sentence but, when it was really cr...

I find guys attractive until they pull their pants down!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I find guys attractive until they pull their pants down. And I find that I'm only attracted to guys with a rather feminine appearance. And I wouldn't mind kissing a guy (as long as he has no facial hair + he has feminine features). But male bits ...

Girl masturbation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Is it just me or is using a vibrator a lot better than using your hands or fingers when you masturbate? is that a lesbian thing to use a vibrator? :s...

I regret moving my ex back in, I want her out tonight!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - So right to it.I made a huge mistake feeling me and my ex gf could start off fresh. She lost her job which was my opening to start fresh. She moved in with me 2 months ago but I'm not feeling it. I want her out but she doesn't have the money or any ...

Bisexual and proud!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Im bisexual and proud! i like girls and boys, i cant understand why people are a afraid to admit it, you are what you are and you shouldnt hide away from that. there is nothing to be ashamed of, i've had sexual experiences with girls and boys its ...

I used fake pics online & met a girl. I want to tell her the truth, but I'm scared. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I recently met a fantastic woman over the net but i made the stupid mistake of using someone elses (who looks like me a bit) pics as im a little insecure on how i look! we chatted over the phone for 4 months and we've been talking about seeing each ...

In love with my straight friend, could we ever happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

25 January 2011 (M) - Hi I am a gay man in love with my straight friend. I have always denied it to anyone because, We are both in relationships and never strayed but we are always flirting even his missus jokes about it. Nothing has ever happened between us but ...

Does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Well... There is this girl, and At the beginning of the year on the first day of College she and another student are talking us through what it is like to be at the college. The whole time when I am not looking at her, she is staring at me, a...

I do manly things, does that mean I'm a lesbian?

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24 January 2011 (F) - I am eighteen years old and ever since i was sixteen, i have been struggling with the fact that i might be bi sexual. I did not know when i was sixteen but as i am approaching nineteen, i am starting to forget that i wanted to keep it under raps. ...

I'm crazy about him but not sure if he's gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - I'm a 17 Year old male and I am bi. I am absolutely crazy for my best friends younger brother, who is 14. This may sound creepy, but he's not a typical 14 year old, much more mature than average. I have known him for a while and have just gotten ...

My dad is having a relationship with my math teacher!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 January 2011 (M) - I am very confused and I need help! I'm 19 and my parents are divorced since I am 9. I live at my mom's but my dad lives in the same small town... A few days ago, I went to a party and decided to go sleep at my dad's cause it was closer. I...

What if I never meet anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 January 2011 (?) - heyy well my other problem is i know im only young but im scared of never meeting someone as there are no bisexuals or lesbians in my year and im scared that the next 4 years or whatever of my life im gunna be alone and not be able to experiment and ...

Should I propose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I need some advice about my relationship and whether or not we're ready to be engaged. I have a great relationship with my boyfriend of two years now. We are compatible in almost every way, same interests, passions, life goals and incomes! ...

HELP ! 13 and think I'm a Lesbian !!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 January 2011 (?) - Please can sumone help me imediatley please im really confuzed rite now because im 99 percent sure im lesbian ,and ive told most of my friends ,but 1 of them thinks im going through a phase but I have felt like this for over 2 years and at the ...

Is it weird that I'm a lesbian but not a huge fan of hanging out with other lesbians?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Hi, lesbians! I am a lesbian and I'm openly gay in the place that I live. :) Okay so, in my area, there are A LOT of lesbians and everyone knows one another. Like, I'm serious, every lesbian just happens to know EVERY OTHER lesbian. Well...

I have a crush on my same sex friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

21 January 2011 (M) - About 2 and a half years ago when i was 13 (now 15and a half) i was thinking about a boy from school who at the time annoyed me, then i just had a thought of him kissing me and i had a wonderful feeling inside and at first i denied it, however as ...

Am I bisexual because I want to kiss a female?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - Lately i have been having this thought about wanting to kiss a female for the very first time, i am sure this is normal but i guess i never have because i think females dont like me, is it because i dont have the lesbian look or is i have to come ...

Is it a phase or is it for real?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

21 January 2011 (F) - This may be a bit long, so I'm sorry in advance for that. Lately I can't seem to be able stop thinking about a certain girl at school. I barely know her, and she's older than me, but every time I look at her i feel so gay it's unbeleivable. just...

How do I tell this girl that I am not interested without coming out of the closet? And what should I do about my crush?

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21 January 2011 (M) - I am a gay guy and my problem is that theres this really beautiful girl who goes to high school with me has been crushing on me like a real major crush. im closeted and i wish to remain closeted so she doesnt know that im gay.Well this girl is like ...

How to win him over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone,im a 21 year old gay guy and i am madly in love with a guy who goes to work with me.Well i am no hottie,well i have kinda pretty eyes and long legs but i am not very hot.But this guy who im talking about is like the sexiest man in this ...

Am I lesbian or have I just not found the right guy yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5054 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I am definitely attracted to girls and boys but I am just not sure if I'm a lesbian or not! I'm still a virgin but I've kissed both, but have never been in a relationship with either because I'm quite self-conscious at 17! The thing is, the guys ...

Why is she ignoring me... is she taking me for a fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - Hello, sorry this might be long but i need help!! i am in a relationship with my lesbian girlfriend and we are very happy together. My best friend is also a lesbian and is in a relationship with lets call her lisa, well when i first met lisa about 2 ...

Is he still faking or is he desperate? Or do you think I've surmised his real reasons?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Well, I'm 15 and gay, and probably full of overused cliché, but I was with a guy for 9ish months, then he broke it with me. Obviously I was distraught, considering he was the first person I'd had feelings for, first person I'd ever been with, and a ...

I'm wondering if I could be gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - i'm a male in my twenties and i'm confused about my sexuality, i think i might be gay. i started being confused about it within the past 2 years but before that i was sure i was straight but since then i have had dreams of being with another man and ...

2 gay crushes, who to choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I'm sixteen years old and I'm homosexual. I've never had any kind of relationship, it's harder because I have a very specific taste on guys. Currently, I have two crushes and I was never that positive about my chances. There's this one year younger ...

My girlfriend hides texts from her "friend"!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my partner for a little over a year now and we live together. She is 7 years older than I am, but all in all I would say we have a great relationship; I really love her and she tells me that she loves me all the time. However recently ...

Am I gay, bi, straight, or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. I need your opinions. A year ago i started *asturbating on gay porn, I wasnt really attracted to guys, I just wanted to see it. And me, stupid idiot, kept doing it, cos I thought "Ah So what, I can stop anytime". I also did it on some ...

Crush trouble.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Okay heres how it goes.I am a fifteen year old gay guy and i have a crush on a fellow guy who goes to school with me and i am more than sure that he is gay.Well he is really shy,and all and he easily blushes around hot guys.So no doubt there.But the ...

Am I now gay instead of bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - Help!!!!! Right, i have had feelings for boys for two years now and thought i was bisexual however i havent been able to get a boner over a girl for about 2 weeks but i have easily over boys. help!? Please! I think i may be properly gay instead of ...