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I regret moving my ex back in, I want her out tonight!

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Question - (25 January 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

So right to it.I made a huge mistake feeling me and my ex gf could start off fresh. She lost her job which was my opening to start fresh. She moved in with me 2 months ago but I'm not feeling it. I want her out but she doesn't have the money or any family to live with. Top if off she has kids. I'm sneaking behind her back with the girl I'm planning to live with until I can get her outta here. It's getting complicated because sometimes I force myself to have sex with her so she won't get suspicious. We're not official but she's jealous. I will put her out in the cold before I lose the girl who I love. How do I get my ex gf out!?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011):

And the girl you happen to love at the moment is watching all this and really going to want to live with you after she watches this play out?

Really?

You have bigger problems that an unwanted housemate.

If you want to act like a decent human being, tell your official girlfriend/housemate/ex girlfriend that you are cheating on her. That at least will give her the will to move out and you can talk about her leaving in an open and honest way.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (25 January 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntI agree with Honeypie, the sooner you tell her the sooner she can start making plans to move her family out of your place. Be honest and fair, and try to act honorably with your other girlfriend until the ex is out of the picture.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (25 January 2011):

Honeypie agony auntWell, I think you are being slightly cold hearted here. If you don't WANT her to live with you and you don't want to be with her TELL HER!

But seriously... you need to give her some time to find a new place for her and her kids. Set a deadline YOU are comfortable with.

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A male reader, Dataluke United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2011):

Dataluke agony auntYou need to be frank with her, its the only way.

Tell her the truth but don't mention your new lover, you should keep that quiet for now. Take an active role in helping her find a new place and getting her back into work. Your going to be her friend from now no, nothing more.

I hope I've helped in some way.

All the best, Dataluke

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